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Wow, see there, there is someone with some understanding. So there! Now I have supper to make. MOODY ARTISTS AND WRITER GUYS OF MINGLE!! TERRI'S GOT YOUR BACK!! HA!!! |
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Oh, just let it go and be nice. He may find what he is looking for. All it takes is for him to put it out there. Someone may see his message and message him for the intelligence factor. I guess we are bored enough to harrass others today. He needs nicelady or whatever her user name was! She was looking for a husband. |
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Oh, just let it go and be nice. He may find what he is looking for. All it takes is for him to put it out there. Someone may see his message and message him for the intelligence factor. I guess we are bored enough to harrass others today. He needs nicelady or whatever her user name was! She was looking for a husband. Sing, Those of us, according to my brilliants and amazings, WHO ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A HUSBAND are the minority. Those women just don't post much. They are too busy grinding out message after message as to what they can offer in the baby making department and indentured servitude to my friends who do NOT want either. Terri |
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To summarize: You want an extremely intelligent woman to be your "helpmate/wife" and you don't want to date her, you just want to marry her. (After you interview her for the position I assume.) Do you plan to pay her a wage for her help? Or are you wealthy and plan to give her half of everything you own? (That's marriage.) Since your idea of "love" is what you do or accomplish together as a couple what would you expect of this woman? Are you her boss or her business partner? Is she your servant, cook, housekeeper, secretary, sex partner, etc. I have met men who want their wives to be an extension of themselves. They expect the traditional roll of wife and yet much much more. The whole world revolves around the man and his personal goals and the wife is just basically a servant or slave. He has defined her purpose, she has no purpose of her own. The only way she can prove her love to him is to do and be for him what he wants. Basically he completely consumes her. May I just please say in his defense and this is after a lot of the guys who have approached me off by saying stupid things, really stupid things, HE IS PRESUMING SHE HAS ENOUGH INTELLIGENCE TO BE HELPFUL (I am often not given that credit), he is not asking for a baby momma to his existing children and that she knock out some more because his DNA IS SOOOOOO AMAZING, he hasn't said ONE word about how she functions as a housekeeper of chef, OR DEMANDED THAT SHE JOIN HIS RELIGION because his is the ONLY CORRECT ONE?? I mean I have my guy but give this guy SOME credit. I would take him over half the idiots that approach me looking for a domestic goddess with no brain of her own who is only there to grind out babies that he can then baptize at the church of his choosing. There is no need to "defend" him. I assure you he needs no one to do that. He is perfectly capable of doing that himself, if it needs doing. The fact that he only says he wants a "helpmate" is entirely too vague. (Especially when he refers a person to the Genesis definition of that term.) There are too many unknowns about what he expects. That is not a good thing. I would not presume or assume anything with this man. |
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