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ALL men hate to cuddle   {{{{mano!!}}}}  yessir but put down the scythe please  
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Only a liar or a queer isn't into the idea of a woman getting all touchy feely wanting to do the horizontal bop! Andy, I am telling the absolute hetero truth when I say that there have been hundreds of occasions in which I was extremely affectionate, cuddly, touchy-feely with a girl and not aroused, nor especially interested in copulation or orgasm. There were times when I've had partners with whom I had sex on a daily basis, and regular, additional hours of affection. I was sexually sated, and simply enjoyed all that additional touch in non-sexual way. Also, there were times in which I was in a relationship that was sexually committed but otherwise very "open"... when I was being cuddly and affectionate with other women, it was the norm for me to not have much sexual interest. I associated sex with my primary partner, and non-sexual touch with other women. thats because you are a massage therapist and are used to having your hands all over a body and not being able to be aroused...I can only cuddle so long...mmmmm-mmmm well i agree that people are different! (but its not because i'm a massage therapist: I was like this before I got into bodywork.) well, i find massages to be a turn on, i am not a touchy feely person myself, in fact i like to keep a large circle of fresh air around me...I only like to be touched my children, and the one I love, if i am cuddling with my BF i am sure to get aroused, just cant help it. Yes, I think thats the connection right there. Touch and cuddling and affection is not intrinsically sexual. But when we normally experience it only in certain circumstances in our lives for a long time, then we associate all touch with one of those circumstances. For you, those circumstances are 'touch with your kids' or 'touch with your sexual partner' - so if you are touching an adult male you are likely to associate that with having sex and be sexual. Before I went into massage, and even before I had a lot of sex, I was touching my friends, especially non-romantic female friends in a non-sexual way...this left open a non-sexual-with-peer association, making it easier and more natural to not feel sexual when touching someone. for me the kids are the only other people i prefer to allow touching me, kind of have to let them, they jump and hug a lot...LOLof course my man can touch me, but some times cuddling leads him to a dark place and i have to say-"back off" now is not the time--LOL 
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ALL men hate to cuddle {{{{mano!!}}}} yessir but put down the scythe please 
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ALL men hate to cuddle {{{{mano!!}}}} yessir but put down the scythe please one heck of an optical illusion |
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ALL men hate to cuddle {{{{mano!!}}}} yessir but put down the scythe please one heck of an optical illusion 
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Cuddling is a form of foreplay!
  At least that is how I see it! I sure don't cuddle with an animal. And I sure as heck won't cuddle with another guy! SO who love me out there???  Ego trip in progress...
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Only a liar or a queer isn't into the idea of a woman getting all touchy feely wanting to do the horizontal bop! Andy, I am telling the absolute hetero truth when I say that there have been hundreds of occasions in which I was extremely affectionate, cuddly, touchy-feely with a girl and not aroused, nor especially interested in copulation or orgasm. There were times when I've had partners with whom I had sex on a daily basis, and regular, additional hours of affection. I was sexually sated, and simply enjoyed all that additional touch in non-sexual way. Also, there were times in which I was in a relationship that was sexually committed but otherwise very "open"... when I was being cuddly and affectionate with other women, it was the norm for me to not have much sexual interest. I associated sex with my primary partner, and non-sexual touch with other women. thats because you are a massage therapist and are used to having your hands all over a body and not being able to be aroused...I can only cuddle so long...mmmmm-mmmm well i agree that people are different! (but its not because i'm a massage therapist: I was like this before I got into bodywork.) well, i find massages to be a turn on, i am not a touchy feely person myself, in fact i like to keep a large circle of fresh air around me...I only like to be touched my children, and the one I love, if i am cuddling with my BF i am sure to get aroused, just cant help it. Yes, I think thats the connection right there. Touch and cuddling and affection is not intrinsically sexual. But when we normally experience it only in certain circumstances in our lives for a long time, then we associate all touch with one of those circumstances. For you, those circumstances are 'touch with your kids' or 'touch with your sexual partner' - so if you are touching an adult male you are likely to associate that with having sex and be sexual. Before I went into massage, and even before I had a lot of sex, I was touching my friends, especially non-romantic female friends in a non-sexual way...this left open a non-sexual-with-peer association, making it easier and more natural to not feel sexual when touching someone. for me the kids are the only other people i prefer to allow touching me, kind of have to let them, they jump and hug a lot...LOLof course my man can touch me, but some times cuddling leads him to a dark place and i have to say-"back off" now is not the time--LOL A dark place, you say? :) |
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