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I'll have to agree with massagetrade. Basically, my family drives me nuts and as soon as they meet a significant other or friend...*sigh* well I just never hear the end of it.
My parents STILL try to talk to me about my ex from HIGH SCHOOL. ![]() So yeah, when it happens, it happens, why is there a need for an appointment? ![]() |
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Took my last ex 2 months. But I realised she was fake, you can really find out who a person truely is gonna be around you when you're around your fam. maybe it's just me..
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Michele since it is adult family members then I would introduce him as soon as I am sure I like hanging out with him. It is always nice to get others opinions and share in the fun. You can learn a lot by other methods that people use in getting to know someone. Have a blast and enjoy, you could end up just being friends and still hanging out.
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![]() ![]() My answer is FOREVER! Sike, well it would be good amount of time to make sure he's not a psycho or nut. I plan to live out-of-state so he would REALLY have to be special. |
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I say feel him out. If he has expressed interest in meeting my family and or my son I would feel he was ready. or if there is a family function coming up or a holiday. I guess it really depends on the relationship and where it's headed. I don't think there is a specific timeframe.
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Just introduce him as a friend and nobody will think anything of it at all.
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Ahhh, thanks for all of your answers. Hugs to everyone.
My boy is 6 1/2. No one comes into his life until I am sure they will be around as a forever friend or more. I made that mistake and learned from it. I am thinking way too ahead of myself with holidays in September. I know he does not have anyone in town and you know I don't like anyone spending the holidays alone. Massage-You know me too well. Lake-Have I told you the D's Shrub/Shmeg story yet. IM me for it. ![]() |
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I would do it ASAP... well, then again, I always see my family... lol
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Update to all.
This might guy might be a non-starter. Just not sure. So I may not have to worry about it. I think I am going to sit back and see what happens. He has my numbers and emails. I think it might have hit him all to hard. Will let you all know when I know! Hugs, M |
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