Thank you Katertots. You will know in time if you have or not and I hope for the best :)

i know hun

I thought that I was off to a good start, but as time went on I saw less and less of her. Most say that distance isn't too great of you want it to work out, but its only that way if someone thinks that they are willing to start over. It seems to start with the first trip, which is none so far. Most of us are in our comfort zone no matter how much we think we could be happier with someone and aren't willing to risk it. It turns out to be a gamble. Its a paradox, if they travel to see you, you have to wonder about desperation or willingness to go beyond what may be considered normal. If you go to see them then do your expectations become so high that you rationalize why you were willing to spend the time and money with no way of knowing what you are in for when you get there. You have to wonder about the same things you would if they came to see you. Talk about pressure!!! Fly across the country and convince someone that you think you know, but really don't that you are not nuts for making the trip!!!

I'm going off on a tree here and saying you really can't find true love at least not on this site and if you can then I must have to wait a long a$$ time to catch up to the rest of the people here.

Hmmm, I never thought this thread is still up!

So, anyone looking for a match?????

Oh well, I'm happy now, me and my man are getting stronger, he spends a lot of time talking to me (like at least 5 hours a day?!) and calls me often (like 3 to 5 times a week for at least 20 mins) not bad I guess, he spends too much on phonecards too! Now I can tell I'm in

Dont get tired, keep seeking and you will find him/her, LOL!

Goodluck to everyone!

well ive found my sweetheart via here and another site, we are going to be together very soon as im going to go and see her in october and i cant wait!!!!!

i havent yet i know i have a secret admirer but he wont come forward

Haven't found my match, but I found a couple of cigarette lighters in my drawer.

lol tom

COCO, ask Tom, maybe it's him.

no old sage its not tom , tom is a good friend though

oldsage

Just a thought, why not just start asking the guys you would like it to be.
Direct approach, nothing wrong with it.

I'm everybodies friend. at least, I hope I
am.

i know frank but i have a lot of friends on here

Say Coco, tiger & fallen are looking for someone to run the coffee shop while they vacation. You swhould go & chat about the job. Trip to Florida.

i have a job here sage but thanks hun

awww, Jason nice to see you back and good to hear you found her here, congrats!

Hmmmm, who knows he/she will be the next person to post?!

MAYBE...too early to tell. All is looking great though.