exactly

Ah, the dreaded let me check to see if grass is greener syndrome... My answer to that is always if I wasn’t good enough for you the first time round, then I’m not going to be good enough second time round either.

Or as my good friend Rob would say...”Dogs should never revisit their sick”. I don’t know what he meant by that either and I didn’t have the guts to ask whether I was the ‘dog’ or the sick’..

Nope I wouldn't take him back as if he does that once; he will do it again.

I've always wondered. Do you think that when you "explore your options" with Burger King, that McDonald's get's a bit jealous? Hmmmmmm. Oh well.....they just want your money any ways.

i'd ask him why we can't explore together.
;D

OMG LMAO ur are funny!!!

I think sometimes it can to occur to us too late tho that we passed up our best chance....by being an idiot

IDK...if he was real cute & sweet & still single and came to me with those big Doe Eyes and said, I was so lucky to have you - I know ur the 1 for me - I was so stupid - can I have another chance....

errr...that's tough spot

whaddya say?

what money? good luck

I like that

but are u wanting to explore other women with him???

for a night or two.

Not in a million years. Moving forward in your life is tough enough without backing up to be someones doormat.

hmmmm

even during my college experimentation days that would not have occurred to me

It wouldn’t make any difference because basically he said that I wasn't good enough. What's to stop him doing that again?

Let me another question?...

Would you take him back if the relationship ended for different reasons and following your break up, he started dating other people but later asked you to rekindle ... would you?

well ets say from a guys view point what would he want to do more explorations,your very beatiful and seem to be a very awesome woman so "NO" don't go back me i wouldn't need to explore anyone

VERY unlikely. In fact just happened recently. Was dating someone for about 2.5 months. He is looking for a LTR/ marriage. I told him from the beginning I'm NOT looking to get married again (three strikes and I'm out) He starts hinting about moving in, when I made it clear No. He said he needed to see if he could find someone who was willing to be married to him. We stayed friends and after about 1.5 months we went out to dinner as friends. He decided it was better to have me part time (due to living an hour away and our schedules dont; line up real well) than not at all. After thinking about it for a day, I told him no sorry, not trying to hurt you BUT no. Basically told him he had his chance, when he tossed me aside so easily, I was not ready to be an option again.
So we are definitely only friends now.

hi.....chat wit me

WTFreak?

hello and welcome from the UK.

It's great that you're are participating in the forum however, you need to read the thread and send an appropriate response. Also a little originality would have helped! Chat with you about what mate?