Topic: American single guys?
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Sun 08/14/11 09:11 AM




Let me put it to you this way. If I had to live with someone always rejecting my personality and ideas and I had a chance to have someone that loved me and was able to except me for who I am the choice would be pretty easy. Why do you think there are scams that come out of particular areas of the world? Because people are capitalizing on a good thing. You think these relationships are phony setups? You need to open your eyes and see how many mixed couples are hooking up. They start talking the money thing after the first conversation sure, dump them unless it is worth your while, but if your engaged in true possibilities you might be surprised.

A scam can happen here in the states just as easy as with that person from another country. You make the call.



You're justifying scams because they've learned to capitalize on a good thing?


No, the scams started because of all the people who were legitimately finding partners from these areas. Scams follow success.

Back in the "80s" men from the US started to have great success finding wives overseas which became a huge dating pool. Clubs were set up that provided ways for men and women to meet in a get to know you type setup, then the relationships were taken to the next level.

There was a report that came out in the "90s" that did a follow up on these marriages vs American based marriages that showed that the foreign mix marriages had a far higher success rate of the couples being content over the America based marriages. The divorce rate of American to American was 3 times higher than American to foreign. Domestic violence was 7 times higher in American to American vs American vs Foreign. Education, athletics and other topics carried the same results.

Once again thank you for bringing what I say into question as it brings more air time to the issues in a good light. People have been emailing me on the fact that you like to follow me around with skepticism. Didn't know you were such a fan of mine but I thank you.

We should have our own opposing show on dateline or something LOL


No I just think she does that to everyone.

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Sun 08/14/11 09:13 AM
Edited by singmesweet on Sun 08/14/11 09:18 AM




Let me put it to you this way. If I had to live with someone always rejecting my personality and ideas and I had a chance to have someone that loved me and was able to except me for who I am the choice would be pretty easy. Why do you think there are scams that come out of particular areas of the world? Because people are capitalizing on a good thing. You think these relationships are phony setups? You need to open your eyes and see how many mixed couples are hooking up. They start talking the money thing after the first conversation sure, dump them unless it is worth your while, but if your engaged in true possibilities you might be surprised.

A scam can happen here in the states just as easy as with that person from another country. You make the call.



You're justifying scams because they've learned to capitalize on a good thing?


No, the scams started because of all the people who were legitimately finding partners from these areas. Scams follow success.

Back in the "80s" men from the US started to have great success finding wives overseas which became a huge dating pool. Clubs were set up that provided ways for men and women to meet in a get to know you type setup, then the relationships were taken to the next level.

There was a report that came out in the "90s" that did a follow up on these marriages vs American based marriages that showed that the foreign mix marriages had a far higher success rate of the couples being content over the America based marriages. The divorce rate of American to American was 3 times higher than American to foreign. Domestic violence was 7 times higher in American to American vs American vs Foreign. Education, athletics and other topics carried the same results.

Once again thank you for bringing what I say into question as it brings more air time to the issues in a good light. People have been emailing me on the fact that you like to follow me around with skepticism. Didn't know you were such a fan of mine but I thank you.

We should have our own opposing show on dateline or something LOL


Follow you around? We've been posting in the same threads. I believe I commented on something you said, saying I didn't understand the approach the OP was taking, as it would never be one I'd take. Then gave my reasoning. But, according to you, replying to your posts is following you around. Got it. Good to know.

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Sun 08/14/11 09:14 AM





Let me put it to you this way. If I had to live with someone always rejecting my personality and ideas and I had a chance to have someone that loved me and was able to except me for who I am the choice would be pretty easy. Why do you think there are scams that come out of particular areas of the world? Because people are capitalizing on a good thing. You think these relationships are phony setups? You need to open your eyes and see how many mixed couples are hooking up. They start talking the money thing after the first conversation sure, dump them unless it is worth your while, but if your engaged in true possibilities you might be surprised.

A scam can happen here in the states just as easy as with that person from another country. You make the call.



You're justifying scams because they've learned to capitalize on a good thing?


No, the scams started because of all the people who were legitimately finding partners from these areas. Scams follow success.

Back in the "80s" men from the US started to have great success finding wives overseas which became a huge dating pool. Clubs were set up that provided ways for men and women to meet in a get to know you type setup, then the relationships were taken to the next level.

There was a report that came out in the "90s" that did a follow up on these marriages vs American based marriages that showed that the foreign mix marriages had a far higher success rate of the couples being content over the America based marriages. The divorce rate of American to American was 3 times higher than American to foreign. Domestic violence was 7 times higher in American to American vs American vs Foreign. Education, athletics and other topics carried the same results.

Once again thank you for bringing what I say into question as it brings more air time to the issues in a good light. People have been emailing me on the fact that you like to follow me around with skepticism. Didn't know you were such a fan of mine but I thank you.

We should have our own opposing show on dateline or something LOL


No I just think she does that to everyone.


Yes, I do question many people on what they say here. As said before, it's called trying to understand people more. :smile:

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Sun 08/14/11 09:17 AM



I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


Planet!
what ever :tongue:

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Sun 08/14/11 09:17 AM


I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


I tried. My Jazzy broke down half way there and I had to hitch hike home. ohwell

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Sun 08/14/11 09:22 AM



I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


I tried. My Jazzy broke down half way there and I had to hitch hike home. ohwell
well hell, if you were half way here you should have hitch hiked the rest of the way here frustrated

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Sun 08/14/11 09:28 AM




I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


I tried. My Jazzy broke down half way there and I had to hitch hike home. ohwell
well hell, if you were half way here you should have hitch hiked the rest of the way here frustrated


All the cars were headed west. I guess no one wanted to go to Texas. :tongue:

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Sun 08/14/11 09:31 AM

All the cars were headed west. I guess no one wanted to go to Texas. :tongue:


mad

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Sun 08/14/11 09:34 AM





I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


I tried. My Jazzy broke down half way there and I had to hitch hike home. ohwell
well hell, if you were half way here you should have hitch hiked the rest of the way here frustrated


All the cars were headed west. I guess no one wanted to go to Texas. :tongue:


Are there actual reasons to go to texas?! :tongue:

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Sun 08/14/11 09:35 AM


All the cars were headed west. I guess no one wanted to go to Texas. :tongue:


mad


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Sun 08/14/11 09:36 AM






I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


I tried. My Jazzy broke down half way there and I had to hitch hike home. ohwell
well hell, if you were half way here you should have hitch hiked the rest of the way here frustrated


All the cars were headed west. I guess no one wanted to go to Texas. :tongue:


Are there actual reasons to go to texas?! :tongue:


The only thing I know about Texas....besides a lot of cool Minglers living there.....is that they are quick to use the death penalty.

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Sun 08/14/11 09:42 AM


There maybe one......guy.
Although, he's a little busy running at the moment.


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If the right woman would come into my life, I wouldn`t be doing videos like this one anymore.:laughing: rofl

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Sun 08/14/11 09:44 AM





I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


I tried. My Jazzy broke down half way there and I had to hitch hike home. ohwell
well hell, if you were half way here you should have hitch hiked the rest of the way here frustrated


All the cars were headed west. I guess no one wanted to go to Texas. :tongue:
it's not that, it's just that we are picky as to who let in :wink:

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Sun 08/14/11 09:45 AM






I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


I tried. My Jazzy broke down half way there and I had to hitch hike home. ohwell
well hell, if you were half way here you should have hitch hiked the rest of the way here frustrated


All the cars were headed west. I guess no one wanted to go to Texas. :tongue:


Are there actual reasons to go to texas?! :tongue:
HEAT laugh

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Sun 08/14/11 09:46 AM







I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


I tried. My Jazzy broke down half way there and I had to hitch hike home. ohwell
well hell, if you were half way here you should have hitch hiked the rest of the way here frustrated


All the cars were headed west. I guess no one wanted to go to Texas. :tongue:


Are there actual reasons to go to texas?! :tongue:


.....is that they are quick to use the death penalty.
YEAH BABY :banana: :tongue:

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Sun 08/14/11 09:47 AM
No way, I would not go to Texas for heat. There's more than enough out here. laugh

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Sun 08/14/11 09:48 AM

No way, I would not go to Texas for heat. There's more than enough out here. laugh
how about if we send you a little more ? bigsmile

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Sun 08/14/11 10:19 AM






I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


I tried. My Jazzy broke down half way there and I had to hitch hike home. ohwell
well hell, if you were half way here you should have hitch hiked the rest of the way here frustrated


All the cars were headed west. I guess no one wanted to go to Texas. :tongue:
it's not that, it's just that we are picky as to who let in :wink:


Oh slam! Good comeback. laugh flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sun 08/14/11 10:21 AM


No way, I would not go to Texas for heat. There's more than enough out here. laugh
how about if we send you a little more ? bigsmile


noway

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Sun 08/14/11 10:25 AM







I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you. :tongue:
you need to come to my country :wink:


I tried. My Jazzy broke down half way there and I had to hitch hike home. ohwell
well hell, if you were half way here you should have hitch hiked the rest of the way here frustrated


All the cars were headed west. I guess no one wanted to go to Texas. :tongue:
it's not that, it's just that we are picky as to who let in :wink:


Oh slam! Good comeback. laugh flowerforyou flowerforyou
that's 1 for Texas :tongue: