Topic: Disclosure...
actionlynx's photo
Tue 12/27/11 01:17 AM
I'm not sure what I have to disclose anymore....I have mentioned a lot of personal stuff about myself here on the forums.

I'm usually not that open in real life unless I'm really close with someone. I've been burned too many times.

In a way, Mingle has become my outlet.

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Tue 12/27/11 01:43 AM

at first i thought i had to keep quiet about a lot of things.
then i realized you are all strangers.
i'm never going to run into you.
so who gives a **** what you do or don't know about me.
i don't care if strangers know my deepest darkest secrets.
i do care if people in my life know about a lot of things though.
this explains why strangers i've met on the internet know more things about me than my own family.
:p


To an extent, I agree with you B but for me, there's been loads of topics on the Intimacy thread that I have wanted to comment on but won't because that would be disclosing too much, so I either give an ambiguous, non committal answer or don't comment at all.

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Tue 12/27/11 01:45 AM

I often find myself watching kiddie shows with not a kid in sight - to include spongebob, i carly, good luck charlie, etc. laugh


I did that even before I had kids laugh.

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Tue 12/27/11 01:47 AM

I strive for simplicity.



I can understand that Jeanie.

I strive for being more honest and open in my dealings with people.

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Tue 12/27/11 01:49 AM


When commenting on threads, I have often written something down and clicked on ‘post’ before my brain’s kicked into gear and I later think … Do I really want people knowing that about me?

Hence the title disclosure … meant as a light hearted thread whereby you can disclosure bits about yourself that you don’t mind sharing with others…

Here’s a one of mine…

When I want a good cry, I open a bottle of wine and watch Lady sings the blues or Born Free – the ending gets to me every single time
sad
When I need a good cry, I open a bottle of coke( I don't drink alcohol) and put in the movie Ghost to watch. Even though I have seen it a zillion times. I still cry at the end.
And yes. Unchained melody IS my favorite song.


Can't stand that film. Demi Moore's constant crying throughout that film makes me want to strangle her laugh

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Tue 12/27/11 01:55 AM

I'm not sure what I have to disclose anymore....I have mentioned a lot of personal stuff about myself here on the forums.

I'm usually not that open in real life unless I'm really close with someone. I've been burned too many times.

In a way, Mingle has become my outlet.


As I have stated another responses on this tread...I am continuously working on being more open with what I’m feeling and therefore have given honest and real life responses when contributing on threads however, in saying that, like others (I am guessing), there is a hell of a lot that I haven't and won't ever disclose on here.

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Tue 12/27/11 01:55 AM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Tue 12/27/11 01:56 AM
oops double post!

oldhippie1952's photo
Tue 12/27/11 07:09 AM
No one should take anything I post seriously. I don't take life seriously, after all, no one gets out alive.

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Tue 12/27/11 07:13 AM
I have a weakness for kittens.


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Tue 12/27/11 07:19 AM


To an extent, I agree with you B but for me, there's been loads of topics on the Intimacy thread that I have wanted to comment on but won't because that would be disclosing too much, so I either give an ambiguous, non committal answer or don't comment at all.


Definitely agree!

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Tue 12/27/11 09:08 AM

Ooo, I just thought of one...I have actual anxiety over running out of powdered creamer for coffee. As such I keep about a barrel of the stuff in reserve. Now if my backup barrel is opened, I have anxiety before replacing it.

My dad actually buys the particular variety to have on hand, when I visit, in case I forget to bring it with me. What a freak I am.


If you're a freak, then you're in good company ma honey laugh

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Tue 12/27/11 10:21 AM

To an extent, I agree with you B but for me, there's been loads of topics on the Intimacy thread that I have wanted to comment on but won't because that would be disclosing too much, so I either give an ambiguous, non committal answer or don't comment at all.


well i have answers for those threads to,
but i stay away because those bring the pervs around.
:p

prashant01's photo
Tue 12/27/11 10:48 AM

oops double post!


This is always the best disclosure

navygirl's photo
Tue 12/27/11 11:32 AM
Edited by navygirl on Tue 12/27/11 11:34 AM
For me, my disclosure is its hard for me to express my feelings in person but easier to do it in writing. Am I weird or what? My other disclosure is I am a perfectionst and nothing I do is ever good enough in my eyes.

actionlynx's photo
Tue 12/27/11 12:29 PM

For me, my disclosure is its hard for me to express my feelings in person but easier to do it in writing. Am I weird or what? My other disclosure is I am a perfectionst and nothing I do is ever good enough in my eyes.


No....not weird. I'm the same way. I've always been better expressing myself in writing. I tend to ramble and trip over my tongue.

And I would say I am more idealist than perfectionist, though I know how obsessive I can be when I want to get something just right.

ybcat1's photo
Tue 12/27/11 01:20 PM
I daydream a lot.

navygirl's photo
Tue 12/27/11 03:41 PM


For me, my disclosure is its hard for me to express my feelings in person but easier to do it in writing. Am I weird or what? My other disclosure is I am a perfectionst and nothing I do is ever good enough in my eyes.


No....not weird. I'm the same way. I've always been better expressing myself in writing. I tend to ramble and trip over my tongue.

And I would say I am more idealist than perfectionist, though I know how obsessive I can be when I want to get something just right.


Yeah, I can get tongue tied myself when trying to express myself to others. When you write; you can take your time to think about what you want to say and word it right.

I have always wanted perfection in myself, my home, my whole life in general. I often wonder if its because of my childhood where I couldn't do anything right in my parent's eyes.

krupa's photo
Tue 12/27/11 04:06 PM
I am battling to overcome my shyness.

I am saving my virginity.

I value others opinions over my own.

I am completely full of schitt.

:)

That's a start.......

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 12/27/11 04:08 PM
The only thing I haven't disclosed here is my shoe size.

John8659's photo
Tue 12/27/11 05:19 PM
I just got word from YouTube.

I am now a "select" member and can upload any length of video. God help the world!