The biggest factor for me is the fact I dont like myself at all. I never think of my self as worth being around.

awwwwwwwww sweetie..you should like yourself..we like you

After 87 bad relationships and 1 good one, I finally know pretty much what I'm looking for. And I finally figured out it's better to be alone than go through yet another bad relationship....

And yes, that results in my having to be "selective" -- I'm not getting involved with anyone who uses drugs or alcohol, or who has kids, and I don't do well with "traditional" types, or non-creative types, or less-than-intellectual types.

But I figure, out of 6 billion people in the world, I found ONE so far who was a really good fit....so, statistically, there COULD be another one....!!

im single cause my last relationship ended with her going back to her son's father. so i am being picky as hell and am not making that mistake again.

I have a short fuse sometimes..

No I said settle, not gonna settle for less than what I want.
Prob. gonna be looking a while too.........LOL!!!

...I still don't know why I am...

I just figure if i sit here long enough it may just knock on my door or something lol.... but being here i have made some good friends though

1. I chose to be

2. Haven't found anyone that makes me feel like Gwen did.

Lex I don't date anyone with kids either.

I mentioned I'm shy. I just can't figure guys out sometimes. They tend to stare at me, wanting my attention but their mouths don't open.

hell, i can't even get a girl to meet me anywhere....



now whom wouldn't wanna meet me?!

I would meet you. You're funny and sweet.

A bunch of guys old enough to be my brother, dad or uncle always tend to hit on me. Maybe because it's city life?

must be city life.

I don't really go any where to meet anyone.

I don't mind being single, its a choice thing!!

When I do start getting close to someone, I do something to screw it up every time!! I start thinking hmmm he likes me and I can't have that!!!

ahh joshy I remember a guy at your work that really really wanted to "meet' you

Hey dont feel bad i got hit on by someone the other day that was old enough to be my grandpa...

.......

Frst thing I'd do is teach people to call me JOSH.

Superstar. I don't understand why men that much older try to hit on you.

I remember at the hospital to see my mom this guy had white hair like a sheep or white cat and was old enough to be my grandfather. He flirted with me

Aww poor Joshy! Someone is trying to hit you up with a man.