Topic: Relationship confusion
Pekausis_35's photo
Sun 12/11/11 02:24 AM
Edited by Pekausis_35 on Sun 12/11/11 02:53 AM
What would you think if your ex send you something like this:
„you deserve someone who will love you the way you love
you deserve someone who will see through your eyes
you deserve someone who wants everything from life like you do
you deserve someone who can give you all this and much more
because you do deserve all this and nothing less!

you deserve to be loved the way you need to be
you deserve someone who will give everything up if needed
all this and much more, nothing less!
You deserve someone better than me..
It`s all in you – this good wonderful person, who is kind, give all the love, smart, funny and much more. There is so much to like!"

God, how should I understand that?! It`s all so hard...

Seakolony's photo
Sun 12/11/11 04:46 AM

What would you think if your ex send you something like this:
„you deserve someone who will love you the way you love
you deserve someone who will see through your eyes
you deserve someone who wants everything from life like you do
you deserve someone who can give you all this and much more
because you do deserve all this and nothing less!

you deserve to be loved the way you need to be
you deserve someone who will give everything up if needed
all this and much more, nothing less!
You deserve someone better than me..
It`s all in you – this good wonderful person, who is kind, give all the love, smart, funny and much more. There is so much to like!"

God, how should I understand that?! It`s all so hard...


Take it as a compliment, and love the fact he feels this way about you.

Loy822's photo
Sun 12/11/11 04:49 AM
There are so many kinds of love. Sounds like he loves and respects you very much. Maybe just not the way that makes a couple last.

jrbogie's photo
Sun 12/11/11 04:50 AM
i can't imagine giving a thought to anything i might get from my ex. but then she's past history. your ex obviously isn't.

Pekausis_35's photo
Sun 12/11/11 05:17 AM
Thank you! There was really a lots of love, but not enough to keep us together..

navygirl's photo
Sun 12/11/11 01:02 PM


What would you think if your ex send you something like this:
„you deserve someone who will love you the way you love
you deserve someone who will see through your eyes
you deserve someone who wants everything from life like you do
you deserve someone who can give you all this and much more
because you do deserve all this and nothing less!

you deserve to be loved the way you need to be
you deserve someone who will give everything up if needed
all this and much more, nothing less!
You deserve someone better than me..
It`s all in you – this good wonderful person, who is kind, give all the love, smart, funny and much more. There is so much to like!"

God, how should I understand that?! It`s all so hard...


Take it as a compliment, and love the fact he feels this way about you.


Yep, I said something similiar to my ex-boyfriend. I knew I couldn't give him what he needed and it wasn't fair to him. I wanted him to be happy and guess what he is someone who truly does make him happy; so I did the right thing although at first he was quite hurt.

ybcat1's photo
Sun 12/11/11 01:24 PM

What would you think if your ex send you something like this:
„you deserve someone who will love you the way you love
you deserve someone who will see through your eyes
you deserve someone who wants everything from life like you do
you deserve someone who can give you all this and much more
because you do deserve all this and nothing less!

you deserve to be loved the way you need to be
you deserve someone who will give everything up if needed
all this and much more, nothing less!
You deserve someone better than me..
It`s all in you – this good wonderful person, who is kind, give all the love, smart, funny and much more. There is so much to like!"

God, how should I understand that?! It`s all so hard...



They want to move on without you. They believe someone else is better suited for you than they are.

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 12/11/11 01:36 PM

What would you think if your ex send you something like this:
„you deserve someone who will love you the way you love
you deserve someone who will see through your eyes
you deserve someone who wants everything from life like you do
you deserve someone who can give you all this and much more
because you do deserve all this and nothing less!

you deserve to be loved the way you need to be
you deserve someone who will give everything up if needed
all this and much more, nothing less!
You deserve someone better than me..
It`s all in you – this good wonderful person, who is kind, give all the love, smart, funny and much more. There is so much to like!"

God, how should I understand that?! It`s all so hard...



They are already your ex? So, it's not a break up note, which is what it sounds like. I have no idea why someone would say all that after the break up. Perhaps there is more to this story?

Fireviolin's photo
Sun 12/11/11 01:37 PM


You deserve someone better than me..



Pretty much sums it all up.

pyxxie13's photo
Sun 12/11/11 02:00 PM
That is short for "I am not this person" . When someone tells you they are something in particular... believe it. They are usually right. Find a deserving soul to love. flowerforyou