are you a leopard ?

NOT an "urban cougar", but still a single or divorced woman 35 to 55, intelligent, successful, educated, secure in herself, her looks and her life. She enjoys the company of men on her terms. She does not seek younger men, older men or even men her own age. They seek HER.

These women are far, far classier than the trashy "cougar". They do not frequent bars for pick ups, hook ups or anything other than a drink and some company with their girl friends. They do not hide their ages or their attitudes and are impatient with obvious come ons. Mostly solitary, they are very, very difficult to hunt, hence "leopardess". Katherine Hepburn would have been the Ultimate Urban Leopard(ess).

You might call them a MILF if you want to get slapped.

Also called a leopardess or quite simply, a grown woman.
"Dude. Don't. That's no cougar. That's a leopard. She will smack your *** and send you home to Mommy." --overheard in a bar

Or