Topic: Lets go topicless... - part 120
BettyB's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:18 PM

I could never do that! I have just been working a lot and nursing a bruised ego. After 3 months the guy I was seeing decided I lived too far away and he didn't have the time to commit to anyone. No arguments or disagreements. Maybe the gas prices rising ruined itlaugh Then I met another guy who wanted to spend every waking moment together so that was a no go! I've decided I'm not cut out for this dating stuff!

Awww Jayne, sorry to hear that.
Was that Dale? Are you doing ok.?

delilady's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:19 PM
I had to work all weekend. I was in a store at 4:30 this morning. They had a Grand Opening at 6AM. These people stood in freezing cold weather from 4AM to get a free bag of groceries. I hope there was chicken soup in there for the colds they will catch. I worked until noon and had a 3 hour drive home. Tonight I feel very OLD!!

delilady's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:22 PM
Yes it was Betty and I did like him a lot and he seemed to like me. We talked all the time and we were together just about every weekend but I think the 2 hour drive one way killed it. It is a shame but that's life. I'm fine but it did hurt. It was like getting punched in the stomach.

BettyB's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:23 PM

Well it's good to see you backflowerforyou

Sorry about the guy that you were seeing..I thought you liked him a lot..

Dating is the pits, huh?

Some men are just idiots!!Plain and simple.

BettyB's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:27 PM

Yes it was Betty and I did like him a lot and he seemed to like me. We talked all the time and we were together just about every weekend but I think the 2 hour drive one way killed it. It is a shame but that's life. I'm fine but it did hurt. It was like getting punched in the stomach.

Trust me, I know that feeling only too well.
But anybody that can write somebody off so easily is not really a worth while person.

vivian2981's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:27 PM

I had to work all weekend. I was in a store at 4:30 this morning. They had a Grand Opening at 6AM. These people stood in freezing cold weather from 4AM to get a free bag of groceries. I hope there was chicken soup in there for the colds they will catch. I worked until noon and had a 3 hour drive home. Tonight I feel very OLD!!


Wow...I bet you were tired! But you're NOT old.

delilady's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:28 PM
Hey I decided when I started dating that there would be no tears. If someone doesn't want me then I wouldn't want to be with him either. I am not going down that road because no man is worth my tears. I guess that sounds cold but it is my philosophy

Optomistic69's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:28 PM


Well it's good to see you backflowerforyou

Sorry about the guy that you were seeing..I thought you liked him a lot..

Dating is the pits, huh?

Some men are just idiots!!Plain and simple.


I agree with you...I wouldn't include myself in that group of course.

Hello Jayne ...their lossflowerforyou

delilady's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:30 PM


I had to work all weekend. I was in a store at 4:30 this morning. They had a Grand Opening at 6AM. These people stood in freezing cold weather from 4AM to get a free bag of groceries. I hope there was chicken soup in there for the colds they will catch. I worked until noon and had a 3 hour drive home. Tonight I feel very OLD!!


Wow...I bet you were tired! But you're NOT old.
Thanks Vivian. I had to take a nap when I got home. Tell my aching body I'm not old.laugh It is screaming for a wheelchair and BenGay

delilady's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:31 PM



Well it's good to see you backflowerforyou

Sorry about the guy that you were seeing..I thought you liked him a lot..

Dating is the pits, huh?

Some men are just idiots!!Plain and simple.


I agree with you...I wouldn't include myself in that group of course.

Hello Jayne ...their lossflowerforyou
Thanks Tim. It was fun while it lasted and at least I had a date for New Yearslaugh

BettyB's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:31 PM

Hey I decided when I started dating that there would be no tears. If someone doesn't want me then I wouldn't want to be with him either. I am not going down that road because no man is worth my tears. I guess that sounds cold but it is my philosophy

Good for you Jayne!!!
I love your attitude.
Applause , Applause. applause.
take a bow Girlfriend!!

Can you remain friends?

vivian2981's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:31 PM

Hey I decided when I started dating that there would be no tears. If someone doesn't want me then I wouldn't want to be with him either. I am not going down that road because no man is worth my tears. I guess that sounds cold but it is my philosophy



Cold??? No, not at all..Sensible? Yes!!...Why live the rest of your life crying? It's too short..You have to live your life on your terms.

BettyB's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:32 PM
Hey Irish Timflowerforyou
How are you doing?

vivian2981's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:33 PM



I had to work all weekend. I was in a store at 4:30 this morning. They had a Grand Opening at 6AM. These people stood in freezing cold weather from 4AM to get a free bag of groceries. I hope there was chicken soup in there for the colds they will catch. I worked until noon and had a 3 hour drive home. Tonight I feel very OLD!!


Wow...I bet you were tired! But you're NOT old.
Thanks Vivian. I had to take a nap when I got home. Tell my aching body I'm not old.laugh It is screaming for a wheelchair and BenGay


laugh laugh

delilady's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:35 PM


Hey I decided when I started dating that there would be no tears. If someone doesn't want me then I wouldn't want to be with him either. I am not going down that road because no man is worth my tears. I guess that sounds cold but it is my philosophy

Good for you Jayne!!!
I love your attitude.
Applause , Applause. applause.
take a bow Girlfriend!!

Can you remain friends?
I guess. We have spoken since we ended it and it is friendly. I told my friends I can't date anymore because they all end up as friends. I am now starting a collection of "guy friends"laugh

delilady's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:36 PM
Well Friends I am going to watch the Academy awards and fall asleep in the middle of it I am sure. Take care and have a good night!flowerforyou

Optomistic69's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:37 PM

Thanks Tim. It was fun while it lasted and at least I had a date for New Yearslaugh


That is more Than I had so..One has to live in the moment..

BettyB's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:39 PM


Hey I decided when I started dating that there would be no tears. If someone doesn't want me then I wouldn't want to be with him either. I am not going down that road because no man is worth my tears. I guess that sounds cold but it is my philosophy



Cold??? No, not at all..Sensible? Yes!!...Why live the rest of your life crying? It's too short..You have to live your life on your terms.

Right on Vivflowerforyou

vivian2981's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:40 PM
Good night Jayne...get some restflowerforyou

Now Irish...you know you partied hard on New Years!laugh

BettyB's photo
Sun 02/26/12 04:40 PM



Hey I decided when I started dating that there would be no tears. If someone doesn't want me then I wouldn't want to be with him either. I am not going down that road because no man is worth my tears. I guess that sounds cold but it is my philosophy

Good for you Jayne!!!
I love your attitude.
Applause , Applause. applause.
take a bow Girlfriend!!

Can you remain friends?
I guess. We have spoken since we ended it and it is friendly. I told my friends I can't date anymore because they all end up as friends. I am now starting a collection of "guy friends"laugh

Thats great! I say if you don't want to be my friend then don't be my enemy.