Y IS IT THAT GUYZ THINK ON THE FIRST DATE U HAVE SEX ???? Y DO GUYZ GET IN A RELATIONSHIP ... IN CHEAT???? IF U KNO U WASTNT READY Y WASTE THE BOTH OF OUR TIME .... ????

Some guys do, some guys don't.

Hope that helps.

works for me, and you didn't have to yell to get your point across

LOL NO NOT REALLI CUZ UR NOT ONE OF THOSE WHO DO SO U WULDNT KNO....

LOL @ ESEBULLDOG ITS NOT LIKE DAT ... DOEEE IN WAT U MEAN IT WORKS FOR U...

(it works for me) his answer was satisfactory

*typing in all capital letters suggests one is yelling

Look. The world is ending in 2012. Us dudes just want to have it all before we all turn to dust.

Ese is kidding YOU about your letters all being in Caps....CAPS!,,,


and as for ME,,I DON'T think that way at all,,BUT THE LADY SURE HAS BEEN ALLABOUT THAT WITH HER WANTING TO GO THERE..

So,,me thinks,,it depends on WHO',,,hasn't been getting some the LEAST,,,

lmao yall sooo wrong ... @GOOFBALL NO ...

don't be scared, just hold on to the one who has promise eternal life.... (Christ)

Ever hear of, 'that's how my momma raised me?'

I'm sure you have.
Anyway...

That's how it goes in his experience.
If he gets with chicks and they put on right away.
You soon grow to 'expect' it.

Why guys cheat?

Oh, that's easy.

Mainly it breaks down into some rules (so to speak).

1. Boredom - Guys tend to drift when faced with the same, boring crap each and every time. You lay on your back, lay there like a dead fish, it gets old. Not saying you are like that, just saying. Boredom is a number one cause.

2. Other Women - Men can have really low will power at times and women seem to sense this vulnerability and attack. Sometimes it's after an argument, or the dude just ain't having the greatest of days; he may stray.

3. Lapses - In judgment. Sometimes, they just think with the wrong head. Doesn't mean they don't truly 'care', but it is a sure fire sign they don't love you. If they loved you, you'd be at the tip-top of their memory bank so when introduced to temptation, they know to walk away.

4. Alcohol - Although I think it's a pretty weak excuse, I can't ignore the fact that people can get severely intoxicated to the point where they don't realize what they are doing.

5. Addiction - Do I need to explain this one or does the word nymphomaniac sum it up for you?

6. Openness - Some guys believe in the 'open relationship' aspect of being with someone; however, if you are not into the whole open thing, maybe you should clear it up before he just 'assumes' it's okay. This of course is assuming he's been involved in one of the relationships.

7. Hatred - The overall lack of respect of the female gender. Somewhere during his uproots, he may have just grown a distinct hatred for the female species. Breaking hearts is the best way to make them suffer that is still 'legal'. It can also stem from the whole lacking of getting 'mommy's love and affection'.

8. Leo - The Leo Complex. The desire to be the center of attention at all times. Sometimes they take it too far to get that attention...

9. Idiocy - A guy who is cheated on, may do the same to the next person they are with as if attempting to hurt the one before, but obviously, that won't work.

10. Submissive - Sometimes there are people who don't know how to use the word, 'No'. I don't mean just in the aspects of saying no to sex, but I always mean in regards to dating someone. Like you ask him out, instinctively, he says yes, and soon later, realizes, that's not what he actually wants. This goes hand in hand with...

11. Rejection - He doesn't know how to break up with you, his feelings have diverted elsewhere, so when you can't find a way to break up with her... have her break up with you.

But what if he's just saying that to get sex on the first date?

maybe b'cos they love body-adventure.

Hey, I'm a leo.

12. A mans gf/other half didn't sit down with him and tell him.. "If you cheat, I will cut your balls off and feed them to farm animals out in the country."

then i will tell him to wait till Christmas day.

Good one. Make him wait for his birthday.

Date?

SEX?!?!

WHAT????

Maybe it's me....or maybe it's because I'm older and have known a lot of different people....but the guys who will do that to woman are easy to spot a mile away.

It may sound harsh, but maybe you need to learn the signs. Don't allow yourself to be taken for a sucker.

Many of those men either a) look for the easy target, or b) play the odds, i.e. they'll work an entire crowd until they stop being rejected.

Harshness number two (and this is a really consistent observation): many "players" target overweight women. It's a cross-over between the odds (different spin) and the easy target in their eyes. They figure most guys will ignore the heavy woman, so there's less competition. Plus, they figure, because the BBW is typically overlooked, she'll be more desperate for a man.

I don't think what they do is right by any stretch of the imagination. Rightfully, the blame belongs all on them. The sad truth though is that to protect yourself against such sleazy men you have to take the same advice as you would when entering an unfamiliar area with a bad rep. That is, don't act like a victim. These men are looking for prey, and have a hunter mentality. If you don't seem like easy prey, chances are they will usually avoid you. After all, most of them don't want to have work too hard for it.

So don't think any of this was written to be rude or to insult you. I've known plenty of @$$holes, some of whom are really nice guys EXCEPT when it comes to women. It comes with the territory when you work in bars, and have friends throughout the biz. In fact, you have no idea how many times I've heard lady friends complain about sexual harassment in the restaurant/bar biz....and often I knew the guy who harassed them too. Hell, one guy used to cheat on his wife with his employees by flying them to Vegas (from New England) for a weekend, all expenses paid....and maybe something extra for waitress. Talk about sleazy...

I'm a Leo too love.
It's just one of our many awesome traits..
Well, depending how you look at it.
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