Your question is in response to....... which question?

Any question with the word why. Negativity breeds negativity. Sometimes slowing down to know yourself, what you want, and how to attain it, may be the only key or grail you need. Even if the answer remains to become single, stay single, and learn happiness within singularity.

Any question with the word why? Substitute why, should, could, what, etc., and you still have a question. There was no negativity in my post. It was your interpretation in which you saw negativity. My post was written to glean a variety of intelligent responses in order for me to understand if my feelings are in the ballpark or not even on the same continent, and make adjustments accordingly.Thank you for your response. I don't feel like I am the only confused soul in this thread anymore.

I do not find love to be a cruel emotion, so, I found this negative.


I would never feel that taking a leap of faith in love a waste of my life. Nor would I believe any love I had felt was imaginary. So, I guess I found negativity in it.

I hope you find your answers.

Ah! Now I know what you were seeing as negative! I guess I can see how that could be interpreted as negative. Not what I was trying to convey though.What I was trying to convey (poorly as it seems) was that I view love as a cruel emotion in that 1. is a wonderful emotion that we all want to experience and we know that once we commit ourselves to someone there is always that possibility that, oh hell, you know what I'm driving at. It's been a long day and my lone brain cell is taxed too heavily today. Thanks Seakolony!

Why ask why? i say we should all just drink Bud Dry. grab one every body.

Ewwwww, did you bring a bottle of wine?

Sorry but I prefer a real drink like dark rum.

You two are just too picky but ill see what i can do.

We are wired to love ... love is more than the romantic notion of it ... it is an extension of who we are. We can choose love as our path through the world.

Romantic love ... I can still dream of that too ...

Thank you. I don't like much coke in my rum though; just a splash.

You know that is true that love is more than the romantic notion. I feel I am truly blessed with the love of family and friends.

Inability to sense true love which is always around makes one keep trying.

There are still people looking for the Loch Ness Monster and the Yeti and Tommy Lasorda's stash of Slim-Fast. That doesn't prove any of those things exist. Looking and finding are two different things.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! Does that smell like Slim Fast?

Brilliant Lex!!!!