Topic: Online Presentation
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Wed 01/11/12 03:52 PM

It isn't the phones, it's the people. Phones aren't forcing people to abbreviate or leave out punctuation.


Very true. But one could argue they are retraining people in a round-a-bout way to write a certain way. Many people make a habit of doing certain things, and then carry it over into other parts of life, whether it is proper or not.

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Wed 01/11/12 03:55 PM
Secretaries wrote in..."Short hand" decades before cell phones and Text were thought of. I see nothing wrong with short hand!!

That's my story....
and I'm stickin to it!!smokin

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Wed 01/11/12 03:56 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Wed 01/11/12 04:06 PM
seen on a womans profile where she had "I will not date you if you don't know how to read or type text messeges."So i sent her a email with FU...ok not really.

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Wed 01/11/12 03:58 PM

Yeah you're comp isn't broked then...

'tis hard having everything typed out perfectly on the phone, believe me I know. It'd take me 30mins to get out 2 sentences if I typed it in perfect grammar. The dumbest thing ever invented: auto-correct.


It does not bother me seeing it on phones or even instant messages. But I see it on job applications, paperwork requests, personnel inquiries and other assorted places, and that is bothersome.

Typing "How r u?" On a phone to me is fine.

Having me read "My othr job sux...lol" on a job application is hair pulling.

Yes, that happened today. Which is why I thought of it.

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Wed 01/11/12 04:05 PM


Yeah you're comp isn't broked then...

'tis hard having everything typed out perfectly on the phone, believe me I know. It'd take me 30mins to get out 2 sentences if I typed it in perfect grammar. The dumbest thing ever invented: auto-correct.


It does not bother me seeing it on phones or even instant messages. But I see it on job applications, paperwork requests, personnel inquiries and other assorted places, and that is bothersome.

Typing "How r u?" On a phone to me is fine.

Having me read "My othr job sux...lol" on a job application is hair pulling.

Yes, that happened today. Which is why I thought of it.


Wow, in only 5 words, two great reasons to put the application right on the reject pile.

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Wed 01/11/12 04:07 PM

Wow, in only 5 words, two great reasons to put the application right on the reject pile.


That is where most of them end up. frustrated

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Wed 01/11/12 04:10 PM

I blame phones for this to. I see several resumes a day that do this sort of thing, and it always aggravates me. I can see doing it on the phone, I can see doing it on IM and even on some forums and such to some degree.. but not in any sort of professional papers, forms or writings. I tend to write out everything, and rarely abbreviate.


It isn't the phones, it's the people. Phones aren't forcing people to abbreviate or leave out punctuation.


I can't even bring myself to short-hand on phones though. Then again I think I'm one of the very few.

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Wed 01/11/12 04:18 PM

Does the way someone presents themselves online affect the way you think about them? This includes the way they write, spelling/grammar, if they take things very seriously/not seriously at all, get offended easily/offends others often just to name a few.

What about the way someone presents themselves online is important to you? What doesn't matter to you?


I do pay attention to spelling, grammar, and punctuation. Typos happen, but if someone is writing "I ame lukin 4 sum1 hu unerstns meeee n myy lief n m prbelms n hu luv dog's n zeebra's" then we are probably not going to have much to say to each other.


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Wed 01/11/12 04:24 PM
I gotta laugh as I think about it...

I am actually quieter and more reserved here than in actual real life. (no schitt)

Real life don't got moderators to spank me when I pop off a filthy joke, or bust out with my horrible kareoke/ man dancing like I do at work. I don't worry about being politically correct except here.

In real life...I got the same personality that I show here...but alot more of it. I am far more vulgar and quick with my responses face to face. I gotta watch my step here or the delicate jungle orchids who need everything just right will get booty hurt and call a mod on me.

Still, it has been good for me to have to play by Mingle rules. I figured out that a little self-restraint ain't that bad. (I am funnier in real life...taller too!)

:)

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Wed 01/11/12 04:36 PM

I gotta laugh as I think about it...

I am actually quieter and more reserved here than in actual real life. (no schitt)

Real life don't got moderators to spank me when I pop off a filthy joke, or bust out with my horrible kareoke/ man dancing like I do at work. I don't worry about being politically correct except here.

In real life...I got the same personality that I show here...but alot more of it. I am far more vulgar and quick with my responses face to face. I gotta watch my step here or the delicate jungle orchids who need everything just right will get booty hurt and call a mod on me.

Still, it has been good for me to have to play by Mingle rules. I figured out that a little self-restraint ain't that bad. (I am funnier in real life...taller too!)

:)


I'm horrendously offended!

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Wed 01/11/12 04:46 PM
You will get over it you racist.


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Wed 01/11/12 04:55 PM

You will get over it you racist.




Lol, man I don't even have a response for that. I'm not on my toes tonight.

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Wed 01/11/12 05:02 PM
See? I swear I toned it down too!!

You ain't gotta worry about being on your toes around me Vintage....

cause you will still be one of the short lil people all around me...I think you are cool anyway Honey.

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Wed 01/11/12 05:15 PM

See? I swear I toned it down too!!

You ain't gotta worry about being on your toes around me Vintage....

cause you will still be one of the short lil people all around me...I think you are cool anyway Honey.


I'm short next to almost everyone, anyway.. and likewise.

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Wed 01/11/12 05:34 PM


See? I swear I toned it down too!!

You ain't gotta worry about being on your toes around me Vintage....

cause you will still be one of the short lil people all around me...I think you are cool anyway Honey.


I'm short next to almost everyone, anyway.. and likewise.



LOL. I looked and you can stand by me because you are only 1 inch taller.

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Wed 01/11/12 05:34 PM
Edited by machug on Wed 01/11/12 05:35 PM
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Wed 01/11/12 05:55 PM



See? I swear I toned it down too!!

You ain't gotta worry about being on your toes around me Vintage....

cause you will still be one of the short lil people all around me...I think you are cool anyway Honey.


I'm short next to almost everyone, anyway.. and likewise.



LOL. I looked and you can stand by me because you are only 1 inch taller.


Lol, awesome, however I should change that.. recently when I was measured for the first time in over 2 years they said I was 5'1".. how am I already shrinking? I'm so wearing shoes next time.

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Wed 01/11/12 06:09 PM


It isn't the phones, it's the people. Phones aren't forcing people to abbreviate or leave out punctuation.


Very true. But one could argue they are retraining people in a round-a-bout way to write a certain way. Many people make a habit of doing certain things, and then carry it over into other parts of life, whether it is proper or not.


People are doing it to themselves. There's nothing forcing them to type horribly and not make sense.

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Wed 01/11/12 06:10 PM



See? I swear I toned it down too!!

You ain't gotta worry about being on your toes around me Vintage....

cause you will still be one of the short lil people all around me...I think you are cool anyway Honey.


I'm short next to almost everyone, anyway.. and likewise.



LOL. I looked and you can stand by me because you are only 1 inch taller.


Baby...I am 8' tall most days.

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Wed 01/11/12 06:15 PM




See? I swear I toned it down too!!

You ain't gotta worry about being on your toes around me Vintage....

cause you will still be one of the short lil people all around me...I think you are cool anyway Honey.


I'm short next to almost everyone, anyway.. and likewise.



LOL. I looked and you can stand by me because you are only 1 inch taller.


Baby...I am 8' tall most days.


Yes you are, Krupa, you ARE that cool. drinker :smile: