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| Topic: How do you know if it's REAL LOVE? | |
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I thought it WAS true love! I thought it would last forever! I never dreamed the true love was only going out and not coming back my way, only a mask that looked like love! And now I don't think I can give it all again. Maybe time will tell, but I suspect I've lost a serious part of my soul that I can't recover - a loss of innocence, and I guess a bit of lingering naivety too.
So live and learn, but be weary of giving it all away, because there's a good chance it won't all come back. But, who knows!? One of life's great mysteries! Or maybe just a beautiful illusion... FantasyArtMan |
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a.) LOVE ( what you KNOW ) - love is based on a well-knowledge of a person's strength and weaknesses. - love is among other things, "long-suffering and kind". It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. LOVE NEVER FAILS. - in love you have to a reason to be attracted to someone, and it's a good reason - not a selfish one. - real love should grow OVER TIME. AT first you're a good friend. Then little by little you like what you have come to know about the person, and you start develop a feelings that you've never had before. b.) INFATUATION ( what you feel ) - very much like crush - it could also feels like love but love includes romantic feelings. - infatuation stems from a superficial reaction to surface qualities. Also it is blind to other person's weaknesses and exaggerates his/her strength. - It DOESN'T LAST LONG. Can be attracted to someone one day and then a month later you feel the same way toward someone else. c.) LOVE can overcome obstacle, whereas INFATUATION tends to end as soon circumstances change or problems arise. It takes a lot of time to cultivate REAL LOVE. P.S. 1st: ATTRACTION ( what you see ) 2nd: INFATUATION ( what you feel ) 3rd: LOVE ( what you know ) I wasn't going to say anything at all, but... it bothers me to no end when someone as young, lovely and obviously intelligent as you... would post on their profile the following... "I am a UGLY woman, SO WHAT??!!" Why would you say that? (makes me wanna *lovingly* kick you in da butt) The reason I *did* post this, is that just last night, someone chastised *me* in one of the forums, for making fun of myself in a negative way... I did explain that I was comfortable with myself and just having fun. Maybe I should not have posted anything, but it bothered me... just sayin'... your profile is going to give the potential man of your dreams his first impression. (not flirtin', but you deserve these  ) Aha!! I think that's my headline hahahaha  But did I say anything negative about you Rusty_Knight? That part wasn't me cause I wouldn't have done that 
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Haha I already told he she shouldn't think that way about herself as she is not ugly at all. Quite the opposite.
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when they put up with all your crap and still iove you till the end.  Yep that pretty much sums it up. I agree
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