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Hello everyone, I hope everyone is having a pleasant evening. I have a question and don't really feel like beating around the bush.
So here it is..... lol! So..... how do you tell your mate about their " NOT SO FRESH SCENT" if you get my meaning. I mean really...! how do you tell your mate " ummm... lmao I dont want to hurt her feelings and I really like her so..... anyone? |
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this aught to be interesting
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 sorry...I had to laugh Just tell her you can smell an order...maybe she has gotten an infection or something? I honestly think she'd be happy that you told her, it will keep her from being embarrassed in public. |
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I would be honest and upfront with her. I wouldn't be loud and ignorant and yell it out in public or anything, but I would let her know there was a problem she had to take care of. It is possible they may not be aware of the issue or its severity. If you truly care for them, you would let them know, in a caring way of course.
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This is one of those situations where there is no right answer. If u tell her she is gonna be mad, because she will be embarassed, and if u don't tell her and she finds out from someone else, she is still gonna be mad, because u knew and didn't tell her. So just come out and tell her, because in the long run she'll appreciate it.
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Edited by
1SOPHIAIUX
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Thu 02/09/12 06:25 PM
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I think you are caring and sensitive.
Friendship is letting others know what is great and what is not so great! Id like to balance things ..sweet and boldly. Just as you are saying : not beating around the bush! I agree that an infection and many times not thorough personal hygiene ( doing things in a rush -- like even brushing teeth- seems the person is not taking care of "basic care". Despite the fact he/she does. There is professional help. My favorite natural remedies.. So, that's my way of thinking: balance, so what is said is not only a discomfort or "down side". I'm sure, you'll find the proper time. The other thought is: ..." I like to lead by example"...playful ways.  |
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...ok, wow.
I'm hearing some weird responses. First off, if she's with me. WHO is going to find out that it stinks outside of me?! That means.. She'll find out, alright, when I blast in on youtube for cheating. Second odd reply. Tell her... nicely? How the h... Is there a nice way to say, 'Girl your ***** smells like 30 year old roadkill in the desert.'? Third thing. "...she'll be less embarrassed in public.." Who lets their chick whip out there va-jay-jay in the crowded restaurant? o.o What you dating Willis, a porn star? If so, then you know why it stinks already. ..you could shower with her.. clean it for her. That's always kinky, sweet, and satisfies both parties involved. If the smell persists, it is something.. else. ...of course, all that aside. There are a few other techniques. One. You could make it like it's more recent, and you are telling her out of concern; instead of proclaiming, it's always stank. That way she should be more concerned on getting it straightened out, over blaming you. Because it could, ultimately, be something physical. Two. Ignore it and deal with it. Three. The shower scene. Four. Stick your finger in her, then under her nose and ask.. "What's this smell like to you? Death or Butterscotch." But hey, that's just me. |
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Four. Stick your finger in her, then under her nose and ask.. "What's this smell like to you? Death or Butterscotch." But hey, that's just me.
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Take a shower together!! And wash it for her :) then go down there and tell her how much better it is clean. then she should get the hint!
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Thu 02/09/12 06:52 PM
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This is one of those situations where there is no right answer. If u tell her she is gonna be mad, because she will be embarassed, and if u don't tell her and she finds out from someone else, she is still gonna be mad, because u knew and didn't tell her. So just come out and tell her, because in the long run she'll appreciate it. or because no matter what he does, she's gonna be mad so he might as well get it over with depends on WHAT scent is bothering him though - and whether it's anything she can do anything about....some guys don't like the ummmm "female" aroma. I don't feel sorry for them. |
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Take a shower together!! And wash it for her :) then go down there and tell her how much better it is clean. then she should get the hint! ..that's what I said sexy lips. 
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This is one of those situations where there is no right answer. If u tell her she is gonna be mad, because she will be embarassed, and if u don't tell her and she finds out from someone else, she is still gonna be mad, because u knew and didn't tell her. So just come out and tell her, because in the long run she'll appreciate it. or because no matter what he does, she's gonna be mad so he might as well get it over with depends on WHAT scent is bothering him though - and whether it's anything she can do anything about....some guys don't like the ummmm "female" aroma. I don't feel sorry for them. So, very very true. So long as it doesn't taste like it smells. As a big devourer of the --- Ahem, I mean.. >.> As a big visitor to the-- Damm, that don't sound right either. -.- As a guy who has given a lot of females 'head'. >.> <.< It can smell one way yet still taste like roses. <.< Ok, well.. Roses might be stretching it. That and idk wtf a rose actually tastes like.. Oh you get the idea. -.- |
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you could shower with her.. clean it for her. That's always kinky, sweet, and satisfies both parties involved. That's what I do, it's fun to shower together and you can make sure the area you like are clean.. |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Thu 02/09/12 06:58 PM
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This is one of those situations where there is no right answer. If u tell her she is gonna be mad, because she will be embarassed, and if u don't tell her and she finds out from someone else, she is still gonna be mad, because u knew and didn't tell her. So just come out and tell her, because in the long run she'll appreciate it. or because no matter what he does, she's gonna be mad so he might as well get it over with depends on WHAT scent is bothering him though - and whether it's anything she can do anything about....some guys don't like the ummmm "female" aroma. I don't feel sorry for them. So, very very true. So long as it doesn't taste like it smells. As a big devourer of the --- Ahem, I mean.. >.> As a big visitor to the-- Damm, that don't sound right either. -.- As a guy who has given a lot of females 'head'. >.> <.< It can smell one way yet still taste like roses. <.< Ok, well.. Roses might be stretching it. That and idk wtf a rose actually tastes like.. Oh you get the idea. -.- yup open mouth & extract both feet that were earlier inserted
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Damn Shanique is that your azz smellin like that? You need to douche that thing.......
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Damn Shanique is that your azz smellin like that? You need to douche that thing....... this ^ unless she done already tried that and he's just a wuss he don't tase no better |
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op, sweetest has a point.
Has she always smelled like this or is it a new smell? lol sorry, made myself laugh when i typed that |
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exactly I mean she could have a yeast infection or soemthing - in which case she prolly doesn't feel much like sex anyway.... or even vaginitis which could cause a bad odor but if it's the normal - already washed - female scent that he is having trouble with - he needs to get over it.... jmho |
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Ask her, "Have you been in a sushi bar recently?"
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yup open mouth & extract both feet that were earlier inserted Que? Come again? o.o |
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