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Topic: Clueless
rgaj1946 Joined Mon 09/05/11 Posts: 6	Mon 09/05/11 08:32 AM
I am clueless about this site,talking to ladies,or anyone else for that matter. At this point I am not looking for a date. My social skills are pretty much missing. After 37 yrs. of marriage I find myself totally alone. I am very cautious by nature,and quite frankly 3/4's ugly. That pretty much sums it up for a start

txmomof2 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 73300	Mon 09/05/11 08:46 AM
Welcome to Mingleland

joy4gud Joined Sun 06/05/11 Posts: 3172	Mon 09/05/11 09:47 AM
Welcome to Mingle2! Goodluck in your search.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Mon 09/05/11 09:58 AM
I am clueless about this site,talking to ladies ,or anyone else for that matter. At this point I am not looking for a date. My social skills are pretty much missing. After 37 yrs. of marriage I find myself totally alone. I am very cautious by nature,and quite frankly 3/4's ugly. That pretty much sums it up for a start Great opener for someone who claims no social skills :-) The beauty of the forums is, you can chat as much or as little as you like. You can scamper in and out at your leisure. You can poke, you can listen, you can just observe. All up to you. You now OWN a spot on Mingle2, enjoy :-)

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Mon 09/05/11 10:12 AM
I am clueless about this site,talking to ladies ,or anyone else for that matter. At this point I am not looking for a date. My social skills are pretty much missing. After 37 yrs. of marriage I find myself totally alone. I am very cautious by nature,and quite frankly 3/4's ugly. That pretty much sums it up for a start Great opener for someone who claims no social skills :-) The beauty of the forums is, you can chat as much or as little as you like. You can scamper in and out at your leisure. You can poke, you can listen, you can just observe. All up to you. You now OWN a spot on Mingle2, enjoy :-) True. And welcome :)

rgaj1946 Joined Mon 09/05/11 Posts: 6	Mon 09/05/11 11:07 AM
It is fairly easy to set behind a keyboard and think of what to say. However,it'd another thing to meet face to face,or talk on a cell phone. Here I'm safe,out there I am clueless/lost.

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Mon 09/05/11 11:10 AM
Join in on the forums. We have many nice and some clueless people for you to play with.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Mon 09/05/11 11:48 AM
It is fairly easy to set behind a keyboard and think of what to say. However,it'd another thing to meet face to face,or talk on a cell phone. Here I'm safe,out there I am clueless/lost. Very true. You can be serene behind the cloak of the internet. You can give advice like you know about what you speak. But it is a good start. To chat at your whim. Grow and learn :-)

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Mon 09/05/11 01:10 PM


rgaj1946 Joined Mon 09/05/11 Posts: 6	Mon 09/05/11 03:53 PM
I do not know how to talk and even more important listen to a woman. My X will testify to that. When I did talk to any woman 99% of the time it was plain BS. Always trying to be cool,be sexy. The funny thing is I never cheated in 37 yrs.of marriage,but I was never honest with any lady I talked to. I don't want pity, I want to learn. I would really like to meet a lady I can be friends with,one who I respect,trust,and learn from. I want to be honest for a change.

Moeinthesnow Joined Fri 06/10/11 Posts: 210	Mon 09/05/11 05:23 PM
Welcome to Mingle Best word of advice Just be yourself