Is waiting until marriage an OUTDATED CONCEPT? Most men are not ready to marry a virgin, teaching them the awkwardness for the first time, the blood they dont wanna see or deal with, most men want an experienced man in the bedroom that will sex them up like there is no tomorrow. They are not ready for the virgin thing my question is, is it a big turn off nowadays?

I think, it is an outdated concept to most, because I think most people dont see sex as any more special than going out for a drink

just something to do to have fun


and I think most people view sex as a skill that is constant from partner to partner, believing 'experience' will make someone better
as opposed to learning each person has different physical turn ons and offs and learning those in a new partner is part of the joy and learning it together is what can create a bond like no other,,,

Exactly what is so great about a virgin?

I want to know.

I am guessing that it is a cultural thing

Around here...virginity ony matters when you are still kids.

As a full grown and pretty experienced adult....I don't have any desire to deal with virgins. They are like training a puppy who has no idea what it's doing. They are terrible in bed and if they ain't got laid..chances are they aren't old enough to even know how to cook.

I don't think anyone should have sex before they feel ready for it. If you care enough for someone to marry them, it should not matter if they're a virgin. There is nothing wrong in being a virgin at all - no one should have sex just to say they did it - it needs to be a more meaningful expereince than that

Yes, it is an outdated concept. People are also waiting longer to get married these days.

It depends on many things......your faith, your love, your heart, your wishes, your environment, and your values..........only an individual can answer what matters to them......then consideration of diseases, etc.

HA so harsh, let us appreciate them,though they are miniscule, the pressure in our society is not helping matters.