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buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Wed 10/26/11 04:31 PM
Shshshs I can tell within the first 30 minutes whether I would do them or not.... Now if it goes there are not is debatable. Does not mean it will not happen in the first date all depends on how hot and steamy things get The way I look at it at my age either I want it or I don't and it is up to me how long I wait for it..If the other person is so shallow if it does to think bad of it then I don't want them around anyway... Test drives can be fun sometimes and then other times ya know after the test drive to leave that one in your dust cause there is no hope... control! lol! seriously she is correct as always to my eyes... i can desire the first night but not always do it... that is lust.. even though i may desire the first night.. and the second night might question.. third night think oh gawd what the hell was i thinking? lets face it we are all human who knows when? or if at all?

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Wed 10/26/11 04:31 PM
Chemistry is not the only thing to consider. Just because it is there, does not mean it will happen. I did a favor for a friend and gave a ride home to some drunk X-boxer, and he was a pretty disgusting uncouth fellow. He tried get me to have sex with him out of the blue (got fresh) and I was shocked when he touched me and the chemistry was unbelievable. I had to fight him off and I had to fight off my own urge to do him in the front seat! It was really weird. I did manage to get him out of my car but I was blown away by what my body wanted to do to that guy. LOL Chemistry will surprise you. Its either there or its not. That's Frustration Not Chemistry....

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 10/26/11 04:33 PM
Chemistry is not the only thing to consider. Just because it is there, does not mean it will happen. I did a favor for a friend and gave a ride home to some drunk X-boxer, and he was a pretty disgusting uncouth fellow. He tried get me to have sex with him out of the blue (got fresh) and I was shocked when he touched me and the chemistry was unbelievable. I had to fight him off and I had to fight off my own urge to do him in the front seat! It was really weird. I did manage to get him out of my car but I was blown away by what my body wanted to do to that guy. LOL Chemistry will surprise you. Its either there or its not. That's Frustration Not Chemistry.... Frustration for him perhaps. Frustration for me would be to want it and not be able to get it.

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Wed 10/26/11 04:35 PM
Chemistry is not the only thing to consider. Just because it is there, does not mean it will happen. I did a favor for a friend and gave a ride home to some drunk X-boxer, and he was a pretty disgusting uncouth fellow. He tried get me to have sex with him out of the blue (got fresh) and I was shocked when he touched me and the chemistry was unbelievable. I had to fight him off and I had to fight off my own urge to do him in the front seat! It was really weird. I did manage to get him out of my car but I was blown away by what my body wanted to do to that guy. LOL Chemistry will surprise you. Its either there or its not. That's Frustration Not Chemistry.... Frustration for him perhaps. Frustration for me would be to want it and not be able to get it. You Wanted "it" (your words) he was willing ..you refused..Not Chemistry.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 10/26/11 04:49 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Wed 10/26/11 04:51 PM
Chemistry is not the only thing to consider. Just because it is there, does not mean it will happen. I did a favor for a friend and gave a ride home to some drunk X-boxer, and he was a pretty disgusting uncouth fellow. He tried get me to have sex with him out of the blue (got fresh) and I was shocked when he touched me and the chemistry was unbelievable. I had to fight him off and I had to fight off my own urge to do him in the front seat! It was really weird. I did manage to get him out of my car but I was blown away by what my body wanted to do to that guy. LOL Chemistry will surprise you. Its either there or its not. That's Frustration Not Chemistry.... Frustration for him perhaps. Frustration for me would be to want it and not be able to get it. You Wanted "it" (your words) he was willing ..you refused..Not Chemistry. Wrong wrong wrong. I did not know the guy at all. Just because there is physical chemistry does not mean I would throw good judgement out the door. What do you imagine "chemistry" is? (Its not compatibility.) It is chemical and instant. geeeeze! Maybe a guy would be a slave to his penis, and throw caution to the wind, but women have a lot more to consider. Like getting pregnant. DUH!!

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Wed 10/26/11 04:53 PM
Chemistry is not the only thing to consider. Just because it is there, does not mean it will happen. I did a favor for a friend and gave a ride home to some drunk X-boxer, and he was a pretty disgusting uncouth fellow. He tried get me to have sex with him out of the blue (got fresh) and I was shocked when he touched me and the chemistry was unbelievable. I had to fight him off and I had to fight off my own urge to do him in the front seat! It was really weird. I did manage to get him out of my car but I was blown away by what my body wanted to do to that guy. LOL Chemistry will surprise you. Its either there or its not. That's Frustration Not Chemistry.... Frustration for him perhaps. Frustration for me would be to want it and not be able to get it. You Wanted "it" (your words) he was willing ..you refused..Not Chemistry. Wrong wrong wrong. I did not know the guy at all. Just because there is physical chemistry does not mean I would throw good judgement out the door. What do you imagine "chemistry" is? (Its not compatibility.) It is chemical and instant. geeeeze! Maybe a guy would be a slave to his penis, and throw caution to the wind, but women have a lot more to consider. Like getting pregnant. DUH!! Didn't realize that American Women could conceivably conceive at Three Score and two...

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 10/26/11 04:57 PM
Chemistry is not the only thing to consider. Just because it is there, does not mean it will happen. I did a favor for a friend and gave a ride home to some drunk X-boxer, and he was a pretty disgusting uncouth fellow. He tried get me to have sex with him out of the blue (got fresh) and I was shocked when he touched me and the chemistry was unbelievable. I had to fight him off and I had to fight off my own urge to do him in the front seat! It was really weird. I did manage to get him out of my car but I was blown away by what my body wanted to do to that guy. LOL Chemistry will surprise you. Its either there or its not. That's Frustration Not Chemistry.... Frustration for him perhaps. Frustration for me would be to want it and not be able to get it. You Wanted "it" (your words) he was willing ..you refused..Not Chemistry. Wrong wrong wrong. I did not know the guy at all. Just because there is physical chemistry does not mean I would throw good judgement out the door. What do you imagine "chemistry" is? (Its not compatibility.) It is chemical and instant. geeeeze! Maybe a guy would be a slave to his penis, and throw caution to the wind, but women have a lot more to consider. Like getting pregnant. DUH!! Didn't realize that American Women could conceivably conceive at Three Score and two... That was a story from my past. At that time.... yes I would have probably gotten pregnant. When there is that much chemistry, the egg is ripe.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 10/26/11 05:03 PM
If I could get that excited now at Three Score and two.... well, that would be awesome.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 10/26/11 05:04 PM
Perhaps I should take applications and start conducting interviews.

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Wed 10/26/11 05:06 PM
If I could get that excited now at Three Score and two.... well, that would be awesome. Have You Got Any Irish In You.. If not I am your Man

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Wed 10/26/11 05:08 PM
It is complicated. I can usually tell when I talk to them on the phone that things are probably not going to work out well. It comes down to the way they think and how they project outwards. If they get through that then I will know when I meet them if sex will even be an option. Determining if the sex (if it happens) will be all it could be or if there could be more will then happen. So it takes me a while to get there.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 10/26/11 05:09 PM
what is wrong with irish?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 10/26/11 05:09 PM
Chemistry is not the only thing to consider. Just because it is there, does not mean it will happen. I did a favor for a friend and gave a ride home to some drunk X-boxer, and he was a pretty disgusting uncouth fellow. He tried get me to have sex with him out of the blue (got fresh) and I was shocked when he touched me and the chemistry was unbelievable. I had to fight him off and I had to fight off my own urge to do him in the front seat! It was really weird. I did manage to get him out of my car but I was blown away by what my body wanted to do to that guy. LOL Chemistry will surprise you. Its either there or its not. That's Frustration Not Chemistry.... Frustration for him perhaps. Frustration for me would be to want it and not be able to get it. You Wanted "it" (your words) he was willing ..you refused..Not Chemistry. So, it's only chemistry if you don't refuse?

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Wed 10/26/11 05:12 PM
Chemistry is not the only thing to consider. Just because it is there, does not mean it will happen. I did a favor for a friend and gave a ride home to some drunk X-boxer, and he was a pretty disgusting uncouth fellow. He tried get me to have sex with him out of the blue (got fresh) and I was shocked when he touched me and the chemistry was unbelievable. I had to fight him off and I had to fight off my own urge to do him in the front seat! It was really weird. I did manage to get him out of my car but I was blown away by what my body wanted to do to that guy. LOL Chemistry will surprise you. Its either there or its not. That's Frustration Not Chemistry.... Frustration for him perhaps. Frustration for me would be to want it and not be able to get it. You Wanted "it" (your words) he was willing ..you refused..Not Chemistry. So, it's only chemistry if you don't refuse? The Lady in Question Has Explained the Post as having been in the Past...(Her Fertile Period)

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Wed 10/26/11 05:21 PM
Nothing to make a woman hornier than ovulation. Mother Nature doesn't mess around.

boonedoggy61 Joined Fri 09/09/11 Posts: 10425	Wed 10/26/11 05:52 PM
Nothing to make a woman hornier than ovulation. Mother Nature doesn't mess around.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Wed 10/26/11 06:14 PM
You guys are over thinking this... two minutes, yes or no. Your body doesnt bother with debate.....only the mind does.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 10/26/11 06:28 PM
You guys are over thinking this... two minutes, yes or no. Your body doesnt bother with debate.....only the mind does. Its not that simple. You can say yes or no to the presence of chemistry, but it is not always yes or no to the prospect of having sex on the spot.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 10/26/11 06:29 PM
If I could get that excited now at Three Score and two.... well, that would be awesome. Have You Got Any Irish In You.. If not I am your Man I have no idea what I have in me.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 10/26/11 06:48 PM
Chemistry is not the only thing to consider. Just because it is there, does not mean it will happen. I did a favor for a friend and gave a ride home to some drunk X-boxer, and he was a pretty disgusting uncouth fellow. He tried get me to have sex with him out of the blue (got fresh) and I was shocked when he touched me and the chemistry was unbelievable. I had to fight him off and I had to fight off my own urge to do him in the front seat! It was really weird. I did manage to get him out of my car but I was blown away by what my body wanted to do to that guy. LOL Chemistry will surprise you. Its either there or its not. That's Frustration Not Chemistry.... Frustration for him perhaps. Frustration for me would be to want it and not be able to get it. You Wanted "it" (your words) he was willing ..you refused..Not Chemistry. So, it's only chemistry if you don't refuse? The Lady in Question Has Explained the Post as having been in the Past...(Her Fertile Period) I was looking for an explanation of what you said, not what she said.