I give up on trying to understand you.

After 2 and a half pages????

Dude! you're like a superhero to me now LOL

For what? Refusing to explain what he was asking for?

And men complain about women being confusing... .

i agree with you, sing... it's not like you posted it 3 or 4 times... it's not your fault for him not being able to comprehend what he reads...

Well look at you doing some arse licking ...nice boy

I saw you ask him at least a couple times to explain something in another thread and he never did. So maybe he just doesn't like when people ask him to explain? Oh well. Some people just don't like to be questioned about anything. Not much can be done about that.

I found this neat article; copied it but forgot to copy the person's name that wrote it. Its a very interesting read about "Nice guys". It is certainly food for thought. Now remember folks; I didn't write this before you throw anything at me.


"First lets explore the folly of the so-called nice guy! The nice guy is needy and manipulative! A so-called nice guy acts chivalrous or nice to a woman in the hopes that she will like him and ultimately sleep with him. This is manipulative behavior, coming from a person who is not confident, and needs a woman's validation! Every thing a nice guy does screams: "please like me". This is wrong! Women obviously do not find this attractive; other wise, nice guys would be getting laid left and right.

Now lets explore why jerks seem to do well with women. Men who seem to treat women badly exude confidence. They are not concerned with impressing her, they are in control of themselves and the situation, and have a strong sense of self. If a woman disapproves, they don't care. This confident attitude is what women find very attractive, despite that sometimes they are treated as less than a lady! Why would women subject themselves to this kind of treatment? The unfortunate truth is there are very few men who are truly confident and know how to treat women! So they settle for the closest thing they can find: jerks. At least a jerk isn't a little puppy dog of a man groveling at her feet!"

Ohhh...geeesh...thanks guys . I never thought about it until this post. It never crossed my mind....so the guy says he's a nice guy. I just take it at face value until he proves otherwise

Are you stalking me again?

Maybe!

now this one I agree with in part but if I explain we'll get bumped to politics...perish the thought

so he's letting us stalk him again? I thought he was taken?

well in my infinite wisdom, I have dated all kinds of men & if he was nice to me I was fine with that & didn't think much past that - TBH

to me a nice guy or gal is one who fair in judgements and honest with their intentions, I don't care if we always agree. I think it's asking too much to always agree...a better indicator is how we disagree

and then what singme was saying about guys who won't answer your questions? ....keep in mind, if the "game" is on (and yes, there is almost always a game on somwwhere) he will not even know you asked a question unless you hit him with the iron or undress during a commercial

sports are seriuos competiton for romance

Oh! he is taken. Mine! hehehehe

I know silly

it is best not to try to change someone and once we realize that we make our "search" a bit more cumbersome but hopefully worth it. I agree not answering questions in a relationship is rude, and they should be answered - even during "the game" if not immediately, in a timely fashion

but nosy poke into personal business type questions from a man I JUST met raise my suspicions...(as in what is he after?)


nonetheless, not all questions deserve an answer - I do not answer all questions. In fact, I often choose not to answer questions, but if pressed I will tell him that I prefer not to discuss the subject. People are entitled to emotional privacy. Depending on the situation, I can see not answering questions that are myob. If a man does not want to date me because I won't relate my sexual history or other personal details, then he can find someone else - I don;t really care....and if the conversation isn't going to flow naturally without a game of 20 questions, then there will most likely not be additional dates.

yet I do consider myself a nice person, and I do not think it is nice to ask numerous personal questions of someone who u just met. It may be a cultural thing as that is how I was raised.

of course with a partner I am inclined to answer most - if not all -questions - but there is an emotional connection & trust at that point

When I said something about someone not answering questions here, it was about finding out what he was talking about, as it didn't make sense. And him not answering did not help explain anything. It wasn't anything about needing to mind my own business.