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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Mon 10/31/11 07:39 PM
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How do you deal with being lied to by someone that you love? Normally I would just talk to the person about how I feel but thats not possible right now. He was in a very bad accident and is heavily drugged for pain I feel trapped with dealing with the situation by myself. Not a good feeling. And it will probably be weeks before I get the chance to address it. I wish I could walk away but something always tell me to stay. The heart doesnt let you pick who it wants to love We may not choose who we love but we do choose what to do about it. So no you are not trapped by love. It is your choice. That said, lying is a leaving offense. Reason being you can never trust a liar. Without trust you have a sick relationship that will be unhealthy for all involved. You want to address it to give him the chance to deny it. If you already KNOW you were lied to then that is all you need to know unless you ALREADY KNOW that you are still going to stay anyway. hell I'm 10 mile down the road if I even think I've been lied to... |
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I don't care if people lie to me. I can usually tell when people are lying. They only hurt their own integrity and no wonder no body trusts them. And how does that make it right for him to lie to you or anyone else. Vent your anger into something positive and let him endure the conseqences he deserves; you walking a way and never looking back. This person has a lot of people fooled. He is very well liked. So why does it matter to you that you are not the only victim? Or they might not believe you? |
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