I know I'm not really attractive, but I'm sincere and dedicated to meeting my best friend and hopefully more. I think my essay seems to correspond with what many women say they are looking for, but after many attempts to contact women that I would say are not out of my league I have never gotten a response. There were a couple but half way across the country so no good for attempting to build a friendship. I love family, makeing people laugh and lots of ther things, so what gives?
So am I just not dating material and just should give up the game or what? Honesty is appreciated!!

I dunno what's wrong with it. I think it's perfectly pleasant. But I am weird.

my head hurts. zombies are eating my brains.

It isn't a bad start! I'd take out this line, though: "I am done with the drama and mistrust of the past and looking for good times ahead." If you're actually done with that, don't even mention it.

You're kind of negative in this thread, so be sure not to be that way when chatting with new people.

Get some pictures of just you alone. Kids are great, but this site should be used for someone to get to know you before anything else.

There is nothing wrong with your looks. You don't need to be a movie star to attract women. It looks like you've rewritten your profile according to some of the advice, and it seems pretty good to me now. I would strongly recommend getting into the forums and posting a little. It will make you feel more a part of the place and you might find people starting to look you up just out of curiosity about something you've said. It may take some time for you to come across the right person, but in the meantime you can start making friends. Good luck!

Can someone look at my profile and see if I need to add something or take something out? Please I'm not getting any messages or mutual matches. Please help.

Ok..here goes and please take what I write as constructive...

IMO, you profile needs a little rewrite as it you spend too much time focusing on how sex isn’t important – I know that isn’t what you meant but that is what I have come away thinking and that you don’t mind whether someone has kids or doesn’t. All positive, but that about all your profile says about you. No mention of who you are or your likes/dislikes...No mention about what qualities you find attractive or about the person you’re hoping to attract.

Good luck!

Thank you so much

Is this better?

Much .

It reads great now. I would also add that participating on the forums and contributing to the topics is a really good way of getting noticed and for people to gain and understanding of what you're about.

Happy hunting!

Thank you again for the advice.

LOOKS great man..You put some time and thought into it and it rocks..Now as to new on the Net,,just go slow and believe slower,,then your be fine,,, Many nice ladies on here for you to make friends with..Good luck and have FUN..

Yours is very honest,,which I think is cool,,but some ladies might see that as weak,,chicks are so strange at times..
THAT will come back and smack me,,lol
I don't think your doing the best you could with a better pic,,do a bandana around your head,,I KNOW,,,just TRY that and then get seen in some posts,,and TELL me if you get VIEWED a bunch more,,or emailed? Keep the angle from UP,,looking slightly down at you,,and for your face,,try a Yellow and black one,,or two tone blue,,lol,TRUST ME HERE,,I'm NOT kidding..ONE good,,bad boy PIC,,with you being already a biker,,so to speak,,BAMMMM
You got the babes all about ya who,,LIKE the bike scenes and your age area..Just try and get seen in some posts at least once or twice a week,,every week and ladies will start seeing ya and sending you some friends requests..
IF you get some new pics going,,I'd lose a couple you now have,,THIS ONE here is COOL,,that your running as your pic to see here.. Have fun and email me and let me know how things are going later,,that goes for you to Friendforhire..