Hey,Happy New year to all minglers.
I never forget my past but at the same time I don't repent/live on the past.
I look the future with bright hope.
So I think I am an optimist.
What about you?

I am a pessimistic optimist.

I see the class half full/empty depending on the mood. Then I wonder if I should drink the rest or refill it.

This came up in conversation the other night. I'm optimistically pessimistic

I'm a realist

pessimistic *****.
(:

That is the beauty of "Tommorrow" Barun..........

Alot of us are old enough to compare our failed pasts with the promise of an unspoiled tommorrow.

Today/ tonight/ tommorrow.....is to be earned. Good or bad. Nothing good comes easy and nothing is free.

"Tommorrow" needs to be earned....none of us are so special that things should be handed to us on a platter....

If we are to earn the things we desire most...it is gonna take sweat and blood, wanting and yearning, tears and laughter.

No one gets a free ride.

This year...I want to love more and laugh more. I want to snuggle deeper into the hugs I get. I want to have to try harder to be a "Butch" dude who ain't gonna get teary eyed when my woman makes me feel too good for words.

Cause as things stand..........I will admit, I have cried when I have gotten off the phone with my love....

Cause I want to be a better man.

Not really, "Manly"...I know....but, I got a big enough penis to not be worried about the small stuff. But, it is.... ironically, the small things I want my woman to know that I love her for.

I am a true optimist. Being negative gets me nowhere. I believe if you look for the good it will come to you. I know some may say that I live in a fantasy land but it works for me so don't rain on my parade

I'm an eternal optimist...a dreamer,
i like going to delilady land.

Yes, Lori, you and I need to spread the word that there is no place for negativity!

pffffttttt...

Lori and I will need to work on you extensively

Yes we do Jayne

Being a pessimistic optimist doesn't mean negativity.

It means preparing for the worst (so you can handle it) and hoping for the best (so you don't have to handle it). Boy Scouts::::Be prepared!!!

Hello folks,

A number of posts have been deleted from this thread. Please keep the drama/personal slights etc. off of the forum boards.

Thanks,
Mark

ah mark, i got here a little late and missed out on the mudslinging. please forward the deleted posts to my inbox so i can have a laugh or two. thanks in advance, bulldog

(p.s. don't ban me mark, i was only funnin' )

I'm a "just happy to have a glass in front of me" kinda guy

I beleive in US,,,ALL of US,,,I beleive that WE CAN DO ANY HUMAN ACT IF WE BELEIVE WE CAN..
With THAT,,comes never knowing my tomorrows,,but always feeling they shall be there, and knowing IF I live to see it,,I am still more limited to see yet more than I have lived to see already.
I greet each new day with my same,,happy, suttle, feeling it shall be filled with all that life can bring me,,if life wants to be good that day or bad that day,,THATS WHAT IT WILL BE, But not necessarily,
HOW I will in that day..just as it might be a storm,,I won't let that storm,,cause me to change my mood..
I try and live everyday, with the reality of all that day is capible of producing, around me...so REAL is my preference as to fantasy, in thoughts and actions..
SO,,what the hell AM I? A man, who feels that this World grows each day,,LESS CARRING ABOUT THEMSELVES AND THE REST OF THE PEOPLE AROUND THEM,,WHO IS NOT FAMILY OR FRIEND?
Maybe thats do to OURplates being already so full,,and empowering to rush and rush,,we DON'T have time to CARE about anyone else?
I just THINK,,THATS the HUMAN thing to do,,and feel?
And I'll die with that as my way to live each day,,because God made me,,who I have become..

I was taught young "HOPE FOR THE BEST. BE PREPARED FOR THE WORSE'.

an elephant never forgets