Topic: 18-year-old guy still in the closet
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Sat 08/13/11 05:26 PM
Hi everyone.

I'm Matt, and I'm still in the closet, but I have to admit, I had to try out a dating site just because I'm a horny teenager and I would like to make a fantasy happen someday. I don't plan on coming out soon, my parents definitely wouldn't be the type to handle it well.

This fall I'll be attending ASU in Tempe. I'm a total nerd, entering the Computer Science field. I really like rational thinking, and I get very into politics and philosophy. I'm not the laid-back kind of guy who can just not have an opinion or not care about things. I am passionate about my job, my career, and my opinions.

Just browsing around. I really like men who are older than me and a bit heavier, and Latino men are amazing. Please don't hesitate to send me a message if you just want to talk, I'm shy at first but my friends love me when they get to know me -- I like to be witty.

Anyway, never done this dating thing before, total virgin here! But I'd figure this is something new to try!

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Sun 08/14/11 09:02 AM
hey matt, welcome to mingle. good luck on your studies and your search for someone special. sorry i'm not your type, but if you have a sister that is interested in a man who is older, heavier, and latino i would be glad to help her out bigsmile

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Sun 08/14/11 09:41 PM
Hi Matt welcome!
I’m new here too and just started school in LA. My advise to you is, research the professors so you can take the “good” classes. Trust your instincts and really spend time looking at the syllabuses and look up all the professors before you decide which classes to take.

As far as the closet business goes, I know that coming out is easier said than done. You just have to trust your instinct and gut feelings, and you’ll know when it’s time.
I wish you good luck.