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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Fri 11/25/11 04:34 AM
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Thanks for the input. I was feeling extremely frustrated this week, after going out the past weekend with a couple of friends. I have friends who I can hug and give a smooch on the cheek and it remain purely platonic, and others who definitely can't get a kiss, because they take it way overboard. Unfortunately, I forgot, and sure enough, he took it way out of what it was meant as. Had to put a stop to it the next day, which basically pissed me off, considering he knows already I have no interest in him in that way. it happens chick a roo - stress not 
classifications are as follows: 1. no kiss - defo n.o. 2. peck on the cheek (then back up slowly) 3. kiss (a real one - maybe more) 4. kiss - defo more 4b. who needs a kiss - let's go I think you forgot item # 2, perhaps - also on 1 & 2 a handshake can be substituted if you offer a guy a handshake & a thank you he pretty much knows where he stands (if he has half a brain) and I would take a handshake from a man to mean the same thing.... (just so I do not appear one sided here - heaven forbid) 
Oh, and this is compartmentalizing my man friends only - I don't kiss my female friends - just to be clear on that |
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Everyone pretty much does that. You have something in common with one person you tend to take them. I would not take my friend Fred to Jo-Ann Fabrics for example.. he would grumble the entire time. So why offer? Same goes for Ballerina Barbie...she does not want to go drink beer and mud wrestle...why offer?
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Do you find you have to compartmentalize your friends or family? Can't do certain things with one friend, that you can do with others? I dont consider it compartmenatalizing. I consider it being observant and aware of my family and friends, their strengths and weaknesses ,,as well as their likes and dislikes. |
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I like to put em in the fryer when they pizz me off  . After that we're cool again
Remind me to mind my P's and Q's around you........ 
Helloooooooo Adam. Nah dude, i was kidding, mainly. You know how i joke around a lot. lol.
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