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Topic: What are the best things to discuss on the first date?
Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 07/19/07 12:12 AM
Hmmmm Im thinking of sniffing the pits during dinner and maybe a little after dessert......good idea??? I have some awesome deodorant!!!

DDejon Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 215	Thu 07/19/07 12:15 AM
On a first date, I like to take a girl to movies, and then go for a drink and talk about the movie.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 07/19/07 12:16 AM
well that will take about 4.3 seconds.....then what do you talk about???

DDejon Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 215	Thu 07/19/07 12:18 AM
Well Im not the oracle of truth, but I like to keep the lady talking about herself, they love to do that.

Claudette Joined Mon 04/16/07 Posts: 16150	Thu 07/19/07 12:20 AM
not all women like to talk about themselves DDejon

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 07/19/07 12:20 AM
I think you should discuss this picture with me...

Katertots37 Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 18137	Thu 07/19/07 12:21 AM
i like to listen to what the man has to say unless they yell at me

DDejon Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 215	Thu 07/19/07 12:23 AM
I sometimes feel that if I start running off at the mouth about my exploits that I will bore a chic to death, or turn her off.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 07/19/07 12:25 AM
Your exploits??? What exactly do you mean???

DDejon Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 215	Thu 07/19/07 12:31 AM
Well, something may seem truly triumphant to me as I celebrate lifes little victories. But to someone else, they might sound completely boring and self absorbed. My first date strategy is to have fun at all costs, because if we dont enjoy eachothers company then there really isnt much to talk about.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 07/19/07 12:32 AM
and then on the second date we have to hear your boring little stories of triumph??? heheeeeeeeee jkjkjk

DDejon Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 215	Thu 07/19/07 12:37 AM
I think thats why we come together, to share lifes little victories in celebration. Thats what dating is all about to me.

purplecat Joined Tue 10/10/06 Posts: 35756	Thu 07/19/07 12:41 AM
jeez if a guy is going to sit and wait for me to talk endlessly about myself it is going to be a pretty quiet stare at each other kinda date..sounds short...

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 07/19/07 12:45 AM
this is why I discuss my favourite deodorant!!

DDejon Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 215	Thu 07/19/07 12:55 AM
Well I dont want to give the impression that I am going to just sit and stare, I am pretty good at getting the conversation started, amd letting it enrich as it is supposed to. But at the same time I cant say that there is a certain subject of conversation that every woman is going to appreciate. Thats why I start with her, and then the conversation goes on from there. Or so I hope.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 07/19/07 01:03 AM
I hate talking about myself.......I bore myself thinking about myself...lol I have no problem talking about the effects of too much chicken grease from the kfc bucket can accumulate on your hair if worn too much though.....

ajhagena Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 1525	Thu 07/19/07 01:06 AM
More grease = less hairspray!

Katertots37 Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 18137	Thu 07/19/07 01:07 AM
ewwwwwwwww....lmao

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 07/19/07 01:08 AM
and less hairspray means less damage to the ozone layer!!!

DDejon Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 215	Thu 07/19/07 01:08 AM
Well I dont want to cast myself as the antagonist, so maybe I should put the question back out there; what should be the subject of conversation? I say the conversation should be fun just like the date, and I take a playful stance in the conversation.