so you call me yesterday once again crying about
how horrible you're new man is, you break up with him
and then go back a few hours latter and never call me
to let me know what going on.

Today you come and tell me we are nothing any more
and that you no longer want to have sex with me.

the you invite me over, tell me to bring a towel
give me kisses and tell me you love me.

I know you have issues, but this is really
starting to affect my sanity as well.

Cut her loose daddytime and find another. I did to mine in December and I am in tremendous pain now, but time will heal all wounds. And I can find one who doesn't play games like that.

thank you, would be a lot easier if we did not have kids
and if i was not required to supervise her visits with them.

I see your complication. I did not have to supervise my ex so it was easy to drift apart. My gf is the one who just ripped my heart out, but have it ripped out once to having it done many times as it was is preferable to me. I don't know how you can solve your dilemna.

I thought her having a new boyfriend would help
us drift apart, but nothing changed. I am extremely
loyal so if started a new relationship that may
help, but I am not ready for that yet.

Just sucks that she runs to me for every little thing,
then goes running back to him with love and affection
and says hurtful things to me.

I am doing ok though for the most part, she just always
seems to know how to take that away once i start feeling
to good.

i would have preferred the pain to be a one time thing to,
and yes I could easily give up the sex, but even with all
her issues I still love her and get weak and want any little
piece she is willing to give me.

I don't know what to do and I know i bring a lot of this
on my self, so any advice on how to get my head together
would be greatly appreciated.

telling her to hit the road and only see the kids great
idea, that's not my issues, my issues is to stick with that
plan and not break down and not worry if she hurts if i do it.

that's my main issues I am always worried about hurting
her because of her issues, I know a lot of what she says
and does is not her. i don't know is there such things as
caring to much.

thanks and sorry for blabbing on.

Well I've cut off all contact with my supposed gf cuz she was doing the same thing: professing love for me and giving to another. I don't like being played and felt it best to not see her or call her. You having her kids makes that rough to do, but just as much as I want to run back and get what I can I do not. Somehow you will have to do that too, and putting yourself out there for another is a good way to give you some strength if you can transfer your feelings to a willing partner.