could somebody tell me what im missing please.

"Ask me if you want to know,and we will talk about it."

This sentence, BAH...must go.

Not joking with you on that really. You need to put a little thought into it and write something there that will ignite a spark of interest.

You're looking good, so AFTER you add some meat to your profile, it's just have patience.

A entire profile. What you have on there leaves no desire to get to know anything about you, however, it gives the impression you are kinda stuffy. Good luck and welcome.

I agree. You need to put some details about you and what you are looking for. Don't put too much though, you want to leave us interested!

Good luck.

Hello Greeting is boreing
Photos are dark, depressing, and look lazy slumped down on the divan. White undershirt is hopefully NOT what you would wear on a date but that is how you are introduceing yourself? Bad form. The yellow tinted photo is the only thing creative about the whole profile and yellow is not that engageing.

Facial hair is not helping you at all. For a guy with great hair and features you should not mess it up.

"Ask me if you want to know and we'll talk about it ." Comes of as "lazy' at best.

Cuddleing makes it sound like you are just looking to get laid.

Not appealling either is being 38 years old with kids, plural, that don't live with you but you are undecided/open about more?

Profession; construction? What casual broom pusher day pick up or do you actually have some skills? Do you want to sound employed or not?

Vanilla suggestions of interests and the profile gives a person absolutely nothing to respond to.

You have to make something connect or the reader will hit delete.

I want to know why you're in Cali

Your profile said if there was anything I wanted to know all I had to do is ask so I'm asking

Nic pics tho' as not a lot else to go on.

Happy hunting!