A woman by and large is basically a beautiful thing. Does she really need to scar her skin to appeal to someone?

AHHH VERY TRUE okay so what if i told you they mean something to me does that make it diffrent but i understand your point

tattoos are interesting. women tend to love tattoos on men. on the other hand, it takes the right kind of girl to pull off making it look good on her. often it does give the trashy look like pos talks about. you know, that redneck look of "my voice is even manlier than yours is", not to mention the thought of a tat on the tit that sags to the bellybutton... yuck. tats show confidence, which is good, and also shows artistic expression. both of which are thumbs up. it's GOTTA be tactful though.

There are so many beautiful ways a woman can express herself. It is men who lack the ability to communicate their feelings effectively.

Please don't misunderstand me, these are my personal feelings, not what I would impose on others.

Agree on that J, some arent all that tasteful on women... u so hit the nail on the head there pos... u guys and your feelings we wanna know what you got to say just let it out

Hey pos, you speak the truth. Very good points you make there, and I agree wholeheartedly.

Don't want to piss women with tatoos off, just my think folks and I appreciate your taking it in that spirit.

Oh man I've read all these posts and I wish I'd been responding all along.

1. I can't stand when a man tries to minimalize my career I am not a feminist by any standard but I worked very hard to be were I am at. So if a guy is to insecure to handle the fact that I am an attorney that is a deal breaker.

2. I am very friendly and outgoing so if you can't handle that people guys and girls are going to chat with me or interact with me while we are out at a bar or something no good.

3. Please just ask me things don't go checking my phone and snooping through my digital camera.

And I don't like long hair sorry.

And I do dress nicely and take care of myself that doesn't make me a prostitute or easy. I don't expect anything from a man that I can't provide for myself although I am not going to be anyone's sugar mama.

Sorry this is so long I had to catch up with a whole lot here.

I would never date anyone who doesnt like kids....or treats them bad...i have dated men who in the beginning say they like kids...but turns out they didnt....just be honest from the beginning and save me the trouble....

Xtina27 good for you

That's right be a 21st century career independent woman! You'll find someone who can handle that and respect your views.


Note: I don't like long hair either. Even if the person is attractive, I can't get over long hair.

i agree with boredchick too....i dont like long hair eihter..if i wanted to be with a girl..i would be a lesbian..lol..so yah no long hair for me...

hawaiigurl

Thanks BoredChick

I forgot to address the children issue. I love kids and I want kids. I have to say my roommate has a son that is 2yrs old and one of the biggest things I watch is the interaction between the baby and the new guy. If It's gone far enough that he is actually invited into my home then playing with the baby and getting a good reaction out of little man 9 times out of 10 will seal the deal for me.

I admire that you are hard working and dedicating. The medical and law field is so COMPETITIVE and requires many years of education. Specific training and ridiculously hard exams.

My brother wanted to be a brain surgeon but decided to switch to radiation.

I'm a PR major.

games !!!

Deal breakers for me would be:
A manipulator or one that just plays with my emotions.
Someone that just uses me as a stepping stone to actually get to someone else.
Someone that takes something I have said out of context to use against another for character assasination.
Someone who tells me that they want me to be honest with them and wouldn't be honest with me even if it was in their best interest.

Well said Hill

If they use drugs.
If all they want to do is party(very annoying)
If they are dis honest
If they have an attitude problem and treat people like crap.

I'd list more cause there are more but thats a good start.

Yeah definately no games. I understand hard to get, thrill of the chase, but please I don't know you so don't email me five times and then never respond again. I can't imagine anything I've emailed was so unforgivable to make you give up on me. I don't think you can really know if there's chemistry until you actually meet someone. If I wanted to fall in love with the written word I would spend all my time in central park reading good books. Wow I'm so sorry that this topic has sent me into a venting frenzy haha...