U sum'd it up in a nut shell. Peapole cheat becuase they do not have the gut to break it off when that point has come. They are just spineless. Or way too co-dependant.

It is hard to say, but most of the time it is because you have bored them to death and they are looking for what you both had when you first hooked up. There are alot of people that put up a front then change not to far down the road. All I got to say about that is be your self form the start and it will go alot better. Dont always have sex in just the bedroom. That gets really boring. If you are a lady you will let him lead, but if he dont lead find some one else. For the one that think I am a cheater well I have never done that.

they are emotionally blank,low self esteem ..etc..and do not have the ability to foresee the impact on a family,until it is to late,or the maturity to identify the attraction as a natural and human condition and leave it at that....and they are selfish, and neither spouse may have recognized the selfishness until they look back..and reveiw all the I ME MYs...that was my experience..i always knew she was a blank in many ways.

Captain Kirk said it best in the theme from Star Trek

Space
The Final Frontier

these are the voyagers
of the star ship "Enterprise"

it's five year mission
to explore strange new worlds

to seek out new life
and new civilzations

to boldy go where your tallywhacker or vagina has never gone before

why are there stars in the sky, fish in the ocean, leaves on tree?

Easier to answer those questions, I think

people cheat cuz they're too cowardly to say I wanna sleep with more than one person

Actually in the situation I am most close to & familiar with, it was the "non cheating" spouse who was the more selfish...on the surface anyway in terms of generosity with tangible items....but that whole situation had several contradictions

I do not hold judgement to infidelity until I know the whole story. It is definitely wrong, but there are times when it is understandable

times I've actually cheered because she or he finally had a moment or two of happiness and gave their ill mannered spouse a little well earned payback - not that I recommend that or would do it - it is usually the first significant sign that a relationship has ended, usually

except with chronic cheaters where the relationship never had a chance to begin with

simplest reason: because they can.


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Guys cheat cause they aint gettin any at home. Thats what happens when we get cut off

When is infidelity understandable?

ummmmmm shouldn't that say Two Guys One Cup

and be posted by MY picture???

because they want too... because they had the means... becuase they had the opportunity...

and becuase they want too...

$.02

that's so mature

rather than help you cheat, I would wonder if you were not particularly good in bed if your woman had lost interest

that's what that says to me

I have already explained that to the degree that I plan to, thank you.

Ah, so it's understandable when it's payback? Revenge? I'm sure that makes for a wonderful relationship.

If you're getting cut off, you may want to figure out why. If you're cheating because you're cut off, is that going to help your relationship?

I agree

You're agreeing that cheating for revenge/payback makes for a wonderful relationship?

Women are sexually superior to men

Men are socially superior to women



What is this talk about withholding intimacy and love in spite???
Who does something like that?
To be left holding the bag(no pun).... To be left trying to figure out what's wrong? Intimacy is NOT a tool to be used to control someone.

I strongly feel, if she's going to leave me hanging... to figure it out for myself?
I'll use my "superior social" skills.

Why do you feel this way?