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I get what you're saying here. Although i like talking about many things here, i sometimes feel as if i'm not welcome, or slightly intimidated. Not all the time. Just every now and then. Just talk about what you want really. Just don't joke about death. You can talk about mainly anything on here. hmmmmmmmm - did u invade my brain? - I fine the site ocaissonally cliquish too  also good post |
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OK peoples I want some help here, I am wondering what topics are things that shouldnt be mentioned until theres a good flow going? U should not need help with all this kinda thing as u have to be yourself and I cannot help u do that ******************************************************************* What things should be left best to just talk about in person? You care thinking about this so just make a space in your brain to put the answers as they occur to you as you talk with someone ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ What things if mentioned or asked about puts up red flags? ask. ask. ask. I've seen too many good starts go up in smoke because of assumptions and miscalculations !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have had some conversations with random people and the conversation is good until I get the to the one word response phase and it feels like I am the only one willing to add to the conversation... maybe i have asked something to personal, or the person is shy? Nah- prolly just tired of the chat window - or busy - move on - but if it's someone u really like - schedule another chat date or even a phone date @@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@222 I know jokes are a good why to get out of that bubble maybe there are other ways too?. ask them if another time might be better ############################################################################ I have lost my discomfort with any and all topics and can pretty much talk about anything and I am armed with over a million things that I wanna know about the person I get interested in. I dont wanna seem to pushy or like im prying for information like some slueth from another country looking for war secrets, nor do i wanna come across like im desperate for thier attentions or affections. I have found I have grown more comfortable with starting conversations. I want feed back esspecially since its an online conversation, i hope that makes sense? You have to take it as you find it - u cannot make the women u chat with conform to your wants - find one who just does...and don;t let her get away - even if she isn't perfect in all ways - if you have a convo connection that is such a great start %%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%% Any suggestions on things i should try and get to know?, what topics seem to get more of a discussion that lets you get a better feel for the person, or something that just gets a person talking when it seems the conversation has died but still liking the person? learn to take your cues from the person u are talking to, and if you have a reason to talk or message - like elaborating a forum thread - even better become a good listener good luck! |
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I get what you're saying here. Although i like talking about many things here, i sometimes feel as if i'm not welcome, or slightly intimidated. Not all the time. Just every now and then. Just talk about what you want really. Just don't joke about death. You can talk about mainly anything on here. hmmmmmmmm - did u invade my brain? - I fine the site ocaissonally cliquish too also good post This place used to be really cliquish, but I don't really see it anymore. It's much, much better. There's no reason why anyone should feel not welcome. |
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Actually, I kinda got depressed thinking of how many times I have humped my pillows. Though my pillows still tell me "I love you" oh i thought i was the only one but mine meow i love you o.0 |
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OK peoples I want some help here, I am wondering what topics are things that shouldnt be mentioned until theres a good flow going? U should not need help with all this kinda thing as u have to be yourself and I cannot help u do that ******************************************************************* What things should be left best to just talk about in person? You care thinking about this so just make a space in your brain to put the answers as they occur to you as you talk with someone ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ What things if mentioned or asked about puts up red flags? ask. ask. ask. I've seen too many good starts go up in smoke because of assumptions and miscalculations !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have had some conversations with random people and the conversation is good until I get the to the one word response phase and it feels like I am the only one willing to add to the conversation... maybe i have asked something to personal, or the person is shy? Nah- prolly just tired of the chat window - or busy - move on - but if it's someone u really like - schedule another chat date or even a phone date @@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@222 I know jokes are a good why to get out of that bubble maybe there are other ways too?. ask them if another time might be better ############################################################################ I have lost my discomfort with any and all topics and can pretty much talk about anything and I am armed with over a million things that I wanna know about the person I get interested in. I dont wanna seem to pushy or like im prying for information like some slueth from another country looking for war secrets, nor do i wanna come across like im desperate for thier attentions or affections. I have found I have grown more comfortable with starting conversations. I want feed back esspecially since its an online conversation, i hope that makes sense? You have to take it as you find it - u cannot make the women u chat with conform to your wants - find one who just does...and don;t let her get away - even if she isn't perfect in all ways - if you have a convo connection that is such a great start %%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%% Any suggestions on things i should try and get to know?, what topics seem to get more of a discussion that lets you get a better feel for the person, or something that just gets a person talking when it seems the conversation has died but still liking the person? learn to take your cues from the person u are talking to, and if you have a reason to talk or message - like elaborating a forum thread - even better become a good listener good luck! thanks very informative and great input I will try and implement it in the future |
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Pillows. Soft, fluffy pillows. They are always a comfortable topic. And they are fun, too. You can throw them at your partner/friend/spouse/lover/kids. If you do it just right, you can whomp a big busty blonde in skimpy nightwear and *poof* ... big cloud of feathers. In slow motion. Hey, it can happen, I've seen it in plenty of teen angst movies. And comfortable. Don't forget that, too. At night, you can lay your head on one and it's almost like laying your head on a cloud. Yes. Your own little cloud carrying you off to dreamland. (insert lullabye music) Ok, you can wake up now. Well, there's your comfortable topic. Next? that made me lol, ok i will totally bring that up nest chat session :) just for fun that went over very well haha |
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