we all know there are ups and downs to most relationships....
what i have noticed they are different each time..
sometimes there are little ups with little downs.
sometimes little ups and big downs..
big ups little downs..
and smetimes big ups and big downs...
ever think what all this means?
do you have different ups and downs with relationships or they all the same?
or do u believe the bigger the ups the bigger the downs?

nice evenly spaced ups n downs

with a bit of side to side

is ok for a start

but hey what do i know

for me it all depends on the relationship. how fast i rushed into things with that person, and how long I have known them before hand. each relationship is different, just as every person is different.

My Mr. Happy sure goes up and down!!

All I know is that when the downs are more than the ups, it's time to move on!!

lmao at mike

i agree with ya lost mom...

Humnmm yes in every relationship there willl always be ups and downs to it. At times it just depends how soon you address the problem to how big it will get. And at times those small problems we need to just let them slide for they are not worth arguing over at all. But each time the problem needs to be dealt with at the time. It does take two in order to do that communcation is a very big factor if you don't have communcation there is no way to work past the small things much less the big ones.


My self the only one that I will not deal with for the talking will do no good is if one or the other CHEATS. When one crosses that fine line with me all the talk in the world will not give back what they took away.

and ups and downs do change nrmally throughout a relationship....

oops normally*

so do u think the bigger the ups the more u love someone? or does it mean when an issue arises.. the bigger down just made the up seem higher?

adj evenly spaced? meaning? little ups with little downs or big ups with big downs?

I think the more time spent on the relationship...the more ups and downs there will be. I also believe the little downs can scale to be BIG downs if not worked on. I know from past relationships the little things that agivated me that were never discussed wound up being VERY big when it all snow balled, if you know what I mean.

Little and BIG ups are great....doesn't matter to me. What counts to me are the down times.

but with little ups i think we all tend to put up with less down times to where if the ups are always big ones we may tend to put up with a larger number of downs...

Love shouldn't be sooooooo hard!!! If there are too many downs and they aren't resolved.....just kept going on and on........then to me there is No point.......and Im out of there!!!