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Topic: What is the first thing you notice in others
samsultan07 Joined Sun 01/15/12 Posts: 113	Tue 01/17/12 01:51 PM
eyes and smile for me. Like you nice smile

samsultan07 Joined Sun 01/15/12 Posts: 113	Tue 01/17/12 01:52 PM
I would say, first the way they look, then their attitude which can make them beautiful ..... .or ugly! Even someone who is not all that attractive can be an amazingly beautiful person...... Yep this and how they carry themselves which can sometimes portray how confident they are as a person. 100%

Bushidobillyclub Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 5689	Tue 01/17/12 01:55 PM
honesty. Self honesty seems most important. Rationalizing isn't attractive. I almost expected you to say that.. ..if you didn't, then I'd be disappointed, lol. And no, for clarification; not meant as an insult. Good! Then I am staying on messg!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 01/17/12 03:46 PM Edited by navygirl on Tue 01/17/12 03:47 PM
For me its the eyes and a nice smile.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Tue 01/17/12 03:56 PM
beard.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 01/17/12 04:09 PM
There eyes.......Until they start talking....

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Tue 01/17/12 04:16 PM
Her sense of humor. She HAS to have one..... Then her Eyes!! Then I check the rest of her out!!!

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 01/17/12 04:18 PM
Her sense of humor. She HAS to have one..... Then her Eyes!! Then I check the rest of her out!!! Do you start at her eyes and work your way down?

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Tue 01/17/12 04:19 PM
Her sense of humor. She HAS to have one..... Then her Eyes!! Then I check the rest of her out!!! Do you start at her eyes and work your way down? Usually!!!!

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 01/17/12 04:25 PM
Her sense of humor. She HAS to have one..... Then her Eyes!! Then I check the rest of her out!!! Do you start at her eyes and work your way down? Usually!!!! Then once you're at the bottom, do you work your way back up to her eyes?

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 01/17/12 05:55 PM
Her sense of humor. She HAS to have one..... Then her Eyes!! Then I check the rest of her out!!! Do you start at her eyes and work your way down? Usually!!!! Then once you're at the bottom, do you work your way back up to her eyes? Leigh...I'm curious too

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 01/17/12 06:30 PM
I would say, first the way they look, then their attitude which can make them beautiful ..... .or ugly! Even someone who is not all that attractive can be an amazingly beautiful person...... I don't think most people see things that way........ most people judge a book by it's cover.......never looking to see the contents on the inside...... I definitely agree! A really cute guy can totally lose his attractiveness in an instant depending on attitude general overall personality/attitude/outlook (whether it's positive and honest) is the first thing I notice after his smile

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Tue 01/17/12 06:44 PM
Her sense of humor. She HAS to have one..... Then her Eyes!! Then I check the rest of her out!!! Do you start at her eyes and work your way down? Usually!!!! Then once you're at the bottom, do you work your way back up to her eyes? Eventually!!!!!

novastarr82 Joined Tue 01/17/12 Posts: 13	Tue 01/17/12 09:51 PM
demeanor, if they are trying too hard its kind of a turn off. laid back and easygoing is cool wid mee. i like guys who are confident but sincere. a sign of playing games makes me wanna play too! so ya, confidence means-the way they think of themself doesnt matter if they are goodlooking or not its all in the attitude. whatevers going on upstairs is the most important.

Peacemon Joined Mon 01/16/12 Posts: 35	Tue 01/17/12 10:02 PM
Of course like most people i notice a lovely face. But afterward I look for personality. She has to have a good sense of humor.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Wed 01/18/12 12:40 AM
Of course like most people i notice a lovely face. But afterward I look for personality. She has to have a good sense of humor. uummmmm the face??? Oh I thought it was the BODY ....... LOL

Peacemon Joined Mon 01/16/12 Posts: 35	Wed 01/18/12 12:44 AM
Of course like most people i notice a lovely face. But afterward I look for personality. She has to have a good sense of humor. uummmmm the face??? Oh I thought it was the BODY ....... LOL Yeah I guess thats true. well then i speak for myself. Eyes lips and nose!!! Gotta be good on a girl lol

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Wed 01/18/12 06:31 AM
i dunno

samsultan07 Joined Sun 01/15/12 Posts: 113	Wed 01/18/12 01:43 PM
Her sense of humor. She HAS to have one..... Then her Eyes!! Then I check the rest of her out!!! Do you start at her eyes and work your way down? Usually!!!! Then once you're at the bottom, do you work your way back up to her eyes? The people which they used to see only donwn never see up

Peacemon Joined Mon 01/16/12 Posts: 35	Wed 01/18/12 02:40 PM
Her sense of humor. She HAS to have one..... Then her Eyes!! Then I check the rest of her out!!! Do you start at her eyes and work your way down? Usually!!!! Then once you're at the bottom, do you work your way back up to her eyes? The people which they used to see only donwn never see up May I ask what that's supposed to mean? Sounds like a prophecy