SO,,,,,THATS why you hate me




I just KNEW,,I should have twisted THOSE AROUND,,when I was writing it.... Me and my BIG DOG MOUTH!!!


I really do like both,,,but,,LOVE,,would be more than I could say honestly,,as I have neather now as a pet....BUT,,have had before..

So I am hearing a split in your opinion. Half the people think that I should not "judge the book by its cover" and half think that I should just let it go! I'm back to square one haha!

no one really wants to be the "back up plan" I have done that once and it was awful - I just always felt like nothing I did was ever good enough and I will never go into that kind of relationship again.

And he liked me - we got along well but by the time he realized I was better than he first thought....I was sick of the whole situation - it was too little to late

I don;t recommend being on either side of that equation - it was not easy for him either

I don't hate you. I think you have a beautiful smile.

I'm a cat whisperer. They are attracted to me. I don't go looking for them. They find me.

Stray kittens beckon me to find them in my dreams and sometimes they just show up at my door. I'm forever cursed. My latest house guest:

Yes, people can grow on you. On your nerves too. Take her out and get to know her, you might be pleasantly surprised??

AHH. what a cute kitty

You guys should take you cats/dogs discussion elsewhere...maybe a hotel? Haha j/k!

You've said that you're not attracted to asians. So if you know you're not attracted to them, why not be honest with yourself and just move on?

You just said that you are not attracted to Asian women. Are you attracted to this particular woman? If not, then I really don't see it working for the two of you.

It is possible to fall in love with someone with whom you are not first attracted to. If I had my way I would want an Asian man, and I was looking for one. But I fell in love with a Persian man. I gave it a chance and fell in love with him. Why, because he is a very kind person, and when we were together be it public or private he treated me like I was VIP. It is possible, but follow your heart and what makes you happy.

..or blessed maybe?

are you turned off by asian women , or merely not 'attracted'?

attraction is a funny thing, we usually have a long list of things we are attracted to


it depends upon what preference we give them

for instance, im not 'attracted' to short men, yet I have met a few short men who I became attracted to getting to know them and finding other things about them that were attractive


I say it never hurts to get to know someone, dont make promises or expect too much, just be yourself and see what you discover,,,

I don't like Asian woman because I like a fun girl who will go on adventures with me (most Asians I know are way too reserved and serious). Physically speaking, I like a girl who looks different from me...I admit, it may just be an unrealistic fantasy but hey at least I'm not boring :)

As far as moving on...I want to but I am also wondering if I should not pass people by simply bc they don't look white. Believe me, I am trying to learn alot about myself!

I would guess the reason why she is so persistent is because she feels you haven't bothered to see the full picture yet. She may already know you generally don't go for Asian women. From what I understand (based on what I've been told by both Chinese women and Filipinas), it's not uncommon for Asian men to be more attracted to Caucasian women. I've also been told Asian women tend to find Caucasian men more attractive. So it goes both ways. However, she may feel she is atypical, and you just haven't noticed yet.

That said, you need to be honest with yourself about why you have been snubbing her. Is it just because she is Asian? If so, then you probably ought to at least give her a chance to prove she's not a typical Asian woman. You shouldn't reject someone based on assumptions. If you snub her because of her personality, then maybe you need to explain to her that she just isn't your type. After all, if you aren't compatible on an individual level, then she is just wasting her time but doesn't realize it.

People make assumptions about each other all the time, passing up great opportunities in the process. Some people even look for excuses not to date someone, often because they are too wrapped up in what others might think. So, are you talking yourself out of giving her a chance? Or is there something real that turns you off about her?

For all we know, she could be into rock climbing and bungee jumping but you just don't know it yet.

Touche'

well, it just depends upon how high up on your requirements their looks are,,,if its gonna be more significant than anything else that may be attractive,,, cut her loose

as someone else said, noone wants to feel like someone is doing them a favor making them an exception if they truly feel bigoted towards them for some reason,,,,