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loveboatexpress's photo
Thu 10/06/11 04:48 AM



Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

Jumper4480's photo
Thu 10/06/11 07:52 AM




Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

just believe me after death there is life ,no one shall vanish

loveboatexpress's photo
Thu 10/06/11 08:20 AM





Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

just believe me after death there is life ,no one shall vanish

tell me what happens after death where we go?

AndyBgood's photo
Thu 10/06/11 09:49 AM






Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

just believe me after death there is life ,no one shall vanish

tell me what happens after death where we go?



Technically I have been on the other side! We are talking Heart Rate 0! Eyes shut. Time to call an ambulance. That was thanks to an allergy test gone bad.

There was nothing there! I didn't see anything. I woke up suddenly gushing vomit like a geyser. I didn't meet God or Jesus or Krishna, Buddha, Mohammed. NOTHING! I did not fall asleep. What we have been taught to have blind faith in is a LIE! I could care less WHAT culture you are from. Life after death? Only in fiction.

Make hay while the sun shines!

BELIEVE ME! I BEEN THERE! I didn't see anything. I would have remembered even if it was like a dream.

Loveboatexpress, you need to find (a) lover(s) that know how to touch you, are reasonably in touch with you as a person, and have a life. I have spent years among people who are so self important. Los Angeles is so full of people shallower than a mud puddle. They pretend to know what love is. They think they are living life. I know I am not living life the way I want to either and I have had a lot of what I would call "Bunk Sex" because women think they know what they are doing. Good sex is experimentation (within personal limits, when there are no personal limits we call that person a TRISEXUAL as in they will try ANYTHING once and if they like it? Do it some more). A relationship can not revolve around sex but sex is integral like the wheel bearing to a car. If you miss that part the car won't roll. Likewise most women have no clue what to do on top of a man. And if that is the case what makes ANY lesbian think they can out do any man in bed when he is a competent lover? Frankly some lesbians I know I would not touch with a pole like a lot of women I know. Then again the laws of attraction are screwy! We want what we can't have, men and women alike.

But if there is one thing I have learned in life, Real sexual gratification is elusive like a functional relationship! If you get both you hit the mother load. I think that culturally you are in a society that expects subservient and servile women. That has an effect on how you perceive love. And you are still questioning what and how you feel. You are more than likely Bisexual and need to have it both ways. If you were just out for the experience of sexual gratification I am pretty sure I could show you a world you only dreamed of. But being Draconian I have a hard edge to how I think and feel and a relationship might be very different considering "Sheep don't run with wolves but sometimes dogs do!" I don't like subservient and servile women. I like a woman who will speak her mind but do it with grace. There is a huge difference coming off like a Bittche (Mingles's word police don't like this word, female dog is the alternative) and coming off like someone in command and control and it has everything to do with attitude. Most (AND I WILL STICK BY THIS!) American Lesbians are utter man haters. Some don't have the hate issues and are people just like anyone but others are rabid and want to but the bite on all other women who are either Bi, Heterosexual, or have questions about them selves. They rush them into a lifestyle they are not prepared for and wind up ruining women to the whole idea of a relationship with sexual fulfillment.

In a previous post I complained about how people are not honest at all with themselves or others around them. First be honest with yourself and admit you don't have enough information. What might be a fascination now could turn out later to only be just that. You might even find fulfillment in a three way relationship where it is you and one other woman and man. You could discover that you like it with two men and yourself. We all want what we want.

You feel trapped between personal belief and cultural belief. I would probably be thrilled out of my mind to have a life partnership and a fully committed relationship with two women and myself. Hell I have had my share of fantasies about that one. But I want more than life will grant me. So I will make the best I can of what I got. It might help if you do the same! Walk, don't run through life.

CARPE DIEM!drinker


joy4gud's photo
Thu 10/06/11 06:15 PM







Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

just believe me after death there is life ,no one shall vanish

tell me what happens after death where we go?



Technically I have been on the other side! We are talking Heart Rate 0! Eyes shut. Time to call an ambulance. That was thanks to an allergy test gone bad.

There was nothing there! I didn't see anything. I woke up suddenly gushing vomit like a geyser. I didn't meet God or Jesus or Krishna, Buddha, Mohammed. NOTHING! I did not fall asleep. What we have been taught to have blind faith in is a LIE! I could care less WHAT culture you are from. Life after death? Only in fiction.

Make hay while the sun shines!

BELIEVE ME! I BEEN THERE! I didn't see anything. I would have remembered even if it was like a dream.

Loveboatexpress, you need to find (a) lover(s) that know how to touch you, are reasonably in touch with you as a person, and have a life. I have spent years among people who are so self important. Los Angeles is so full of people shallower than a mud puddle. They pretend to know what love is. They think they are living life. I know I am not living life the way I want to either and I have had a lot of what I would call "Bunk Sex" because women think they know what they are doing. Good sex is experimentation (within personal limits, when there are no personal limits we call that person a TRISEXUAL as in they will try ANYTHING once and if they like it? Do it some more). A relationship can not revolve around sex but sex is integral like the wheel bearing to a car. If you miss that part the car won't roll. Likewise most women have no clue what to do on top of a man. And if that is the case what makes ANY lesbian think they can out do any man in bed when he is a competent lover? Frankly some lesbians I know I would not touch with a pole like a lot of women I know. Then again the laws of attraction are screwy! We want what we can't have, men and women alike.

But if there is one thing I have learned in life, Real sexual gratification is elusive like a functional relationship! If you get both you hit the mother load. I think that culturally you are in a society that expects subservient and servile women. That has an effect on how you perceive love. And you are still questioning what and how you feel. You are more than likely Bisexual and need to have it both ways. If you were just out for the experience of sexual gratification I am pretty sure I could show you a world you only dreamed of. But being Draconian I have a hard edge to how I think and feel and a relationship might be very different considering "Sheep don't run with wolves but sometimes dogs do!" I don't like subservient and servile women. I like a woman who will speak her mind but do it with grace. There is a huge difference coming off like a Bittche (Mingles's word police don't like this word, female dog is the alternative) and coming off like someone in command and control and it has everything to do with attitude. Most (AND I WILL STICK BY THIS!) American Lesbians are utter man haters. Some don't have the hate issues and are people just like anyone but others are rabid and want to but the bite on all other women who are either Bi, Heterosexual, or have questions about them selves. They rush them into a lifestyle they are not prepared for and wind up ruining women to the whole idea of a relationship with sexual fulfillment.

In a previous post I complained about how people are not honest at all with themselves or others around them. First be honest with yourself and admit you don't have enough information. What might be a fascination now could turn out later to only be just that. You might even find fulfillment in a three way relationship where it is you and one other woman and man. You could discover that you like it with two men and yourself. We all want what we want.

You feel trapped between personal belief and cultural belief. I would probably be thrilled out of my mind to have a life partnership and a fully committed relationship with two women and myself. Hell I have had my share of fantasies about that one. But I want more than life will grant me. So I will make the best I can of what I got. It might help if you do the same! Walk, don't run through life.

CARPE DIEM!drinker



ok! You did not see anything, iam sure you saw darkness, and if you do it is b'cos you were heading the other side but mercy brought you back.
Our not believing can not change the truth. happy flowerforyou

AndyBgood's photo
Thu 10/06/11 06:29 PM








Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

just believe me after death there is life ,no one shall vanish

tell me what happens after death where we go?



Technically I have been on the other side! We are talking Heart Rate 0! Eyes shut. Time to call an ambulance. That was thanks to an allergy test gone bad.

There was nothing there! I didn't see anything. I woke up suddenly gushing vomit like a geyser. I didn't meet God or Jesus or Krishna, Buddha, Mohammed. NOTHING! I did not fall asleep. What we have been taught to have blind faith in is a LIE! I could care less WHAT culture you are from. Life after death? Only in fiction.

Make hay while the sun shines!

BELIEVE ME! I BEEN THERE! I didn't see anything. I would have remembered even if it was like a dream.

Loveboatexpress, you need to find (a) lover(s) that know how to touch you, are reasonably in touch with you as a person, and have a life. I have spent years among people who are so self important. Los Angeles is so full of people shallower than a mud puddle. They pretend to know what love is. They think they are living life. I know I am not living life the way I want to either and I have had a lot of what I would call "Bunk Sex" because women think they know what they are doing. Good sex is experimentation (within personal limits, when there are no personal limits we call that person a TRISEXUAL as in they will try ANYTHING once and if they like it? Do it some more). A relationship can not revolve around sex but sex is integral like the wheel bearing to a car. If you miss that part the car won't roll. Likewise most women have no clue what to do on top of a man. And if that is the case what makes ANY lesbian think they can out do any man in bed when he is a competent lover? Frankly some lesbians I know I would not touch with a pole like a lot of women I know. Then again the laws of attraction are screwy! We want what we can't have, men and women alike.

But if there is one thing I have learned in life, Real sexual gratification is elusive like a functional relationship! If you get both you hit the mother load. I think that culturally you are in a society that expects subservient and servile women. That has an effect on how you perceive love. And you are still questioning what and how you feel. You are more than likely Bisexual and need to have it both ways. If you were just out for the experience of sexual gratification I am pretty sure I could show you a world you only dreamed of. But being Draconian I have a hard edge to how I think and feel and a relationship might be very different considering "Sheep don't run with wolves but sometimes dogs do!" I don't like subservient and servile women. I like a woman who will speak her mind but do it with grace. There is a huge difference coming off like a Bittche (Mingles's word police don't like this word, female dog is the alternative) and coming off like someone in command and control and it has everything to do with attitude. Most (AND I WILL STICK BY THIS!) American Lesbians are utter man haters. Some don't have the hate issues and are people just like anyone but others are rabid and want to but the bite on all other women who are either Bi, Heterosexual, or have questions about them selves. They rush them into a lifestyle they are not prepared for and wind up ruining women to the whole idea of a relationship with sexual fulfillment.

In a previous post I complained about how people are not honest at all with themselves or others around them. First be honest with yourself and admit you don't have enough information. What might be a fascination now could turn out later to only be just that. You might even find fulfillment in a three way relationship where it is you and one other woman and man. You could discover that you like it with two men and yourself. We all want what we want.

You feel trapped between personal belief and cultural belief. I would probably be thrilled out of my mind to have a life partnership and a fully committed relationship with two women and myself. Hell I have had my share of fantasies about that one. But I want more than life will grant me. So I will make the best I can of what I got. It might help if you do the same! Walk, don't run through life.

CARPE DIEM!drinker



ok! You did not see anything, iam sure you saw darkness, and if you do it is b'cos you were heading the other side but mercy brought you back.
Our not believing can not change the truth. happy flowerforyou


Again you follow through blind faith. I don't. God can speak for him, her, itself. I didn't see darkness. I literally shut down and reactivated. I remember blacking out (I felt it coming on) and then realizing I was vomiting as my eyes opened again. I had a doctor getting ready to stick me with an epipen and they were in the process of calling an ambulance. BP of ZERO! I could go so deep into this tangent but arguing even philosophically with someone who has chosen the blind path is like arguing with a five year old (no offense intended) which is what I have come to expect of most Christians.

Remember the OP is from another country and they have a different take on the whole heaven and hell thing. The church sells you on the idea of a life after death to control you. Frankly if God were standing right in front of you you probably wouldn't know it and the same goes for me. Besides, this is a tangent away from the original subject of this post.

joy4gud's photo
Thu 10/06/11 06:30 PM




Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

girl believe me, there is life after death, and the way you live your life and what you believe in, will determine where you will go after death. flowerforyou
I believe in Jesus Christ, for He is the only Way to eternity happy now if you want to know more go to religion forum. :heart:

joy4gud's photo
Thu 10/06/11 06:35 PM









Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

just believe me after death there is life ,no one shall vanish

tell me what happens after death where we go?



Technically I have been on the other side! We are talking Heart Rate 0! Eyes shut. Time to call an ambulance. That was thanks to an allergy test gone bad.

There was nothing there! I didn't see anything. I woke up suddenly gushing vomit like a geyser. I didn't meet God or Jesus or Krishna, Buddha, Mohammed. NOTHING! I did not fall asleep. What we have been taught to have blind faith in is a LIE! I could care less WHAT culture you are from. Life after death? Only in fiction.

Make hay while the sun shines!

BELIEVE ME! I BEEN THERE! I didn't see anything. I would have remembered even if it was like a dream.

Loveboatexpress, you need to find (a) lover(s) that know how to touch you, are reasonably in touch with you as a person, and have a life. I have spent years among people who are so self important. Los Angeles is so full of people shallower than a mud puddle. They pretend to know what love is. They think they are living life. I know I am not living life the way I want to either and I have had a lot of what I would call "Bunk Sex" because women think they know what they are doing. Good sex is experimentation (within personal limits, when there are no personal limits we call that person a TRISEXUAL as in they will try ANYTHING once and if they like it? Do it some more). A relationship can not revolve around sex but sex is integral like the wheel bearing to a car. If you miss that part the car won't roll. Likewise most women have no clue what to do on top of a man. And if that is the case what makes ANY lesbian think they can out do any man in bed when he is a competent lover? Frankly some lesbians I know I would not touch with a pole like a lot of women I know. Then again the laws of attraction are screwy! We want what we can't have, men and women alike.

But if there is one thing I have learned in life, Real sexual gratification is elusive like a functional relationship! If you get both you hit the mother load. I think that culturally you are in a society that expects subservient and servile women. That has an effect on how you perceive love. And you are still questioning what and how you feel. You are more than likely Bisexual and need to have it both ways. If you were just out for the experience of sexual gratification I am pretty sure I could show you a world you only dreamed of. But being Draconian I have a hard edge to how I think and feel and a relationship might be very different considering "Sheep don't run with wolves but sometimes dogs do!" I don't like subservient and servile women. I like a woman who will speak her mind but do it with grace. There is a huge difference coming off like a Bittche (Mingles's word police don't like this word, female dog is the alternative) and coming off like someone in command and control and it has everything to do with attitude. Most (AND I WILL STICK BY THIS!) American Lesbians are utter man haters. Some don't have the hate issues and are people just like anyone but others are rabid and want to but the bite on all other women who are either Bi, Heterosexual, or have questions about them selves. They rush them into a lifestyle they are not prepared for and wind up ruining women to the whole idea of a relationship with sexual fulfillment.

In a previous post I complained about how people are not honest at all with themselves or others around them. First be honest with yourself and admit you don't have enough information. What might be a fascination now could turn out later to only be just that. You might even find fulfillment in a three way relationship where it is you and one other woman and man. You could discover that you like it with two men and yourself. We all want what we want.

You feel trapped between personal belief and cultural belief. I would probably be thrilled out of my mind to have a life partnership and a fully committed relationship with two women and myself. Hell I have had my share of fantasies about that one. But I want more than life will grant me. So I will make the best I can of what I got. It might help if you do the same! Walk, don't run through life.

CARPE DIEM!drinker



ok! You did not see anything, iam sure you saw darkness, and if you do it is b'cos you were heading the other side but mercy brought you back.
Our not believing can not change the truth. happy flowerforyou


Again you follow through blind faith. I don't. God can speak for him, her, itself. I didn't see darkness. I literally shut down and reactivated. I remember blacking out (I felt it coming on) and then realizing I was vomiting as my eyes opened again. I had a doctor getting ready to stick me with an epipen and they were in the process of calling an ambulance. BP of ZERO! I could go so deep into this tangent but arguing even philosophically with someone who has chosen the blind path is like arguing with a five year old (no offense intended) which is what I have come to expect of most Christians.

Remember the OP is from another country and they have a different take on the whole heaven and hell thing. The church sells you on the idea of a life after death to control you. Frankly if God were standing right in front of you you probably wouldn't know it and the same goes for me. Besides, this is a tangent away from the original subject of this post.

maybe you did not die, in the first place. happy

no photo
Thu 10/06/11 07:01 PM
Its amazing just how far off subject a post can spread to ,,,when the op is just looking for a hook-up,,laugh
Andy you have given some great advice in here,,,and I'm really impressed with your compassions to help her,,,very cool Bro!

And Joy,,your heart here to read,,is also very cool..

As to that after life stuff,,,People will ALL believe what they will
until they die,,,nothing short of Jesus returning once more,,will ever change that within the minds of those who don't believe?

Just live to be YOU in your own beliefs and your be GREAT!:heart:

AndyBgood's photo
Thu 10/06/11 10:22 PM





Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

girl believe me, there is life after death, and the way you live your life and what you believe in, will determine where you will go after death. flowerforyou
I believe in Jesus Christ, for He is the only Way to eternity happy now if you want to know more go to religion forum. :heart:


Sorry, off topic, and I was raised Christian and turned my back on its hypocrisy. Jesus was a prophet who taught a better way of life and people to this day still get that wrong! "Through my word is Salvation was what he said in the bible but it has been twisted into "Through ME is Salvation." Jesus wanted us to walk in grace with one another. Not worship him. We are supposed to love God with all our hearts. Not LOVE JESUS with all our hearts.

Now you compare apples and oranges when you speak of Faith. There are those of alternative religious beliefs here who don't see Jesus and Christianity as "The Only WAY to eternal life." it isn't. Remember when Jesus said beware of false shepherds? Better read up on the Commandments Jesus gave us and ask yourself do you have another God? To say Jesus is the Only Way to Eternity is Blasphemy against the God you claim to worship! Jesus himself said he was only a teacher. He also said we are all children of God but that point seems to be mooted by religious fanatics and theologians who make careers of spreading their beliefs on others.

Like Iam4u said, Just live to be you. But to preach that Jesus is the only way? I can't and will not buy that for a host of reasons! That and it has ABSOLUTELY NO PLACE here on this topic!

If I even remotely began to try to discus the concepts of the Kama Sutra with you I probably would be having a one sided conversation. All you seem to know is the bible. I read the Book of Mormon, the Quaran, studied the early and later teachings of Buddha. I have had a chance to study a plethora of other religions both past and present. Clients of mine were Rabbis and priests. I have had friends among the Wiccans, one druid, a REAL druid, Satanics, and Scientologists. They all have their takes on life after death. So sight unseen they are suddenly wrong and you are the only right one here? Even the Bible mentions Yahweh/ Jehova (So will the real ONLY GOD PLEASE STEP FOREWORD!) displacing the "False gods" and Baal. Everyone is convinced they know the way to heaven. And they want to convince everyone else.

Don't let bad guidance lead you by your nose. There is more to life than faith. There is the experience of living and as time progresses the truth will be revealed but until then we should be more concerned with living a good life rather than appeasing an unseen absentee God.

If there is a life after death God had better be concerned with me meeting him. I got some questions I want answered! And "Kneel to me" is not one of the answers!

joy4gud's photo
Thu 10/06/11 11:43 PM
If you must see God, you must prepare to meet him. :heart:
Anway, lets not go off topic here, i have a question for you Andy in the religion forum. flowerforyou

navygirl's photo
Fri 10/07/11 03:41 PM







Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

just believe me after death there is life ,no one shall vanish

tell me what happens after death where we go?



Technically I have been on the other side! We are talking Heart Rate 0! Eyes shut. Time to call an ambulance. That was thanks to an allergy test gone bad.

There was nothing there! I didn't see anything. I woke up suddenly gushing vomit like a geyser. I didn't meet God or Jesus or Krishna, Buddha, Mohammed. NOTHING! I did not fall asleep. What we have been taught to have blind faith in is a LIE! I could care less WHAT culture you are from. Life after death? Only in fiction.

Make hay while the sun shines!

BELIEVE ME! I BEEN THERE! I didn't see anything. I would have remembered even if it was like a dream.

Loveboatexpress, you need to find (a) lover(s) that know how to touch you, are reasonably in touch with you as a person, and have a life. I have spent years among people who are so self important. Los Angeles is so full of people shallower than a mud puddle. They pretend to know what love is. They think they are living life. I know I am not living life the way I want to either and I have had a lot of what I would call "Bunk Sex" because women think they know what they are doing. Good sex is experimentation (within personal limits, when there are no personal limits we call that person a TRISEXUAL as in they will try ANYTHING once and if they like it? Do it some more). A relationship can not revolve around sex but sex is integral like the wheel bearing to a car. If you miss that part the car won't roll. Likewise most women have no clue what to do on top of a man. And if that is the case what makes ANY lesbian think they can out do any man in bed when he is a competent lover? Frankly some lesbians I know I would not touch with a pole like a lot of women I know. Then again the laws of attraction are screwy! We want what we can't have, men and women alike.

But if there is one thing I have learned in life, Real sexual gratification is elusive like a functional relationship! If you get both you hit the mother load. I think that culturally you are in a society that expects subservient and servile women. That has an effect on how you perceive love. And you are still questioning what and how you feel. You are more than likely Bisexual and need to have it both ways. If you were just out for the experience of sexual gratification I am pretty sure I could show you a world you only dreamed of. But being Draconian I have a hard edge to how I think and feel and a relationship might be very different considering "Sheep don't run with wolves but sometimes dogs do!" I don't like subservient and servile women. I like a woman who will speak her mind but do it with grace. There is a huge difference coming off like a Bittche (Mingles's word police don't like this word, female dog is the alternative) and coming off like someone in command and control and it has everything to do with attitude. Most (AND I WILL STICK BY THIS!) American Lesbians are utter man haters. Some don't have the hate issues and are people just like anyone but others are rabid and want to but the bite on all other women who are either Bi, Heterosexual, or have questions about them selves. They rush them into a lifestyle they are not prepared for and wind up ruining women to the whole idea of a relationship with sexual fulfillment.

In a previous post I complained about how people are not honest at all with themselves or others around them. First be honest with yourself and admit you don't have enough information. What might be a fascination now could turn out later to only be just that. You might even find fulfillment in a three way relationship where it is you and one other woman and man. You could discover that you like it with two men and yourself. We all want what we want.

You feel trapped between personal belief and cultural belief. I would probably be thrilled out of my mind to have a life partnership and a fully committed relationship with two women and myself. Hell I have had my share of fantasies about that one. But I want more than life will grant me. So I will make the best I can of what I got. It might help if you do the same! Walk, don't run through life.

CARPE DIEM!drinker




Actually; there have been many reports of people dying and there was nothing. It can't just be co-incidence that all these people felt or saw nothing. I think people want to believe in life after death because they are too scared to face death. As you stated; its blind faith. Kids believe in Santa Claus so why not adults believing in God? People need something to cling on whether its real or not so I chuckle when people talk about the after life. rofl

joy4gud's photo
Sat 10/08/11 02:11 AM








Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

just believe me after death there is life ,no one shall vanish

tell me what happens after death where we go?



Technically I have been on the other side! We are talking Heart Rate 0! Eyes shut. Time to call an ambulance. That was thanks to an allergy test gone bad.

There was nothing there! I didn't see anything. I woke up suddenly gushing vomit like a geyser. I didn't meet God or Jesus or Krishna, Buddha, Mohammed. NOTHING! I did not fall asleep. What we have been taught to have blind faith in is a LIE! I could care less WHAT culture you are from. Life after death? Only in fiction.

Make hay while the sun shines!

BELIEVE ME! I BEEN THERE! I didn't see anything. I would have remembered even if it was like a dream.

Loveboatexpress, you need to find (a) lover(s) that know how to touch you, are reasonably in touch with you as a person, and have a life. I have spent years among people who are so self important. Los Angeles is so full of people shallower than a mud puddle. They pretend to know what love is. They think they are living life. I know I am not living life the way I want to either and I have had a lot of what I would call "Bunk Sex" because women think they know what they are doing. Good sex is experimentation (within personal limits, when there are no personal limits we call that person a TRISEXUAL as in they will try ANYTHING once and if they like it? Do it some more). A relationship can not revolve around sex but sex is integral like the wheel bearing to a car. If you miss that part the car won't roll. Likewise most women have no clue what to do on top of a man. And if that is the case what makes ANY lesbian think they can out do any man in bed when he is a competent lover? Frankly some lesbians I know I would not touch with a pole like a lot of women I know. Then again the laws of attraction are screwy! We want what we can't have, men and women alike.

But if there is one thing I have learned in life, Real sexual gratification is elusive like a functional relationship! If you get both you hit the mother load. I think that culturally you are in a society that expects subservient and servile women. That has an effect on how you perceive love. And you are still questioning what and how you feel. You are more than likely Bisexual and need to have it both ways. If you were just out for the experience of sexual gratification I am pretty sure I could show you a world you only dreamed of. But being Draconian I have a hard edge to how I think and feel and a relationship might be very different considering "Sheep don't run with wolves but sometimes dogs do!" I don't like subservient and servile women. I like a woman who will speak her mind but do it with grace. There is a huge difference coming off like a Bittche (Mingles's word police don't like this word, female dog is the alternative) and coming off like someone in command and control and it has everything to do with attitude. Most (AND I WILL STICK BY THIS!) American Lesbians are utter man haters. Some don't have the hate issues and are people just like anyone but others are rabid and want to but the bite on all other women who are either Bi, Heterosexual, or have questions about them selves. They rush them into a lifestyle they are not prepared for and wind up ruining women to the whole idea of a relationship with sexual fulfillment.

In a previous post I complained about how people are not honest at all with themselves or others around them. First be honest with yourself and admit you don't have enough information. What might be a fascination now could turn out later to only be just that. You might even find fulfillment in a three way relationship where it is you and one other woman and man. You could discover that you like it with two men and yourself. We all want what we want.

You feel trapped between personal belief and cultural belief. I would probably be thrilled out of my mind to have a life partnership and a fully committed relationship with two women and myself. Hell I have had my share of fantasies about that one. But I want more than life will grant me. So I will make the best I can of what I got. It might help if you do the same! Walk, don't run through life.

CARPE DIEM!drinker




Actually; there have been many reports of people dying and there was nothing. It can't just be co-incidence that all these people felt or saw nothing. I think people want to believe in life after death because they are too scared to face death. As you stated; its blind faith. Kids believe in Santa Claus so why not adults believing in God? People need something to cling on whether its real or not so I chuckle when people talk about the after life. rofl

THERE IS LIFE AFTER DEATH!!! happy

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Sun 10/09/11 01:43 PM






Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

just believe me after death there is life ,no one shall vanish

tell me what happens after death where we go?


well, we are not off topic because loveboatexpress create this thread for help though on other issue yet she brought this issue of vanishing after death.....
Now why did God created man? Can someone answer me?

hotbtm4u64's photo
Sun 10/09/11 01:50 PM
Tell you what OP its great to have options .. Personally I am strictly man on man now and love it ! I get pampered foot massages dont have to pay for anything ..

God I love it ! :banana:

I found out personaly women are emotional train wrecks..Rarely know what they want .Or if they do it isnt me LOL.. Can be more emotional relaxed and sensitive with a man also .

Personally you should stick with men ..They are much easier to please in every way .

loveboatexpress's photo
Mon 10/10/11 06:33 AM







Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

just believe me after death there is life ,no one shall vanish

tell me what happens after death where we go?



Technically I have been on the other side! We are talking Heart Rate 0! Eyes shut. Time to call an ambulance. That was thanks to an allergy test gone bad.

There was nothing there! I didn't see anything. I woke up suddenly gushing vomit like a geyser. I didn't meet God or Jesus or Krishna, Buddha, Mohammed. NOTHING! I did not fall asleep. What we have been taught to have blind faith in is a LIE! I could care less WHAT culture you are from. Life after death? Only in fiction.

Make hay while the sun shines!

BELIEVE ME! I BEEN THERE! I didn't see anything. I would have remembered even if it was like a dream.

Loveboatexpress, you need to find (a) lover(s) that know how to touch you, are reasonably in touch with you as a person, and have a life. I have spent years among people who are so self important. Los Angeles is so full of people shallower than a mud puddle. They pretend to know what love is. They think they are living life. I know I am not living life the way I want to either and I have had a lot of what I would call "Bunk Sex" because women think they know what they are doing. Good sex is experimentation (within personal limits, when there are no personal limits we call that person a TRISEXUAL as in they will try ANYTHING once and if they like it? Do it some more). A relationship can not revolve around sex but sex is integral like the wheel bearing to a car. If you miss that part the car won't roll. Likewise most women have no clue what to do on top of a man. And if that is the case what makes ANY lesbian think they can out do any man in bed when he is a competent lover? Frankly some lesbians I know I would not touch with a pole like a lot of women I know. Then again the laws of attraction are screwy! We want what we can't have, men and women alike.

But if there is one thing I have learned in life, Real sexual gratification is elusive like a functional relationship! If you get both you hit the mother load. I think that culturally you are in a society that expects subservient and servile women. That has an effect on how you perceive love. And you are still questioning what and how you feel. You are more than likely Bisexual and need to have it both ways. If you were just out for the experience of sexual gratification I am pretty sure I could show you a world you only dreamed of. But being Draconian I have a hard edge to how I think and feel and a relationship might be very different considering "Sheep don't run with wolves but sometimes dogs do!" I don't like subservient and servile women. I like a woman who will speak her mind but do it with grace. There is a huge difference coming off like a Bittche (Mingles's word police don't like this word, female dog is the alternative) and coming off like someone in command and control and it has everything to do with attitude. Most (AND I WILL STICK BY THIS!) American Lesbians are utter man haters. Some don't have the hate issues and are people just like anyone but others are rabid and want to but the bite on all other women who are either Bi, Heterosexual, or have questions about them selves. They rush them into a lifestyle they are not prepared for and wind up ruining women to the whole idea of a relationship with sexual fulfillment.

In a previous post I complained about how people are not honest at all with themselves or others around them. First be honest with yourself and admit you don't have enough information. What might be a fascination now could turn out later to only be just that. You might even find fulfillment in a three way relationship where it is you and one other woman and man. You could discover that you like it with two men and yourself. We all want what we want.

You feel trapped between personal belief and cultural belief. I would probably be thrilled out of my mind to have a life partnership and a fully committed relationship with two women and myself. Hell I have had my share of fantasies about that one. But I want more than life will grant me. So I will make the best I can of what I got. It might help if you do the same! Walk, don't run through life.

CARPE DIEM!drinker




Thanks for your effect and analysis..
for me sex is one of way to express mylove for the person.
am sure i will do with my women and maybe i will try with men too in future..Cheers to life

navygirl's photo
Tue 10/11/11 03:11 PM









Do you even have any clue what you really want in life?


all i want to have relationship .To live everyday, to share everything, do whatever we like and finally grow old and die.

so, do you truly believe that death is the end of your existence? happy


Yes it is end of journey flowerforyou . when we die there is nothing more. We vanish

just believe me after death there is life ,no one shall vanish

tell me what happens after death where we go?



Technically I have been on the other side! We are talking Heart Rate 0! Eyes shut. Time to call an ambulance. That was thanks to an allergy test gone bad.

There was nothing there! I didn't see anything. I woke up suddenly gushing vomit like a geyser. I didn't meet God or Jesus or Krishna, Buddha, Mohammed. NOTHING! I did not fall asleep. What we have been taught to have blind faith in is a LIE! I could care less WHAT culture you are from. Life after death? Only in fiction.

Make hay while the sun shines!

BELIEVE ME! I BEEN THERE! I didn't see anything. I would have remembered even if it was like a dream.

Loveboatexpress, you need to find (a) lover(s) that know how to touch you, are reasonably in touch with you as a person, and have a life. I have spent years among people who are so self important. Los Angeles is so full of people shallower than a mud puddle. They pretend to know what love is. They think they are living life. I know I am not living life the way I want to either and I have had a lot of what I would call "Bunk Sex" because women think they know what they are doing. Good sex is experimentation (within personal limits, when there are no personal limits we call that person a TRISEXUAL as in they will try ANYTHING once and if they like it? Do it some more). A relationship can not revolve around sex but sex is integral like the wheel bearing to a car. If you miss that part the car won't roll. Likewise most women have no clue what to do on top of a man. And if that is the case what makes ANY lesbian think they can out do any man in bed when he is a competent lover? Frankly some lesbians I know I would not touch with a pole like a lot of women I know. Then again the laws of attraction are screwy! We want what we can't have, men and women alike.

But if there is one thing I have learned in life, Real sexual gratification is elusive like a functional relationship! If you get both you hit the mother load. I think that culturally you are in a society that expects subservient and servile women. That has an effect on how you perceive love. And you are still questioning what and how you feel. You are more than likely Bisexual and need to have it both ways. If you were just out for the experience of sexual gratification I am pretty sure I could show you a world you only dreamed of. But being Draconian I have a hard edge to how I think and feel and a relationship might be very different considering "Sheep don't run with wolves but sometimes dogs do!" I don't like subservient and servile women. I like a woman who will speak her mind but do it with grace. There is a huge difference coming off like a Bittche (Mingles's word police don't like this word, female dog is the alternative) and coming off like someone in command and control and it has everything to do with attitude. Most (AND I WILL STICK BY THIS!) American Lesbians are utter man haters. Some don't have the hate issues and are people just like anyone but others are rabid and want to but the bite on all other women who are either Bi, Heterosexual, or have questions about them selves. They rush them into a lifestyle they are not prepared for and wind up ruining women to the whole idea of a relationship with sexual fulfillment.

In a previous post I complained about how people are not honest at all with themselves or others around them. First be honest with yourself and admit you don't have enough information. What might be a fascination now could turn out later to only be just that. You might even find fulfillment in a three way relationship where it is you and one other woman and man. You could discover that you like it with two men and yourself. We all want what we want.

You feel trapped between personal belief and cultural belief. I would probably be thrilled out of my mind to have a life partnership and a fully committed relationship with two women and myself. Hell I have had my share of fantasies about that one. But I want more than life will grant me. So I will make the best I can of what I got. It might help if you do the same! Walk, don't run through life.

CARPE DIEM!drinker




Actually; there have been many reports of people dying and there was nothing. It can't just be co-incidence that all these people felt or saw nothing. I think people want to believe in life after death because they are too scared to face death. As you stated; its blind faith. Kids believe in Santa Claus so why not adults believing in God? People need something to cling on whether its real or not so I chuckle when people talk about the after life. rofl

THERE IS LIFE AFTER DEATH!!! happy


rofl rofl rofl offtopic Forgive me Op, I too got off topic. Its not about Religion; it was about you and wondering if you were a Lesbian. You know take it day by day and just see where it leads. Just be happy with who you are.

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