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Topic: What's in a kiss?
doc38644 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 44	Mon 01/02/12 06:11 PM
It sort of goes hand in hand with the discussion on the other board...everyone goes into a relationship with some amount of preconceived notions; some concern over past pains being repeated. Granted, in that moment, they probably aren't recognized as such;[fear], but an equivalent tension exists. I'm merely stating, albeit a little complicated, that there is a BIG release when a kiss occurs. A large part of the "tension" is more likely anticipation, but "what if's" tend to linger in the subconscious, as evidenced by the other discussion...................anyway, I liked the "slobber, tongue, lips, teeth, etc." answer...

doc38644 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 44	Mon 01/02/12 06:12 PM
....could be...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 01/02/12 06:16 PM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Mon 01/02/12 06:17 PM
It sort of goes hand in hand with the discussion on the other board...everyone goes into a relationship with some amount of preconceived notions; some concern over past pains being repeated. Granted, in that moment, they probably aren't recognized as such;[fear], but an equivalent tension exists. I'm merely stating, albeit a little complicated, that there is a BIG release when a kiss occurs. A large part of the "tension" is more likely anticipation, but "what if's" tend to linger in the subconscious, as evidenced by the other discussion...................anyway, I liked the "slobber, tongue, lips, teeth, etc." answer... eh, maybe for you. but at the moment of that first kiss I am not thinking about anything else and see the moment as new beginning - I have always been pretty good at compartmentalizing baggage - as it were - not that it can't affect a new relationship - for me, however, the first kiss would not be that time - on a 1st kiss I tend not to think at all, actually

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 01/02/12 06:20 PM
It sort of goes hand in hand with the discussion on the other board...everyone goes into a relationship with some amount of preconceived notions; some concern over past pains being repeated. Granted, in that moment, they probably aren't recognized as such;[fear], but an equivalent tension exists. I'm merely stating, albeit a little complicated, that there is a BIG release when a kiss occurs. A large part of the "tension" is more likely anticipation, but "what if's" tend to linger in the subconscious, as evidenced by the other discussion...................anyway, I liked the "slobber, tongue, lips, teeth, etc." answer... I don't concentrate on what happened in the past. If a kiss is going to happen, it's because the date is going well and I actually like the guy. So, that's what I'm thinking about at the time. That other answer was way too literal.. .

doc38644 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 44	Mon 01/02/12 06:24 PM Edited by doc38644 on Mon 01/02/12 06:29 PM
Suffice to say, I think my answer has been misunderstood.......and I probably overstated what I DID mean....

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 01/02/12 06:25 PM
Explain it in a different way?

doc38644 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 44	Mon 01/02/12 06:40 PM
No....I've gone too far down that rabbit trail as it is...

ybcat1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 530	Mon 01/02/12 11:15 PM
All these views and only one person was brave enough to talk about kissing? Do the rest not like or enjoy it? Oh I enjoy kissing.

BL4766 Joined Sun 04/27/08 Posts: 74269	Mon 01/02/12 11:32 PM Edited by BL4766 on Mon 01/02/12 11:33 PM
A kiss, says it ALL............... I've had kisses that had me pulling away.....thinking, WTF???? A REAL GOOD KISS......is full of PASSION.......... makes you melt...........weak in the knees......... forgetting everything around you..........and takes your breath away!!!

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Tue 01/03/12 10:12 AM
It sort of goes hand in hand with the discussion on the other board...everyone goes into a relationship with some amount of preconceived notions; some concern over past pains being repeated. Granted, in that moment, they probably aren't recognized as such;[fear], but an equivalent tension exists. I'm merely stating, albeit a little complicated, that there is a BIG release when a kiss occurs. A large part of the "tension" is more likely anticipation, but "what if's" tend to linger in the subconscious, as evidenced by the other discussion...................anyway, I liked the "slobber, tongue, lips, teeth, etc." answer... I don't concentrate on what happened in the past. If a kiss is going to happen, it's because the date is going well and I actually like the guy. So, that's what I'm thinking about at the time. That other answer was way too literal.. . "I DON'T WANT TO BE THE BANDAGE, IF THE WOUND IS NOT MINE....."

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 01/03/12 10:15 AM
No....I've gone too far down that rabbit trail as it is... So you think you were misunderstood, but are unwilling to explain in a different way? Alrighty.

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Tue 01/03/12 10:21 AM
What's in a kiss? used to be solid chocolate, now they add air, giving you less chocolate for the same price. marketing genius

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 01/03/12 03:37 PM
To answer the last questions I asked... yes, I remember my very first kiss. I believe I was 13. And I remember most of my first kisses since then. Certain ones will always stand out.

GummiBear Joined Thu 10/16/08 Posts: 1245	Mon 04/02/12 05:28 PM
The warm, caressing breath of the person you love mingling sweetly with yours in a tangle of emotions

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Mon 04/02/12 05:35 PM
Kissing is VERY important, it is the beginning of foreplay (sometimes, lol) and if he isn't a good kisser, it's going nowhere.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Mon 04/02/12 05:36 PM
If its right..... my left leg will twitch.... and I get a tingle down the back of my neck!!! She is a..... Keeper!!!!!

ShannonMarie21 Joined Thu 02/17/11 Posts: 1169	Mon 04/02/12 06:01 PM
Kissing is everything to me. I love that first kiss...when everything you've ever wanted to say to the other person can be felt in the kiss. No words necessary. And beyond the first kiss, I love every kiss that follows it. A kiss can make up for all the bad in a day, can make a good day even better..kissing is awesome. Lol

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 04/02/12 06:13 PM
Kissing is everything to me. I love that first kiss...when everything you've ever wanted to say to the other person can be felt in the kiss. No words necessary. And beyond the first kiss, I love every kiss that follows it. A kiss can make up for all the bad in a day, can make a good day even better..kissing is awesome. Lol wow...

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 04/02/12 08:01 PM
I would have to guess that maybe I just have not had the kiss that sweeps me off my feet. I could go without kissing just as easy.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Mon 04/02/12 08:03 PM
I would have to guess that maybe I just have not had the kiss that sweeps me off my feet. I could go without kissing just as easy. Comeere.............