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Topic: Happiness
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Mon 02/13/12 03:11 PM




Every decision we make has some selfish motavation.

If in you're selfishness, YOU make others happy too......

HOW can that be wrong???????

bigsmile :wink: bigsmile


I agree. I am going to do what makes me happy and if I can make someone else happy in the process; that is just icing on the cake.


Gravy on my.....Biscuit!!!!!!


Now why does gravy and biscuits sound so good to me right about now? laugh


I don't know......But now I want......Cake!!!noway

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Mon 02/13/12 03:38 PM





Every decision we make has some selfish motavation.

If in you're selfishness, YOU make others happy too......

HOW can that be wrong???????

bigsmile :wink: bigsmile


I agree. I am going to do what makes me happy and if I can make someone else happy in the process; that is just icing on the cake.


Gravy on my.....Biscuit!!!!!!


Now why does gravy and biscuits sound so good to me right about now? laugh


I don't know......But now I want......Cake!!!noway


Well that settles it. You bring the biscuits and gravy; I will bring the cake. bigsmile

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Mon 02/13/12 05:57 PM
Edited by MariahsFantasy on Mon 02/13/12 05:58 PM
mad


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Mon 02/13/12 07:05 PM
Happiness means a multitude of various things to different kinds of people. I can't think of anything better than being able to write, sing and perform music and to have someone to share it with. I could spread happiness all if around if that did it for me.

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Mon 02/13/12 07:08 PM


Is it wrong to find your happiness in others?


I would say it's delusional. If you look for your happiness in other people, you are going to be disappointed. Over and over and over. Happiness -- in my opinion -- must be entirely self-derived, self-generated, and self-rooted. No one should put that kind of responsibility or expectation on another person.





totally

noone else MAKES us happy, but people can sure drain the happiness we make for ourself,,,lol

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Mon 02/13/12 07:34 PM

Is it wrong to find your happiness in others? Whether its caring, loving or friendship. Noticing them. Does it make you a selfish person to want to make others feel happy and have the happiness returned?
:heart: I can tell you this much,,as YOU do that,,and do THAT and DO THAT,,here I have lived THAT,,and it is at times so powerful of all that you have to give. That it starts taking away part of who YOU ARE..THIS WORLD,,feeds off of others NEEDS,,and the giving, seldom is returned,,yet,,we can't change who God made us as,,to be..
SO we go forward,,until we have nothing left of who we were to continue:heart:

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Mon 02/13/12 07:46 PM
I don't live my life and dreams through someone else. I'm NOT my mother. ill I'm just the person that likes showing how I feel when it feels good. Is it so bad to show them positive projections of you inner most feelings? I guess I was a wee bit confused when I asked the question. This is what I really meant.

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Mon 02/13/12 08:07 PM

I don't live my life and dreams through someone else. I'm NOT my mother. ill I'm just the person that likes showing how I feel when it feels good. Is it so bad to show them positive projections of you inner most feelings? I guess I was a wee bit confused when I asked the question. This is what I really meant.


then provide us with a link to your songs

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Mon 02/13/12 08:09 PM
I'm confused and in need of a snack

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Mon 02/13/12 08:18 PM

I don't live my life and dreams through someone else. I'm NOT my mother. ill I'm just the person that likes showing how I feel when it feels good. Is it so bad to show them positive projections of you inner most feelings? I guess I was a wee bit confused when I asked the question. This is what I really meant.


This sounds quite a bit different than what you said in your OP.

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Mon 02/13/12 08:24 PM


I don't live my life and dreams through someone else. I'm NOT my mother. ill I'm just the person that likes showing how I feel when it feels good. Is it so bad to show them positive projections of you inner most feelings? I guess I was a wee bit confused when I asked the question. This is what I really meant.


This sounds quite a bit different than what you said in your OP.


Just clarifying what I meant in simple terms. I didn't mean the literal meaning of do you think you're going to find happiness in someone else? I think its a little weird.

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Mon 02/13/12 08:26 PM


I don't live my life and dreams through someone else. I'm NOT my mother. ill I'm just the person that likes showing how I feel when it feels good. Is it so bad to show them positive projections of you inner most feelings? I guess I was a wee bit confused when I asked the question. This is what I really meant.


then provide us with a link to your songs


Its not completed yet. When it is, I'll let everyone know.

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Mon 02/13/12 08:33 PM



I don't live my life and dreams through someone else. I'm NOT my mother. ill I'm just the person that likes showing how I feel when it feels good. Is it so bad to show them positive projections of you inner most feelings? I guess I was a wee bit confused when I asked the question. This is what I really meant.


then provide us with a link to your songs


Its not completed yet. When it is, I'll let everyone know.


awesome....looking forward to it

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Mon 02/13/12 09:34 PM




I don't live my life and dreams through someone else. I'm NOT my mother. ill I'm just the person that likes showing how I feel when it feels good. Is it so bad to show them positive projections of you inner most feelings? I guess I was a wee bit confused when I asked the question. This is what I really meant.


then provide us with a link to your songs


Its not completed yet. When it is, I'll let everyone know.


awesome....looking forward to it


I am a novice at this stuff, I have lyrics, have been trying to write music, so its coming along. bigsmile

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Mon 02/13/12 09:46 PM

Is it wrong to find your happiness in others? Whether its caring, loving or friendship. Noticing them. Does it make you a selfish person to want to make others feel happy and have the happiness returned?

No, my lover. The impulse to want to make people happy is a sign of a good heart. The Nihlists and other crank philosophers like to claim that doing things to help people because humanitarianism leads to subjective happiness constitutes "aggression", but I don't take that stuff seriously. Love you! flowerforyou love :heart: smooched smitten

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