Topic: would you make the person your dating give up there pet????
Noella101's photo
Sat 07/30/11 07:09 AM


heres' a few more pixs of her...
sorry for so many pixs she's just a mommas gurl...









You have this many pics of that boyfriend?


i have a few on my phone

Queene123's photo
Sat 07/30/11 09:47 AM


hi i was just told i had to choose between a guy n my cat and the reason he told me i had to is because he got an apt that doesn't allow pets well nor does where i live i have a prescription wrote up to have my cat and if i moved i would try n see if where he wants me to live would allow it but i just don't think they would but who knows but how many would give up there pet to be with someone?? or would you give up on that person n keep your pet or would you try n see if could have both???



it truly depends up upon the reason (lease restrictions are a pretty good reason) and how much of an actual long term commitment we were in


how does one get a 'prescription' for a pet,,,btw?



its actually a note from the doc
which is mainly for medical purposes
which is mostly based on dogs
not sure much on cats
which the landlord cant say no with the medical note

prashant01's photo
Sat 07/30/11 11:37 AM
I will make that pet to date with my pet

thewaterbearer's photo
Sat 07/30/11 11:41 AM
Noella these are gorgeous pictures, and I would never never make anyone give up there pets, they are like family.

thayet153's photo
Sat 07/30/11 12:28 PM
If anyone were to tell me to get rid of my two cats, He would be getting a boot out the door and never to be talked to before. Even if he were to tell me to kill the cat cuz the cat is sick with something that is treatable, he would still get a boot out the door. My baby boys mean the world for me and will continue to treat them for their conditions for as long as they are doing well, no matter how much of a pain in the butt it can be to medicate Meowgi, I'll still medicate him.

Noella101's photo
Sat 07/30/11 02:23 PM
ya i aint goin to date im just goin to put up with my cat she has nothing wrong with her shes healthy which is a plus cuz if i notice something we r right away in at the vets

AstronomerGirl's photo
Sat 07/30/11 09:32 PM
What an adorable kitty. No man would ever become inbetween my cat and I, if he won't except it than he's gone.

Noella101's photo
Sun 07/31/11 01:15 AM
well thank you :-) her n i are cuddled up she is such a mommas gurl i dont know what i would do if i didnt have her in my life :-)

thayet153's photo
Sun 07/31/11 06:54 AM

ya i aint goin to date im just goin to put up with my cat she has nothing wrong with her shes healthy which is a plus cuz if i notice something we r right away in at the vets


My two boys both have just chronic diseases which comes with old age, Meowgi is 19 and Danielson is 13. Meowgi has hyperthyroid and danielson has diabetes, but they're treatable and they are healthy otherwise.

WolfEyez's photo
Sat 08/20/11 11:45 AM

this is my cat Noella would you if you were me give up on a cutie like her????
she's a mommas gurl n shes been through alot already she was throwin outta two homes the kids where i live tryed to kill her when she was a kitten n men hav abused her n shes doing so good with me...




Awwww!! It's my cat's twin!

NEVER choose a man over your pet. Kick him out the door and efface him from your mind. He's not worth it. My baby boy is like my child. He's spoiled and a mama's boy. He's been with me through a lot of bad crap and I wouldn't give him up for the world.

Noella101's photo
Sat 08/20/11 11:51 AM


this is my cat Noella would you if you were me give up on a cutie like her????
she's a mommas gurl n shes been through alot already she was throwin outta two homes the kids where i live tryed to kill her when she was a kitten n men hav abused her n shes doing so good with me...




Awwww!! It's my cat's twin!

NEVER choose a man over your pet. Kick him out the door and efface him from your mind. He's not worth it. My baby boy is like my child. He's spoiled and a mama's boy. He's been with me through a lot of bad crap and I wouldn't give him up for the world.


ya i found out he was joking thank god but i told him well i will keep in mind u say or do something when im gone n u r the one there to care for her i will find her n have her n i outta ur life for good.
n my lil mommas gurl has been sleeping in my mom's room with her :( n her cat has been every now n then has came into my room to sleep dont know whats goin on maybe she know's her mommy is feeling shitty n she dont want her mommy getin her sick or what

WolfEyez's photo
Sat 08/20/11 11:55 AM
Joking or not .. I never tolerate it. I think it's just mean.

Noella101's photo
Sat 08/20/11 11:57 AM
nor do i thats why im not too kindly to him right now i am allowing him in my life bit still keeping my mean strike close by

WolfEyez's photo
Sat 08/20/11 12:06 PM
yeah, that's good. Just make sure he doesn't secretly hate cats and just said he was joking when he wasn't. been there. done that.

Noella101's photo
Sat 08/20/11 12:09 PM

yeah, that's good. Just make sure he doesn't secretly hate cats and just said he was joking when he wasn't. been there. done that.

ya i knwo he's a cat person he told me even though where he lives dont allow pets he wants us to sneak her in so she can be there to live n then come back to get my stuff he grew up with cats he loves them ive seen a few pixs of him with a few cats n they were very loved by him

WolfEyez's photo
Sat 08/20/11 12:35 PM


yeah, that's good. Just make sure he doesn't secretly hate cats and just said he was joking when he wasn't. been there. done that.

ya i knwo he's a cat person he told me even though where he lives dont allow pets he wants us to sneak her in so she can be there to live n then come back to get my stuff he grew up with cats he loves them ive seen a few pixs of him with a few cats n they were very loved by him


yay .. good

no photo
Thu 08/25/11 09:58 PM

...so, hi. =)

I get the attachment to a furry creature, etc. -- those guys are the ones that will always be there for you, when the humans that you would think would be leave, one way or the other.

That said, let's add something new to the mix: everything is well between the two of you re: the relationship. He/she is affected, allergy-wise, by animal hair and/or dander. Now what? Do you break simply because of a sinus onslaught? =)

Just thought I'd throw that in for other opinions, and so on...talk amongst yourselves. =)

Darrell


That kind of thing should come up in the very beginning.

I have two cats. I'd want to find out right away that someone was allergic or didn't like them, as I am not getting rid of them for a guy. If the guy is interested in dating and is allergic, there are allergy meds that can be taken. Otherwise, it probably would not work out.

no photo
Thu 08/25/11 09:59 PM


hi i was just told i had to choose between a guy n my cat and the reason he told me i had to is because he got an apt that doesn't allow pets well nor does where i live i have a prescription wrote up to have my cat and if i moved i would try n see if where he wants me to live would allow it but i just don't think they would but who knows but how many would give up there pet to be with someone?? or would you give up on that person n keep your pet or would you try n see if could have both???



it truly depends up upon the reason (lease restrictions are a pretty good reason) and how much of an actual long term commitment we were in


how does one get a 'prescription' for a pet,,,btw?


I actually don't think lease restrictions are a good reason to get rid of pets. I'd have to wonder about the person if they were willing to give up their pets that easily. It took me a while to find my current apartment because not many places allowed cats. Rather than give them up, I kept looking until I found a place where they could come along.

Noella101's photo
Fri 08/26/11 01:05 AM
ya WELL I FOUND OUT THE JERK HAD A GIRL SHE TEXTED ME THE OTHER NIGHT GOIN OFF ON ME I WAS LIKE WTF BECAUSE I NEVER KNEW HE HAD A GIRL IN HIS LIFE I MEET HIM ON PLENTYOFFISH N HE TOLD ME HE WAS SINGLE N THAT HE TRUELY LOVED N WANTED N WHAT NOT WITH ME WOW THANKFULLY I NEVER MEET HIM SORRY FOR THE CAPS JUST WOW WAS A REAL DAMN SHOCKER TO ME SO GLAD IM SINGLE DONT THINK I WANT A MAN IN MY LIFE IF THATS HOW HE IS GOIN TO BE...

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 08/26/11 07:46 AM
Hummm sooooooooo you had never met this guy but ya'll were discussing on moving in togethernoway noway noway noway


First red flag

Then he is telling you what you have to give up...

Second red flag

Then the text

Big azz red flag.....



But to answer your question....I have a cocker spaniel that is a resue I have had her 4 years..... If a man was to tell me that she had to go I would tell
him real quick she stays see ya...waving

I may comprimise and not let her sleep with me but she will remain.