Topic: RELATIONSHIP / LOVE
glenn_pparker's photo
Wed 10/12/11 06:29 AM
Is there a right time when you feel LOVE to someone? When you can say it is LOVE?

vivian2981's photo
Wed 10/12/11 06:34 AM
when it happens.........you'll know...time has nothing to do with it.

no photo
Wed 10/12/11 07:00 AM
Am just new on dis site. I want kw more abt it

glenn_pparker's photo
Wed 10/12/11 10:01 AM
smooched Yes, because when I told to someone that I love him, he don't believe. He just say its not true its too early to feel the love. Thats why i am asking. I think there is no definite time when you feel the love to someone. Even only just for a weeks. Like love at first sight...

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Wed 10/12/11 10:15 AM
I don’t know if I believe in love at first sight. Lust at first sight..very definitely.

I think that love needs time to grow and develop but hey, people are different. Maybe I’m someone who needs to get to know someone before falling in love with them.

TBRich's photo
Wed 10/12/11 10:28 AM

smooched Yes, because when I told to someone that I love him, he don't believe. He just say its not true its too early to feel the love. Thats why i am asking. I think there is no definite time when you feel the love to someone. Even only just for a weeks. Like love at first sight...


This appears to be one of the major questions- Do I feel love for this person? and Do I feel loved by this person? Often there is one without the other. Perhaps you should focus on the second part?

Bridzykudzy's photo
Sat 10/15/11 07:24 AM
hello ladies,ild if 2 mingle.

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Tue 10/18/11 11:29 PM
nooooooooo it dosn't work 4 m bt 4 som pepple it works 2 say d truth luv grows

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 10/18/11 11:46 PM
Love is and emotion on a continum. It starts at a certain point and grows and sometimes withers and dies if not nurtured or betrayed. Thankfully love often gets a jumpstart by lust but if like and loyaty don't temper it then it usually fades. Love is generally built by consideration and common feel good experiences but sometimes it is shareing hard work or even great pain.

I tend to tell people use your terms wisely. You might REALLY like icecream but it is unlikely that you Love icecream. Often we use terms that should be reserved until they are earned.

I have a lot of pals on line. Fun people I enjoy chatting with ect. but only a few have moved to that level I consider them a friend. That usually takes an ongoing two way reciprocal contact. And them having demonstrated careing and shareing with me. Example I would recommend a friend for a job, or introduction to someone. It is a much higher level.

vivian2981's photo
Wed 10/19/11 06:51 AM
I have a lot of pals on line. Fun people I enjoy chatting with ect. but only a few have moved to that level I consider them a friend. That usually takes an ongoing two way reciprocal contact. And them having demonstrated careing and shareing with me. Example I would recommend a friend for a job, or introduction to someone. It is a much higher level.


Open your heart..people come into our lives for a reason, whether they stay for awhile or go. Friends are friends no matter where you find them. You might have coffee with them every morning or just share a few lines on here. Friends uplift your spirit..cry with you or laugh with you. They don't have to be standing right next to you. We are a community here..some of the best best friends I have, I have never met in person.I have never met God in person, but He is there for me in happiness and in pain.
I don't have to see him. I KNOW He is there for me. So are the friends I have here on Mingle.

tinja's photo
Fri 10/21/11 05:49 AM
love at first sight is also possible in fact i reckon its more common. there's always someone who will rock your world in just one day even one second people have different definitions and people have different meanings. the strength of a bond of love can only be judged by the people in love not the time it takes or the time spent with another.

glenn_pparker's photo
Fri 10/21/11 10:57 AM
guys,
thank you for all your opinions/ views / comments....