You mean the 60s look, Dada?

Oh well add these:

Group pics with no indexed/zoomed in face to identify that it's him/her;
Lyrics of his/her favorite song;
"I'm laid back";
"I'm honest";
"Tell you later"
"Here's my IM ID/phone number";

Uhhmm, what else? Oh that album cover looks better than your pic?

I know what really really turns me off because I do it in one of my artsy black moods myself. I will go on a tirade about everything I DO NOT WANT to the nth degree and get so specific that no one qualifies for what I do want. "Feet must between size 10 1/2 and 12", "Must be capable of growing facial hair but should shave it all off", "Must be between 5'9" so I am not taller than him in heels. Cannot be bigger than 6'1" because he will not fit in my compact car" "should memorize that the only acceptable Chicken Mc Nugget sauce is BBQ" "Cannot get mad that I wake him up at weird hours of the night for sex when he has to work the next day" "Must be willing to drive an hour into LA for acceptable ethnic foods" OKAY, those aren't real except the last three....

But I do like your armpit hair babygirl! It's done just right.

cross stich patterns

And I don't have armpit either, Dada!

Rosie O'Donnel

no armpit?

No! Just the hair

Curious, what about "separated"??? For example, I have been seperated for 9 months after a 16 year marriage. There is no chance that we are getting back together and we are divorcing but it is a lengthy and costly process in Alberta. If I say divorced and then it comes up during coffee with someone I meet here, then he's already caught me in a lie! So....????

Hi...welcome to mingle, calalilly35. Just my opinion, but 16 years is quite an investment, and even though there may not be a chance of getting back together, nonetheless, I agree with klc on this.

Just be honest about what's going on. Some are ok with dating someone who is separated. Some, like me, are not. The divorce needs to be final before I'm willing to date them.

I appreciate the feedback. I'm not looking for a relationship just yet. I'd like to get out, meet some people, learn about myself in the process. I'm on a journey with no rules, just my personal integrity and a responsibility to be a respectable woman to my teenage kids!
Re: Divorce, we cannot file until we have been living apart for one year.

works fine in the used trucks for sale section.

couple problems i see here. first, that you're separated does not mean you're out of the relationship whether or not you say 'no way we are getting back together.' stranger things do happen and you've said yourself that divorce is a long process and few men here will care to go through that process with you and experience your BAD relationship that you've yet to actually put behind you. second, you seem to be rushing into the dating thing. makes it seem you cannot be happy within yourself by yourself. i think people often get on these dating sites before they've recovered their happiness after a breakup. nobody is looking for an unhappy person. not saying that's you but appearances are everything when it comes to dating sites. you've alot of years left so focus on getting divorced, get past it, get happy being alone, build a profile that shows all that and THEN enjoy the men that will surely message you.

oh then theres: "im divorced and its all his fault. im the innocent victom."

18 pictures of someone drinking at the bar.
"tired of the drama"
"no game players please"

There are more things I don't want to see on a profile than I do want to see.

LOL you say that like it's a bad thing!

actually i say it like a myth which it is.

the muppets who never post pics of themselves on a dating site. Thats a real pi55er for us serious folk, trying to find the 'one'