Topic: Mingle2 Regulars........
prashant01's photo
Tue 09/13/11 08:17 AM
Yeah....I'm still alive!!happy

Jess642's photo
Tue 09/13/11 01:49 PM
Umm a few years now....at times, often, and others....life gets in the way, and I am out living it.glasses

CleanBathroom's photo
Tue 09/13/11 02:21 PM
I've gone and returned a handful of times but the allure of saying random things to random people in random chat rooms is just too much to ignore in a world full of random nonsense.

How very specific of me.

ladyliz1417's photo
Tue 09/13/11 03:13 PM
Edited by ladyliz1417 on Tue 09/13/11 03:14 PM
Been here a very long timeyawn 4yrs & 9 monthsnoway

luv2roknroll's photo
Tue 09/13/11 03:31 PM
Edited by luv2roknroll on Tue 09/13/11 03:40 PM
Im going on 4 years here, and im crazier than ever!:tongue: :banana: :tongue: :banana: :tongue: :banana: :tongue: :banana:

Im like a bad rash, that just wont go away.laugh laugh laugh laugh

I live on Mingle, its my home!flowerforyou

Im here everyday,:banana:

no I dont have a life, or a job!sad2

Although being 6 different personalities here, is work!:wink:

luv2roknroll's photo
Tue 09/13/11 03:33 PM

I'm a regular reader, just not a regular posterohwell
I often wonder why some people read and never post?

Maybe you can tell me?

no photo
Tue 09/13/11 03:35 PM
boo

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Tue 09/13/11 03:37 PM

boo


scared

luv2roknroll's photo
Tue 09/13/11 03:40 PM

boo
boo hoo...........

no photo
Tue 09/13/11 04:05 PM
I've been here since before it changed from just say high.waving

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Tue 09/13/11 04:08 PM
well if ya call being here since it was just say hi yes then its been over two yrs but then i was under another name lol

BettyB's photo
Tue 09/13/11 04:10 PM
I was here from just say hi too.But after that and before m2 there was another name one plus you or something like that.Does anybody remeber the name? It didn't last long at all.

ujGearhead's photo
Tue 09/13/11 07:52 PM

I was here from just say hi too.But after that and before m2 there was another name one plus you or something like that.Does anybody remeber the name? It didn't last long at all.


It was OnePlusYou.

no photo
Tue 09/13/11 08:05 PM
also here a long time since my join date but I have deactivated several times for as little as a few weeks to more than a year one time

I will post frequently at times and then go for weeks posting maybe once or twice a day or not at all

still I am pretty much a regular overall

and not that happy about that - I did not join with the intention to stay hereflowerforyou


and really have been thinking that I wonder if online is going to work _ I know it works for some, but hasn't for me

I sometimes wonder if the rumors I read about the sites not wanting you to succeed because then their members leave is true

no photo
Tue 09/13/11 08:29 PM

also here a long time since my join date but I have deactivated several times for as little as a few weeks to more than a year one time

I will post frequently at times and then go for weeks posting maybe once or twice a day or not at all

still I am pretty much a regular overall

and not that happy about that - I did not join with the intention to stay hereflowerforyou


and really have been thinking that I wonder if online is going to work _ I know it works for some, but hasn't for me

I sometimes wonder if the rumors I read about the sites not wanting you to succeed because then their members leave is true


In my experience, this is more of an issue for the pay sites, who don't want to lose your $24.95 a month if/when you find somebody.

TrueJedi's photo
Tue 09/13/11 08:51 PM
Hi everyone waving Been here since '07 good to see some familar faces are still around.

ujGearhead's photo
Tue 09/13/11 09:13 PM


also here a long time since my join date but I have deactivated several times for as little as a few weeks to more than a year one time

I will post frequently at times and then go for weeks posting maybe once or twice a day or not at all

still I am pretty much a regular overall

and not that happy about that - I did not join with the intention to stay hereflowerforyou


and really have been thinking that I wonder if online is going to work _ I know it works for some, but hasn't for me

I sometimes wonder if the rumors I read about the sites not wanting you to succeed because then their members leave is true


In my experience, this is more of an issue for the pay sites, who don't want to lose your $24.95 a month if/when you find somebody.


That would make sense to me. I doubt that's much of an issue here though. Just look at how many regulars are here and not single/looking. However, if this WAS a pay site, I'm sure the vast majority of them would be gone.

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Tue 09/13/11 09:43 PM



also here a long time since my join date but I have deactivated several times for as little as a few weeks to more than a year one time

I will post frequently at times and then go for weeks posting maybe once or twice a day or not at all

still I am pretty much a regular overall

and not that happy about that - I did not join with the intention to stay hereflowerforyou


and really have been thinking that I wonder if online is going to work _ I know it works for some, but hasn't for me

I sometimes wonder if the rumors I read about the sites not wanting you to succeed because then their members leave is true


In my experience, this is more of an issue for the pay sites, who don't want to lose your $24.95 a month if/when you find somebody.


That would make sense to me. I doubt that's much of an issue here though. Just look at how many regulars are here and not single/looking. However, if this WAS a pay site, I'm sure the vast majority of them would be gone.


When I was doing some research (last year) for the dating site book, I ran into some pay-site stories that would make most people think twice about even considering a pay site.

One site was famous for sending out bogus messages (from beautiful eligible females, heh heh) urging the male members to stick around and talk to them. It was alleged that the beautiful eligible females were actually site staff members (possibly male) whose job it was to pretend to be regular members and pretend to be interested in the guys on the site.

There were several sites with really bad reputations for not letting people leave -- in some cases, a member would request to have their account deleted, and the sites not only would ignore the request, but would keep on charging their credit cards for months afterwards.

The bottom line for pay sites is they get the majority of their revenues from paying members. So the retention of those paying members is their first priority, which directly contradicts the ostensible purpose of the site in the first place. So, if it comes down to a choice between making truckloads of money or helping some people find happiness, which do you suppose is going to triumph?

I've only tried one pay site ever, and that was for 3 months in early 2006. I will say that, of all the sites I ever tried, that was the one where I got the most correspondence -- I was contacted by 174 of their members, almost all of them local. I never sent out a first e-mail. I don't know how many of those were bogus members, if any -- I wasn't interested in meeting any of them, so I never really followed up.

And the site didn't give me any problems when I wanted to leave after three months, so I guess I got lucky that time.







ujGearhead's photo
Tue 09/13/11 09:59 PM




also here a long time since my join date but I have deactivated several times for as little as a few weeks to more than a year one time

I will post frequently at times and then go for weeks posting maybe once or twice a day or not at all

still I am pretty much a regular overall

and not that happy about that - I did not join with the intention to stay hereflowerforyou


and really have been thinking that I wonder if online is going to work _ I know it works for some, but hasn't for me

I sometimes wonder if the rumors I read about the sites not wanting you to succeed because then their members leave is true


In my experience, this is more of an issue for the pay sites, who don't want to lose your $24.95 a month if/when you find somebody.


That would make sense to me. I doubt that's much of an issue here though. Just look at how many regulars are here and not single/looking. However, if this WAS a pay site, I'm sure the vast majority of them would be gone.


When I was doing some research (last year) for the dating site book, I ran into some pay-site stories that would make most people think twice about even considering a pay site.

One site was famous for sending out bogus messages (from beautiful eligible females, heh heh) urging the male members to stick around and talk to them. It was alleged that the beautiful eligible females were actually site staff members (possibly male) whose job it was to pretend to be regular members and pretend to be interested in the guys on the site.

There were several sites with really bad reputations for not letting people leave -- in some cases, a member would request to have their account deleted, and the sites not only would ignore the request, but would keep on charging their credit cards for months afterwards.

The bottom line for pay sites is they get the majority of their revenues from paying members. So the retention of those paying members is their first priority, which directly contradicts the ostensible purpose of the site in the first place. So, if it comes down to a choice between making truckloads of money or helping some people find happiness, which do you suppose is going to triumph?

I've only tried one pay site ever, and that was for 3 months in early 2006. I will say that, of all the sites I ever tried, that was the one where I got the most correspondence -- I was contacted by 174 of their members, almost all of them local. I never sent out a first e-mail. I don't know how many of those were bogus members, if any -- I wasn't interested in meeting any of them, so I never really followed up.

And the site didn't give me any problems when I wanted to leave after three months, so I guess I got lucky that time.









I only tried one pay site(can't remember which) and that was about 4-5 years ago. Only reason I even tried it was because they had one of those deals that the first few weeks or month or whatever was free, so I cancelled it a few hours before the 'trial period' was up. So what do they do, they offer me 2 more weeks for free. I figured what the hell, so agreed. Of course, a few hours before the end of those 2 weeks I cancelled. Once again, they offered me ANOTHER 2 weeks for free. Once again, I said ok. That went on for a few months before they gave up. laugh

chickayoshi's photo
Tue 09/13/11 10:07 PM
Still here and kicking...from time to time of course. :banana: