I dont really trust any governments, especially ones that are overseas, You never know whats going to happen when you get there....

I totally agree. As for whether or not I'd get back with my ex, he and I are still great friends but we've both changed and grown in different directions. He's not the guy I fell in love with anymore and I'm not that girl. So the answer is no.

I am confused as to why anyone in their right mind... would go back to someone they already left. However..that's just me.

Thanks for your comments all..

I met my ex just before xmass last year, we spend 3 months together (which were really amazing) before her student visa expired and she had to move back to turkey. She has always stayed in touch as have I although on my end i did let go a little (maybe slightly regretfully). I can tell she would still get back with me if i made the move to go to turkey and there is still a possibility of her coming back to the UK but in my honest opinion i think both eventualities would not be long term.. and therein lies the problem. So to take the kind lady's advice.. it may just be about taking a holiday and resigning ourselves to just enjoy the experience and moment together.

Sorry if i was a little vaugue in my opening..

Thanks again

So you wouldn't travel anywhere outside of the US?