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Topic: i like old men i mean men, lets say 20-40 years older than i
esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Thu 02/02/12 08:39 AM
the woman has made her selection. and a fine selection it is i may add

Kallmesaucie Joined Thu 10/27/11 Posts: 54	Thu 02/02/12 10:09 AM
Because they "understand" you? :/ Someone must be twisting your arm. Can't see how an older guy, can understand what a young woman goes through. They say anything as long as they plan to have sex with you. Why should you let them use you just cos they're going through a midlife crisis? These types are more trouble than their worth. They like to cause drama, cos their ego is going downhill. They have competition. Know what you're getting yourself into. Good luck :/ i have me a couple of them they are quiet interesting

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 02/02/12 01:27 PM
Ugh... that's not a bright move. Generally speaking they're the same "kids" that you know now.... only older. jmho at least they wont cheat or give me hard times! He He, yeah right. Older men don't cheat? What planet are you from?

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Thu 02/02/12 01:33 PM
Ugh... that's not a bright move. Generally speaking they're the same "kids" that you know now.... only older. jmho at least they wont cheat or give me hard times! He He, yeah right. Older men don't cheat? What planet are you from? I wouldn't cheat on her..

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 02/02/12 01:35 PM
Ugh... that's not a bright move. Generally speaking they're the same "kids" that you know now.... only older. jmho at least they wont cheat or give me hard times! He He, yeah right. Older men don't cheat? What planet are you from? I wouldn't cheat on her.. Unfortunately; you don't speak for all older men. Some do and some don't.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 02/02/12 04:07 PM
Ugh... that's not a bright move. Generally speaking they're the same "kids" that you know now.... only older. jmho at least they wont cheat or give me hard times! He He, yeah right. Older men don't cheat? What planet are you from? I wouldn't cheat on her.. Unfortunately; you don't speak for all older men. Some do and some don't. Is it not a fair assessment to say MOST do and SOME don't? Could be wrong. I am a woman after all.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 02/02/12 04:18 PM Edited by navygirl on Thu 02/02/12 04:21 PM
Ugh... that's not a bright move. Generally speaking they're the same "kids" that you know now.... only older. jmho at least they wont cheat or give me hard times! He He, yeah right. Older men don't cheat? What planet are you from? I wouldn't cheat on her.. Unfortunately; you don't speak for all older men. Some do and some don't. Is it not a fair assessment to say MOST do and SOME don't? Could be wrong. I am a woman after all. No, I think its unfair to say most do. I will stick with some do and some don't. That is a fair assessment.

massagetrade Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 8505	Thu 02/02/12 04:54 PM
Ugh... that's not a bright move. Generally speaking they're the same "kids" that you know now.... only older. jmho at least they wont cheat or give me hard times! Um.... maybe you are talking about some specific older men you know who are more honest and loyal, compared to some specific younger men you know who aren't. But dating older men is no guarantee against cheating.

parttime_vikingfan Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 894	Thu 02/02/12 05:04 PM
WOW........ alot of man slamming going on here. Is it justly deserved? It really seems to me that you take a chance no matter the age, no matter the sex. All this negativity doesn't put most of the women on this topic in a very good light. Is this how you really feel??? This really got to me I must admit, I like to believe that I am an honorable and noble man after all that I have learned and experienced in life so far, and that I am headed in the direction of perfection. To think that a man can only be trusted when he is to dried up to do anything and should only be with a woman who is old enough to "Handle him", so to speak, or if he is with a younger woman she will surely be exploited, kind of burns my butt.

delilady Joined Fri 07/24/09 Posts: 23825	Thu 02/02/12 05:34 PM
Because they "understand" you? :/ Someone must be twisting your arm. Can't see how an older guy, can understand what a young woman goes through. They say anything as long as they plan to have sex with you. Why should you let them use you just cos they're going through a midlife crisis? These types are more trouble than their worth. They like to cause drama, cos their ego is going downhill. They have competition. Know what you're getting yourself into. Good luck :/ i have me a couple of them they are quiet interesting You have a couple of them? Do they know about each other?

Teditis Joined Sun 03/07/10 Posts: 3597	Thu 02/02/12 06:10 PM
Just to be clear... for my own sake... I don't care who ya' date. Race, age gender... whatever. I was just say that their "years gone by" (or age as it's also known by) doesn't = wisdom. Older dudes aren't always wiser. Experience and discretion, consideration and integrity matter too. You wanna date older dudes... more power to ya'... I didn't mean to slight you on that. Sorry for that. But I'll tell ya... I've been dumb about certain things most of my life... age didn't cure it. Meeting other people with different mind-sets... with me keeping an open mind... well that made better changes in me. So here's mine again.... age doesn't equal maturity. I wish you all the Best

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 02/02/12 06:17 PM
WOW........ alot of man slamming going on here. Is it justly deserved? It really seems to me that you take a chance no matter the age, no matter the sex. All this negativity doesn't put most of the women on this topic in a very good light. Is this how you really feel??? This really got to me I must admit, I like to believe that I am an honorable and noble man after all that I have learned and experienced in life so far, and that I am headed in the direction of perfection. To think that a man can only be trusted when he is to dried up to do anything and should only be with a woman who is old enough to "Handle him", so to speak, or if he is with a younger woman she will surely be exploited, kind of burns my butt. Isn't it true that some men (older or younger) cheat and some don't? Why would it get to you unless you fit into that category? I'm sure the women here were speaking from experience, so why would that put them in a bad light?

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Thu 02/02/12 06:19 PM
So the chick respects an older generation... I am good with it. She is right about older guys generally being loyal. (Obviously, not all of em are...... but, alot more than the younger cats)

massagetrade Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 8505	Thu 02/02/12 09:10 PM
WOW........ alot of man slamming going on here. Is it justly deserved? It really seems to me that you take a chance no matter the age, no matter the sex. All this negativity doesn't put most of the women on this topic in a very good light. Is this how you really feel??? This really got to me I must admit, I like to believe that I am an honorable and noble man after all that I have learned and experienced in life so far, and that I am headed in the direction of perfection. To think that a man can only be trusted when he is to dried up to do anything and should only be with a woman who is old enough to "Handle him", so to speak, or if he is with a younger woman she will surely be exploited, kind of burns my butt. Its just a few people venting, I wouldn't take it personal. Those people's past experiences has nothing to do with who you are. Most of us know that. ------------------- Isn't it true that some men (older or younger) cheat and some don't? Why would it get to you unless you fit into that category? I totally agree with the first sentence. I assumed that this was not the sentiment he was responding to... but maybe I'm wrong. Anytime someone falsely generalizes or makes unwarranted attacks it can get to someone who expects better, regardless of whether they have latent guilt. ------------------- She is right about older guys generally being loyal. (Obviously, not all of em are...... but, alot more than the younger cats) Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. As a trend, not universally.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 02/02/12 10:04 PM
WOW........ alot of man slamming going on here. Is it justly deserved? It really seems to me that you take a chance no matter the age, no matter the sex. All this negativity doesn't put most of the women on this topic in a very good light. Is this how you really feel??? This really got to me I must admit, I like to believe that I am an honorable and noble man after all that I have learned and experienced in life so far, and that I am headed in the direction of perfection. To think that a man can only be trusted when he is to dried up to do anything and should only be with a woman who is old enough to "Handle him", so to speak, or if he is with a younger woman she will surely be exploited, kind of burns my butt. Funny how you only picked out the women's comments. Take a read again and you will see what some of the men wrote and they are saying the same thing.

ybcat1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 530	Thu 02/02/12 11:17 PM
Ugh... that's not a bright move. Generally speaking they're the same "kids" that you know now.... only older. jmho at least they wont cheat or give me hard times! I know a guy who's 55, on his third marriage and cheating now. I feel so sorry for the third wife, me and the second one could have told her, but I don't interfere in other people's lives.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Thu 02/02/12 11:26 PM
SOME,,might say,,,OH,,Like a SUGAR DADDY? SOME,, might say,,OH,,Like old--meaning ready to die? SOME,,might say,,,OH, glad YOU HAPPENED BY,,, and SOME,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,just read these things here?

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 02/03/12 07:53 AM
Ugh... that's not a bright move. Generally speaking they're the same "kids" that you know now.... only older. jmho at least they wont cheat or give me hard times! I know a guy who's 55, on his third marriage and cheating now. I feel so sorry for the third wife, me and the second one could have told her, but I don't interfere in other people's lives. Yep, I know a guy 58 on his second marriage and cheating.