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Topic: How do you do it?
ujGearhead's photo
Wed 12/28/11 04:03 PM



..nothing says love like duct tape...bigsmile


:thumbsup: and don't forget the bungee cords......

ujGearhead's photo
Wed 12/28/11 04:13 PM


I'm not talking about sex...haha...well maybe that too j/k! I am talking about letting a girl knows that you are interested in her without sounding corny or creepy!? Do women initiate it too? How do I pick up the signs? Personally I had not really been dating until now (there is a reason) so any advice I can get is greatly appreciated!


You say, "Hello. What is your name?" and she responds with her name and not "DROP DEAD" or something, you have a shot.

You offer to buy her coffee and she doesn't scream "I AM AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN WITH MY OWN INCOME AND CAN BUY MY OWN COFFEE. I DON'T NEED A MAN TO BUY MY COFFEE!!", I would say ask her out.

You open a door for you and she does not shoot the "chauvinistic PIG" LOOK and actually says "Thank you", you might want to ask her out.


I just got back from the store a little bit ago and some dude opened the door for me. Do you think he was testing the waters and I should be worried? scared

teadipper's photo
Wed 12/28/11 04:14 PM




..nothing says love like duct tape...bigsmile


:thumbsup: and don't forget the bungee cords......



Personally, I like GORILLA TAPE, Clorox Kleenup, and those BIG PACKAGES OF PICTURE HANGERS because one can never hang too many pictures and move them making extra holes in the otherwise unadulterated walls.

The first fixes everything, the second forgives all trespasses against cleaning and the third, well, that's just a Terri thing or as my one friend says "A girl condo"

teadipper's photo
Wed 12/28/11 04:15 PM



I'm not talking about sex...haha...well maybe that too j/k! I am talking about letting a girl knows that you are interested in her without sounding corny or creepy!? Do women initiate it too? How do I pick up the signs? Personally I had not really been dating until now (there is a reason) so any advice I can get is greatly appreciated!


You say, "Hello. What is your name?" and she responds with her name and not "DROP DEAD" or something, you have a shot.

You offer to buy her coffee and she doesn't scream "I AM AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN WITH MY OWN INCOME AND CAN BUY MY OWN COFFEE. I DON'T NEED A MAN TO BUY MY COFFEE!!", I would say ask her out.

You open a door for you and she does not shoot the "chauvinistic PIG" LOOK and actually says "Thank you", you might want to ask her out.


I just got back from the store a little bit ago and some dude opened the door for me. Do you think he was testing the waters and I should be worried? scared


You are prettier than me without your mustache and you have better hair................

teadipper's photo
Wed 12/28/11 04:18 PM
Oh and compliments sooooo do not work with the crazy ones like me unless you follow "You are pretty" with "and funny" or "and clever" or "and have excellent taste in shoes".......................

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Wed 12/28/11 04:18 PM
Rear end her in the parking lot, then while exchanging information ask her out.

ujGearhead's photo
Wed 12/28/11 04:23 PM




I'm not talking about sex...haha...well maybe that too j/k! I am talking about letting a girl knows that you are interested in her without sounding corny or creepy!? Do women initiate it too? How do I pick up the signs? Personally I had not really been dating until now (there is a reason) so any advice I can get is greatly appreciated!


You say, "Hello. What is your name?" and she responds with her name and not "DROP DEAD" or something, you have a shot.

You offer to buy her coffee and she doesn't scream "I AM AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN WITH MY OWN INCOME AND CAN BUY MY OWN COFFEE. I DON'T NEED A MAN TO BUY MY COFFEE!!", I would say ask her out.

You open a door for you and she does not shoot the "chauvinistic PIG" LOOK and actually says "Thank you", you might want to ask her out.


I just got back from the store a little bit ago and some dude opened the door for me. Do you think he was testing the waters and I should be worried? scared


You are prettier than me without your mustache and you have better hair................


I do it all with smoke and mirrors. In reality, I look like this.....

actionlynx's photo
Wed 12/28/11 08:13 PM
*reads responses*

spock whoa slaphead

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Wed 12/28/11 08:16 PM

*reads responses*

spock whoa slaphead


agreed

no photo
Wed 12/28/11 08:35 PM
When a chick comes up to you and grabs your little guy there in your pants,,and she's smiling,,YES,,she WANTS YOU!!drool

NO,,YOU CAN'T DO THAT,,,
THATS CALLED OMG YOU FKING PERVERT!surprised


IF she is wearing a mini skirt and bends over in front of you,,and see's you looking at her BARE arse,,and SHE smiles and stays that way for a bit,,SHE WANTS YOU.drool

NO, YOU CANNOT WEAR A MINI SKIRT AND DO THAT!
surprised THATS just WEIRD!!OK>>>>shocked


I have learned that HER looking at YOU,,,and doing THAT several times,,THAT might be her way of showing YOU SHE finds you cute?

And general conversations are the BEST WAY TO START UP ANY CONVERSATIONS WITH A LADY..
IF your NOT use to giving a woman compliments to her face,,,DON'T TRY TO NOW? It might be read fake of full of IT?

Make small talk about the weather,,her jacket,,shoes,,watch...rings??
Just a filler of small phrase,,and THEN,,wait and see IF SHE still throws you any words or questions? AND,,If she does,,contenue with more of life talking,,,her looks,,her hair,,or just your time you have now,,and she might tell you her time she has,,,and if your both running to do things,,see if she's got a husband or boyfriend,,asking her,,are you attached to anyone?
If not,,would you like to have dinner sometime?
Get a number if she says yes,,and follow up..
If not,,,look on to another day and someone else..

But HEY:angry: I'M SINGLE DAMN IT AND ON HERE TO,,,WHAT THE HELL DO I KNOW?
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh





nObOdys_wiFe_JM's photo
Thu 12/29/11 04:27 PM



Compliments, compliments, compliments.

Women always like a sincere compliment. It makes a favorable impression, and gets their attention.

I once took a cue from the New Year's scene in "When Harry Met Sally" because I was really busy with work but was afraid of losing my opportunity with a woman I had been interested in for 2 years.

It sounds corny, but I listed everything I liked about her, including a few flaws that she might feel insecure about, and told her why I liked these qualities. She was very impressed.

It showed I was interested, that I paid attention to detail, that I had the courage to lay it all on the line, and it showered her with a ton of compliments she might never hear from another man.

It also got me that first date.

It didn't last, but we still remain friends, occasionally watching sports with friends and competing in a trivia league together.



You don't need to do anything that drastic, but it does give you something to think about. A sincere, observant, and original compliment can really show your level of interest, and open the door.

Oh, and it's usually a good idea to make them laugh after paying the compliment. It will help them to relax, especially if the compliment catches them off-guard.


WAIT!!! not all women likes compliments!!! ( I think.. ) cause me,whenever a guy gives a compliment I take that as a lie or just wanna get into your pants that's why they're complimenting you..tongue2 tongue2 tongue2


I think that it becomes clear when the compliments are just to get something they want. If it's a sincere compliment, that's nice. If they continue to compliment you over and over and over, it starts to become insincere and seems like they just want something.

AGREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEED!!! hahaha ^_______^

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