ArtGirl I have to say you just said it best. Some people quote historians but I have to say I am going to be quoting you.

*****APPLAUSE*****

Yeah definately no games. I understand hard to get, thrill of the chase, but please I don't know you so don't email me five times and then never respond again. I can't imagine anything I've emailed was so unforgivable to make you give up on me. I don't think you can really know if there's chemistry until you actually meet someone. If I wanted to fall in love with the written word I would spend all my time in central park reading good books. Wow I'm so sorry that this topic has sent me into a venting frenzy haha...

Thanks BoredChick

I forgot to address the children issue. I love kids and I want kids. I have to say my roommate has a son that is 2yrs old and one of the biggest things I watch is the interaction between the baby and the new guy. If It's gone far enough that he is actually invited into my home then playing with the baby and getting a good reaction out of little man 9 times out of 10 will seal the deal for me.

Oh man I've read all these posts and I wish I'd been responding all along.

1. I can't stand when a man tries to minimalize my career I am not a feminist by any standard but I worked very hard to be were I am at. So if a guy is to insecure to handle the fact that I am an attorney that is a deal breaker.

2. I am very friendly and outgoing so if you can't handle that people guys and girls are going to chat with me or interact with me while we are out at a bar or something no good.

3. Please just ask me things don't go checking my phone and snooping through my digital camera.

And I don't like long hair sorry.

And I do dress nicely and take care of myself that doesn't make me a prostitute or easy. I don't expect anything from a man that I can't provide for myself although I am not going to be anyone's sugar mama.

Sorry this is so long I had to catch up with a whole lot here.