when you are in love with someone, cheating isn't even an option

I agree 100%.

Nope not for me. If I love someone I devote myself to them in all aspects.

well certainly it is possible

but the stronger the love bond and closer the couple is to each other, the less likely that something like will happen - particularly if they spend a lot of time together, share interests & talk openly together

I think I could love more than one man. I can't cheat though, that would involve telling a lie.

So, I would have to be honest and tell them that I love them both.

Unfortunately most guys don't like to share.

As it should be, i'm telling you your a smart young lady lol.

I'm not suggesting that it SHOULD happen

just that it can

and if you look around you and read the threads in here you will see proof positive that it does happen....

hmm...can u luv to persons at same time?

i like that.

but come to think of it,u've already lied for dating another person after promising the first or telling him u luv him.

how can you be at two places at the same time. commitment requires focus, and if you are going to try to focus on two different people at the same time, one will receive more attention than the other. better for you play on player than to try to fall in love with more than one person at a time

Why would you want to love two people when love can be so hard with just one.

you can love more than one person, but once you commit to someone you choose him as the man who you are IN LOVE with

I have dated more than one man at a time...but once you realize that you are in love that ceases to be interesting

Is it possible to love someone and still cheat on them?......Of course it's possible....Sweet is 100% right....

Start another thread and ask this..."Is it possible "for you" to love someone and still cheat on them?

If someone really loves you... Real love... He will never cheat you.

Not necessarily...with love all things are possible....and there are two people involved...think about it...

Myself i couldnt truely love some one and cheat on them it wouldnt and couldnt happen iv been there to many times and had no interest in doing so.But thats me its not to say some one else wouldnt.

It is possible to love someone, and yet not be a match.

Part of love is not wanting to intentionally harm the one you love. Yet cheating does cause harm, and it is a conscious decision. So if you are tempted to cheat, then chances are that either you have not been completely honest with yourself about what you want, or your partner is not the right match for you. You should never allow it to go as far as cheating - that causes more harm in the long run. Instead, you must ask yourself why you want to cheat, then resolve the situation before it comes to that.

Consider this: Cheating is way of disrespecting yourself. You aren't just betraying your partner, but yourself as well. Your lovers, present and future, will have difficulty trusting you, diminishing your own happiness. If you love someone but cheat on them, you doubly harm yourself because part of love is not wanting to hurt your lover.

no need to start another thread. the question is it possible to love someone and still cheat on them is first person. not love someone and get cheated on