ok i have liked this girl all through grade 9-12 than in grade 12 i finally asked her out to movie and she said yes but it was at the end of the year and after the movie we kinda never said we should do this again or anything and i tried phoning her 3 times but she wasnt home so i've waited 3 weeks now cuz we just graduated and dont go to school together anymore but i still wanna ask her out again and im just wondering how i should do it, if i should visit her at her work (restaurant) she's waitress, or phone her or sumthing, i also want to know a good place to take her thats a better place than a movie and if theres anything funny i can say to start up a conversation cuz im not good at starting conversations but once i get going i can do well. Thanks for any advice.

well i think you should call her up and say " i had so much fun with you last time, i would like to take you out again." and maybe you could take her bowling, or cruise around with her. just have a good time. everything should come naturally if its meant to be

and dont tell her how much you REALLY like her. you dont want to scare her away...

i think thats what happened to my last.

i mean.. just dont tell her too soon! lol sorry

I would suggest that you first try calling her. If you continue to not be able to reach her, I would stop by her work and just give her a short note that you really enjoyed your time with her and can you do it again sometime, and a phone number if she doesn't already have it. But I would not suggest you stay around her job while she is working, this may put her on the spot. Just give her the note and let her call you if she wants to see you again.

Get her attention! Deliver a note to her at work inside an empty container of movie popcorn that says soemthing like "The movie wasn't the greatest but being with you was...how about dinner at the restaurant of your choice? As long as it's not this one..."

Noah74:

Have you left messages for her to call you back? If not, you should have. If you did and she hasn't called you back, well?

If you are determined to take her out on another date, be casual about asking her. Don't be afraid, the worst thing that could happen is she says no. That's just a word. Anyway why don't you and a friend go to her work have lunch or breakfast. While you are there, ask her in person! Just try to stay calm and say something like you had a good time and would like to do it again, how about ....... take her to a fun place like bowling, arcade, go-karts, something to set the mood for fun.

Good luck!

I ave no other advice I can offer as far as asking her out, except maybe have a SMALL flower arrangement delivered to ehr when you know hse is at work. Make sure it is small enough she can put it in a locker or something, as she is at work, lol. But leave a small message with it explaining you would like to see her again.
As far as where to take her, suggest someplace you know she likes. Maybe the beach, for a picnic? Horseback riding or a carnival/festival?
You can also have the flowers delivered to her home (does she still live with family?). Just have it done when yuo know someone is there to sign for them, and she will get them when she is home. If she does not get back with you though, dont take it hard, just keep looking

I suggest that you do not go to her job unannounced as most if not all women do not like to be surprised before they have a chance to check themselves in the mirror first.

I just read this very cool book called the System, by Roy Valentine. I learned more about picking up girls with this book than in all my years of dating. I wish I had the book when I was in college. I really recommend this book for guys looking to get hooked up.

She was probably either on vacation or out dating. Maybe even studying. I suggest you let her go and date someone else.
If she's ever again, or still itnerested, she'll "float back to you". But here's a tip- email her once or twice, before you you really give up.