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Topic: How long do you wait?
Tomokun's photo
Mon 07/16/07 06:45 PM
I'll have to agree with massagetrade. Basically, my family drives me nuts and as soon as they meet a significant other or friend...*sigh* well I just never hear the end of it.

My parents STILL try to talk to me about my ex from HIGH SCHOOL.indifferent

So yeah, when it happens, it happens, why is there a need for an appointment?smokin

k2theB's photo
Mon 07/16/07 07:13 PM
Took my last ex 2 months. But I realised she was fake, you can really find out who a person truely is gonna be around you when you're around your fam. maybe it's just me..

jade101's photo
Mon 07/16/07 07:34 PM
Michele since it is adult family members then I would introduce him as soon as I am sure I like hanging out with him. It is always nice to get others opinions and share in the fun. You can learn a lot by other methods that people use in getting to know someone. Have a blast and enjoy, you could end up just being friends and still hanging out. flowerforyou

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Mon 07/16/07 09:31 PM
flowerforyou Hey Michelle :smile:

My answer is FOREVER! Sike, well it would be good amount of time to make sure he's not a psycho or nut. I plan to live out-of-state so he would REALLY have to be special.

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Mon 07/16/07 10:29 PM
I say feel him out. If he has expressed interest in meeting my family and or my son I would feel he was ready. or if there is a family function coming up or a holiday. I guess it really depends on the relationship and where it's headed. I don't think there is a specific timeframe.

Lakeman's photo
Mon 07/16/07 10:53 PM
Just introduce him as a friend and nobody will think anything of it at all.:wink:

MicheleNC's photo
Tue 07/17/07 08:16 PM
Ahhh, thanks for all of your answers. Hugs to everyone.

My boy is 6 1/2. No one comes into his life until I am sure they will be around as a forever friend or more. I made that mistake and learned from it.

I am thinking way too ahead of myself with holidays in September. I know he does not have anyone in town and you know I don't like anyone spending the holidays alone.

Massage-You know me too well.

Lake-Have I told you the D's Shrub/Shmeg story yet. IM me for it.

:heart: M

Joshy44's photo
Tue 07/17/07 08:18 PM
I would do it ASAP... well, then again, I always see my family... lol

MicheleNC's photo
Thu 07/19/07 12:13 AM
Update to all.

This might guy might be a non-starter. Just not sure. So I may not have to worry about it. I think I am going to sit back and see what happens. He has my numbers and emails. I think it might have hit him all to hard.

Will let you all know when I know!

Hugs, M

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