U can love again it takes a very long time but it happens just make sure
the person u think u love, loves u as much before u give yourself to
them. i did that i gave myself to them and im back where i started
wondering why. its not a nice feeling be patient u will love again and
the next time will be better because u will not make the same mistakes
twice.

yes u can love again..takes time..i've been there and it feels like
someone stabbed me a thousand times in my heart, but u move on..take
care of yourself first, then that special person will come
along..

Hi Angeleyes,
I have been just like you a few years ago. Was with a man I was
completely in love with. He broke my heart when he told me he didn't
want to be with me anymore after 7 years. He married someone else
shortly after. It took two and a half years to get over him. Hopefully
it won't take you that long. I have moved on and have dated a little
bit. It has been hard but I look forward to finding that special someone
and you will too. Time heals all wounds.

i say...OOOOOOOYEAAAAAAA! just stick around here for a while u will find
it

Dang, morena, girlfriend you had to be doing some serious digging for
this one!!!

WOW this is an old thread.... are any of these people still here?????

i was in yhour shoes not so long ago angel. i dont know yet if you can
ever love again, and the pain never goes away, but one day you wake up
and realize that you hurt a little less, and the next day a little less,
and on and on, eventualy you start to trust again, bit by bit, and one
day you wake up and realize that you have gone through an entire week
being happy, and not thinking about the pain. and eventualy a week
becomes a month, and one day you are just happy. at least i hope that is
wht happens, i have only made it to the day by day stage so far...
kisses for your heartbreak, and for all of us in here, it seems that
most of us have been hurt too...

When there is grief for any reason, it's real and it hurts. What we
know is that we have to find a way to get past the constant daily
struggle the pain gives us. Try changing your thoughts about love just
a little. Think, I'm a good person, capable of giving so much. Then
find something to do with that love that does not involve steps toward a
one on one committed relationships. Try supporting another friend
having an emotional crisis, or volunteer in some endeaver you enjoy. Or
if you have family put some love into that. These are ways you learn to
overcome your loss, the grief, this is how you find that love IS worth
it and know that if you are capable of giving, you are capable of
receiveing it in return. Doing this will give you the time you need to
heal, and will give you confidence again that you are a whole person all
by yourself. That's when love finds us.

probably not.