It sounds like a homosexual relations. I prefer a hot flame on a candlestick myself. two sticks would not work out for me..

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A relationship is based on how well warmth or love is gained. I'm not looking at a life sex choice as you feel it is put forward.
I'm focussed on the genesis of a relationship.
To assume a lit candle is there before developement or a lighter to light passion (easy way), I'm focussed on the real way true people connect.....
It's not that easy by all means.....
Real?
Absolutely.....
Over night???? Very rarely..... I've learned that the easiest way to create a flame does not work, nor is it long term....