Was just wondering if there are american single guys here? Maybe some that dont mind marriage and having kids?

Nicelady, maybe try a different route. Work on relocating to the place you want to live, then look for a husband?

Why are you so desperate to get married? If it's because you want a child, then adopt. Either that, or consider marrying a man who already has a child.

Sure, there is nothing wrong with relocating in order to improve the odds of you meeting single men. However, choose the lifestyle that you want first. Then find a man.

In the meantime, clean up your Mingle2 profile. Currently, your profile rambles and is difficult to read.

Why are you so desperate to get married? If it's because you want a child, then adopt. Either that, or consider marrying a man who already has a child.

Sure, there is nothing wrong with relocating in order to improve the odds of you meeting single men. However, choose the lifestyle that you want first. Then find a man.

In the meantime, clean up your Mingle2 profile. Currently, your profile rambles and is difficult to read.

America where some, if not most, of the nicest guys in the world live (I'm being biased of course). If people think American guys are piggish they should visit some of the other countries (not all) where women are treated terrible. There are some countries where women can be respected for being the loving creatures they are but most women in the world see America as being a safe haven for their hearts to land and why not. For them it is well worth the long distance search. Like wise it is not a bad idea for guys form America to look at other countries for their women counter parts. My first wife was French/Italian (states raised)and second French/Jamaican (Island raised). Both were great women, beautiful in every respect, but there was a big cultural difference.

If guys or gals are burnt out on the local stereotypes it might just be a plus to look else where. This goes both ways of course. In this regard I have seen and experienced where opposites really do attracted especially if you lean toward the artistic or want to be excepted as who you are. It is not hard to get stagnant or jaded when dealing with people who have their minds set on a social narrow mindedness trip. Imagine taking all of your "quirks" and instead of constantly being told they are wrong and you will never fit in, you are totally excepted and treasured for those quirks. In many cases long distance relationships of origin can save the day if you are feeling that no one gets you. The fact is that someone does get you somewhere in the world and it is very worthwhile to find them wherever they are. Sometimes (many times) people get labeled as a non-viable partner in the pond. They keep searching among the same old attitudes and restrictions and after time start thinking that it is them doing something wrong. The reality of this is, in many cases, that these people have merely out grown that particular pond and need to find a bigger more diverse one, more excepting one.

If your feeling crowded or judged in your pond I highly recommend you do not give up but instead go fishing somewhere else. Somewhere the fish actually have palates that can still taste your good parts and not focused on what they perceive as bad parts. You my friends are not (not one of you) undesirable and if the local crowd does not meet your needs the world crowd will.

Let me put it to you this way. If I had to live with someone always rejecting my personality and ideas and I had a chance to have someone that loved me and was able to except me for who I am the choice would be pretty easy. Why do you think there are scams that come out of particular areas of the world? Because people are capitalizing on a good thing. You think these relationships are phony setups? You need to open your eyes and see how many mixed couples are hooking up. They start talking the money thing after the first conversation sure, dump them unless it is worth your while, but if your engaged in true possibilities you might be surprised.

A scam can happen here in the states just as easy as with that person from another country. You make the call.

The world is your city, no need to stay unhappy in your closet anymore.

im noht changing my profile,my last reader liked it and it made him smile.

Let me put it to you this way. If I had to live with someone always rejecting my personality and ideas and I had a chance to have someone that loved me and was able to except me for who I am the choice would be pretty easy. Why do you think there are scams that come out of particular areas of the world? Because people are capitalizing on a good thing. You think these relationships are phony setups? You need to open your eyes and see how many mixed couples are hooking up. They start talking the money thing after the first conversation sure, dump them unless it is worth your while, but if your engaged in true possibilities you might be surprised.

A scam can happen here in the states just as easy as with that person from another country. You make the call.

<<-----Running like his butts on fire.

im noht changing my profile,my last reader liked it and it made him smile.

Did it really make the guy smile or was he mocking you? Not trying to be mean to you; but I read the profile. It really does not give a good first impression and it is difficult to read.

English not being her first language is fine. The profile is very hard to read because of spacing issues. Many words run together. That's what I'm talking about when I said it's very hard to read. As for misspellings, spell check would help out with that.

I don't think not knowing the language would affect it quite that much.

Either way, if she's fine with her profile as is and doesn't mind being passed over because some didn't want to fight through reading it, that's her choice.

You're justifying scams because they've learned to capitalize on a good thing?

I have had no luck with American guys. Maybe I need to try this approach and find someone from another country. Maybe you can find a South African for me and I can find an American for you.

you need to come to my country